Need your opinion

Your long time boyfriend-girlfriend, fiance-fiancee or husband-wife, someone you've been with a while,
planned to go to a concert with his friends. Something he's been planning for months. That's all he's-she's been talking about.

You know your lover will have a blast and will have a lot of fun. You shared the excitement for months and asked that they send pics and messages throughout the day. That's something you do with other things and except the same for this big event.

The day of the concert, you don't hear about them at all. Not a text, nothing.
During the day, you talk to other friends of your lover, that are not at the show either and you learn that they've been talking to them all day, during lunch and pauses but that they haven't talked to you.
So it's not like they've been too busy. Just seem like they don't wanna talk to you at all.

Would you be upset?

Well...wouldn't I get to hear everything when he gets home...? And be polite and patient about it?

Why do I want to be pestered with f-king text hours in advance? Haven't I got anything else to do?

I would be annoyed if he DID text ME instead of his sucker friends.

It would probably bother me, too, but I'd also consider that maybe there wasn't a cell signal inside the building. Just because someone else can get signal, doesn't mean everyone can (different cell providers).

Yeah my feelings would be hurt if everyone and

their brother got texts throughout the day and I didn't.

I would be very difficult to reach for some time after too,

I imagine.

I would see it as him just being in the mood and maybe seeing some stuff that relates to some friends.

For example he sees a funny vodka ad and he shares that with a friend. Or something else with another friend.

I would actually think he is sending all those pics/messages to people because it's in the spirit of the moment. Meanwhile as a partner, I'd hear the whole story later.

I wouldn't be upset. Worked some events where I totally went off the map. Got a message from my partner at the time "So..umm you alive?" "Yeah, I'll tell you all about it when I get home" "Cool"

I would give him the next day to get over the hungover lol..and call him in the evening just saying "How was it?? Tell me all about it!!!"

Posted by CarRiderGirl
Your long time boyfriend-girlfriend, fiance-fiancee or husband-wife, someone you've been with a while,
planned to go to a concert with his friends. Something he's been planning for months. That's all he's-she's been talking about.

You know your lover will have a blast and will have a lot of fun. You shared the excitement for months and asked that they send pics and messages throughout the day. That's something you do with other things and except the same for this big event.

The day of the concert, you don't hear about them at all. Not a text, nothing.
During the day, you talk to other friends of your lover, that are not at the show either and you learn that they've been talking to them all day, during lunch and pauses but that they haven't talked to you.
So it's not like they've been too busy. Just seem like they don't wanna talk to you at all.

Would you be upset?

No...it's his day that was planned nor would I want to be an insecure pain in the ass trying to obligate him to a return call or text. I'd be out enjoying myself.

Posted by truecap
It would probably bother me, too, but I'd also consider that maybe there wasn't a cell signal inside the building. Just because someone else can get signal, doesn't mean everyone can (different cell providers).

I want to rephrase that.

If he said he would send pics/etc. throughout the day and didn't, it would bother me. But I would realize that there isn't always cell signal.

I wouldn't ask him to do this and wouldn't expect him to, but if he said he would, then he should do it.

After many very disturbing threads you made about how you desperately clung to the dying of a dead horse (your marriage), and a thread where you lied about a therapist picking sides, and the final thread where you stated you were finished and filing for divorce .....


... you now come back with another chapter in your dramatic saga of where the Gemini man treats you like dogshit, and you desperately want his approval of you, and to accept you.


Keyword in this thread, "longtime" man ... clearly, you are still disgracing yourself, and obviously your mutual friends, by hanging onto a person who doesn't give a rats ass.



At what point are you going to have some decency and respect for yourself?

How many lies are you going to tell?

lmao ^^...

Its one day, that he gets all to himself...he has planned for months.....he has a right to get out of the house and enjoy himself any way he sees fit and its actually a great thing that he does because its good for the relationship......If you're gonna start drama and make him feel like shit when he comes back then you're actually undoing all the good that he's done....

I watched cinderella and her mum told her to be Brave and Kind and thats what you need to be......be brave and kind..