Opinions Please

Need some adult advise about a Leo Man...
I am an Aqua Woman who met a Leo male 7 months ago. He lives in a different town and has a very interesting career. (he backs $ $ racing teams) He has always been someone who I can see myself with in the future, but a few months into us seeing, dating, talking or what ever you want to call it, he told me he was with a girl which happened to also be staying at his home. I found this out in a text after I asked him when I could see him again? Confusion!? We hadn't seen each other in a while since he is gone at various times of the year with his job. I did not take what he said well and called him a liar and a douche. He told me no one had ever spoken to him like that in his life! Oh well maybe don't do stupid things then! I do want to add that we did not have sex during this time. So I blew it off no big deal. He wasn't talking to me and I was not going to speak to him either.. oh well right? I deleted everything pics, texts, and phone # I moved on. I don't see the logic in wasting my time or anyone else's. I circular date which is, at any given time I have 5/6 guys I date or hang out with. Out of those guys I pick one to actually have sex with, I am human after all. haha.. anyway I have a pretty good non dramatic life. I just want the right guy to spend my time with. I am not going to settle for some douche.
He sent me a text 3 months later wanting to explain what happened. In grand Leo fashion expensive dinner with his closest friends and hang out on a yacht of course! We talked and hung out and then at this point we had sex so that is not what he was looking for from me.. who waits 7 months for sex? We have been talking again and I have asked him what he wants. I am not going down the same road as I did before. I explained what I want from a man laughter, understands me, I feel safe. and he just simply said he digs me. Simple I like it simple. He sends me the most beautiful songs via text which I find very romantic other people in my life do not see it. I also like that I have my time and he has his. Mine is spent bettering myself (volunteering, exercising, time w/ friends & family) His is spent with race car groupies and drivers the party life.
Does he want to settle down maybe?
He told me he likes me and I like him but should I, being exact opposites?
Is he wasting my time? Does anyone think he really like me?
How should I handle this Leo if we do really like each other?
What do you all think?

Posted by MizAqua37

He has always been someone who I can see myself with in the future, but a few months into us seeing, dating, talking or what ever you want to call it, he told me he was with a girl which happened to also be staying at his home.

This is as far as I'm going to read .... due to the fact that you kept talking many sentences after this, and due to the fact that you're here wanting opinions ... it's obvious that you have no self respect or honor, because it's obvious that you want him, and want him to want you eventhough he has treated you in this fashion.


That makes you worthless, and nothing you say after that is credible in terms of decency

Wait. What??

You met him 7 months ago.
You didn't speak for 3 of those months - you meet up again, have sex, and say since it took 7 months to have sex, I know that's not what he was looking for from me?? Ummm....you "broke it off" because he had another women, don't speak for 3 months, and then sex? THIS is a good sign from him—? good lord. You circular date?? How old are you??

Gotta agree with P-angel. I won't call you worthless...but maybe put this guy in your circular dating file? Just Wow.
I can't help but think of my 10 year old daughter and hope to hell I'm giving her a good moral compass and decent values for herself that she NEVER circular dates and picks just one to sleep with because "well,she's human".