Phone sex....

Anyone who reads this have you ever had phone sex? I am a really shy person, and when I get comfortable with someone I may come peek out of my shell a bit, but never come completely out. So for those of you who has had phone sex; What is the experience like? How can I get myself comfortable enough to open up to things such as phone sex. How do you spark up a phone sex conversation and be serious without being silly. Do you think from your experience that it has sparked up your relationship, or past relationship? What are your thoughts on this? You're advice will be greatly appreciated.

For me, it would depend on the situation .. there would be no pleasure for myself and my own desires for gratification .. however, if my man were away for a period of time and I knew that he was turning blue and didn't want to be unfaithful .. I would "talk" him through this. To just have phone sex with a random person, or one I didn't love wouldn't happen for any reason .. it would have to be for my love for my man and easing his need for release so he could function without being frustrated.

Hey I totally agree, If I plan on opening up to have phone sex, it wouldn't be with just anyone; It would have to be with someone I love and feel comfortable with.

Anyone else who has this experience?

phone sex is cool, when your partners away and you feel abit you know!! its nice!

If you're having it with the right person...phone sex can be a mind blowing experience. My ex and i lived in different states for a while and it was a way of keeping each other's mind and body stimulated and keeping the relationship spicy. If you do it right you can feel like that person is actually there with you...trust me we had some very very long nights and the nice thing is after you've orgasmed you can both roll over and go straight to sleep without feeling guilty! LOL!

You could look at a picture of your partner at first...talk about what it is you want to do to the body parts of them that you see (their lips), or hands (and where you imagine they are on your body and what those hands/fingers are doing), and so on.

Your partner will have something to say too, so have a drink. Have fun.

Phone sex tips:

Have a strong drink.
Dim the lights and play a little music.
Wearing something sexy helps to get you in the mood.
Flirt with him, tell him how he's making you feel, if you're wet let him know! :-)
Tell him what your wearing/what your doing with your hands.
Ask him what he'd like to do to you.
Get sexier, naughtier, dirtier.
Anything after that should be pure pleasure.
Above all else HAVE FUN! It's ok to laugh about it!

Once you've done it a couple times it will come as nothing to you. Sometimes my baby would call me all horny and i wouldn't be in the mood but i'd just help him out a little with some dirty talking and moans and groans here and there (secretly i'd be washing the dishes, cleaning and cooking at the same time...but he never knew) LOL!

its masturbation over the phone while someone is talking dirty in your ear... it's not all of that. i would do it, as P Angel said, to get my man through a tough time if he is away from me, but other than that, ugh, no.

Yes phone sex is just masturbation over the phone but if thats all it is then we could just say sex with a man is just him sticking the part of his body that he uses to go piss with into you! You see that doesn't sound too appealing either does it? If you are not comfortable doing something (and this could be anything) then dont! I personally used to see masturbation as something dirty too but once i began to learn about my body and realized the pleasure of being fulfilled in different ways, i can definitely say my views have changed. Also since becoming flirty 30 i have been open to a lot more sexual experimentation than i would have been in the past. So i guess it all boils down to the individual...diffent strokes for different folks!