sex question for guys...

have you ever had sex with someone and had a difficult time staying hard because you were nervous or possibly even intimidated?

i will............

So will I.

This one time I was messin around with a friend of my mothers. And she (friend of) started talking about her (mother). It was just casual chat like you might have during foreplay, and well that didn't work out to well.

I'm Just a guy answering the question.

lol well thanks guys cus i'm thinking that the pleading of the fifth answered my question nicely 😛

sorry.

"have you ever had sex with someone and had a difficult time staying hard because you were nervous or possibly even intimidated?"

Nervous? LOL, oh yeah, becuase my girlfriend(at the time) owned 4 older brothers, (big swole-assed brothers at that) I was had TOO hard of a time staying hard just thinking about what her brothers would go to me if they caught me fucking their sister...To make matters even worse for that night, 2 of them where in the their rooms sleeping.

Intimidated? No.

"Nervous? LOL, oh yeah, becuase my girlfriend(at the time) owned 4 older brothers, (big swole-assed brothers at that) I was had TOO hard of a time staying hard just thinking about what her brothers would go to me if they caught me fucking their sister...To make matters even worse for that night, 2 of them where in the their rooms sleeping."
^^^forgot to state this was in my younger years^^^

wow, that's happened to me too with a guy i was seeing but it turned out, the condom he was wearing was too small and it was choking him.

problem solved: bought bigger condoms and got right back to the ole yeeee hawwww!

I have a really big problem with condoms, I just cant put them right, first time i blew it, so my low confidence got even lower. but I dont want her to take the pill, because she gets fatter and dont like. I compensate in other ways...

awww poor thing...

So sorry your girlfriend "gets fatter". You poor guy.
What does she gain, like 5 pounds?

Try practicing with the condom when you're not with a girl.

Lol, I listen to my guy friends sex stories sometimes when their drunk, and apparently one of them was so nervous about his first time he screamed like a girl! 😆 I laughed my arse off!

Most of my other guy friends just had a few slips and even ruined it with lame foreplay. 😛

And then there was my old Scorpio boyfriend...lol, But I have no complaints about HIM though. 🙂 Have yet to discover anything about my new Cappy lover so I got nothing on him...>.> (Yet)

so your girlfriend gets "fatter" huh, so sorry for you. i can see how that could be a big problem for you... thats sarcasm by the way.

we can see that your love, if you even love her, is super unconditional. sarcasm again.

HE MEANT...
SHE doesnt want to go on the pill b/c she doesnt like it when it makes her fat.
Which is why HE still trys the condom, although he has bad experiences with condoms...
HE is only being considerate of HER wishes. (English doesnt seem to be his first language)

I agree...practice putting on condoms and buy a size that fits you.

awww man, now i feel bad. Im sorry! sorry. i thought he was saying that he didnt like fat girls. awww. i feel really bad. im sorry.

I had two guys do that to me. 😢 One, well, we were at a park having a picnic and there were a bunch of trees around but, there was a walking trail about 100 ft away that was not very busy and we were actually somewhat secluded. I was wearing a skirt and said what the heck and he couldn't because he was worried we would get caught but, he did make up for it later. 🙂 The second one well, when he drank too much he had that problem too but, he would find other ways to make me happy when that happened. 🙂

Yes Lady_M got it all right! Thank you! And yes, english is not my first language.

Your Welcome Lost Pisces.
I had to read it a few times before jumping to conclusions.

But if you dont like fat girls...well I guess that your preference 😛

p.s. practice!

nothing to do with fat, I like her like she is or will be always.

My other problem is that the pill has secondary effects, and I dont like her to use that thing.

I have to go to doctor.

Scenario for your Comments:

1. Have any of you ever known a man to NOT enjoy or need sex?
2. What if he has never had a serious relationship until the current one he was in?
3. What if he grew up in a religious community/family

Yes, this is someone i know and i am confused by him. I am just curious of your thoughts/experiences.

MercInAries ... could you go, let's say, 2 months without it or more?