Omg I received Roses from a man that is Persuing me but the problem is I don't want him like that. What do I do? Say thank you for them right? I don't want to be rude. But I don't want him to think I want something more with him
roses from an admirer
How to Respond to Roses from an Admirer
Thanking him politely is appropriate, but keep your response friendly and neutral to avoid giving mixed signals. Be clear about your boundaries if needed, while maintaining kindness. This approach respects your feelings and helps communicate your intentions without being rude or leading him on.
Posted by TaureyeOK thanks
Just tell him straight up. It prevents him from lingering, and hurting even more and it helps you get rid of that impression.
Tell him, "thank you for the flowers, they are beautiful. I'm feeling uncomfortable though, because I'm -insert excuse here- (I'm not ready for a relationship, I view you as a brother/friend, etc. etc.).
Posted by LadyNeptuneOK
Tell him, "thank you for the flowers, they are beautiful. I'm feeling uncomfortable though, because I'm -insert excuse here- (I'm not ready for a relationship, I view you as a brother/friend, etc. etc.).
Posted by victoriageminiMake sure to tell him that you value honesty and don't want to intentionally lead him on.Posted by LadyNeptuneOK
Tell him, "thank you for the flowers, they are beautiful. I'm feeling uncomfortable though, because I'm -insert excuse here- (I'm not ready for a relationship, I view you as a brother/friend, etc. etc.).click to expand
If someone gave someone flower I wouldn't think anything like what this thread title is about, why are you tripping for
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Because their roses for Valentines
If someone gave someone flower I wouldn't think anything like what this thread title is about, why are you tripping for
Posted by SensitiveBluesYou're trying to be funny but u failed
Take pictures and send to crab and all him for advice
Posted by tizianiI try œPosted by LadyNeptuneLol two very contradictory posts from you here.Posted by victoriageminiMake sure to tell him that you value honesty and don't want to intentionally lead him on.Posted by LadyNeptuneOK
Tell him, "thank you for the flowers, they are beautiful. I'm feeling uncomfortable though, because I'm -insert excuse here- (I'm not ready for a relationship, I view you as a brother/friend, etc. etc.).click to expand
Thank him politely for the roses in which he sent you but do inform him despite your appreciation for the beautiful gesture you can not have them.
If he presses the subject matter, tell him, you can not and will not receive them but you are touched at the kindness and thoughtfulness of it all.
If he presses the subject matter, tell him, you can not and will not receive them but you are touched at the kindness and thoughtfulness of it all.
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