@Starrylady07
10 Years
Broken hearted and confused
Where my family resides and my real name because I go by my nickname but i never mentioned bit because he never asked. Doesn't make it right and I take full responsibility for that.
So he's breaking up with you because you gave him a nickname and lied about where you lived or grew up —? Is this correct ?
Posted by happyface1
So he's breaking up with you because you gave him a nickname and lied about where you lived or grew up —? Is this correct ?
Yes
I have no idea why you would lie about things like that but did you tell him why you lied about it instead of pretending like it didn't exist ?
Kisses don't erase lies but honestly I don't see how he didn't figure out you're real name if you all were in a real relationship for over a year living together.
Do you both not get mail. I'm confused now.
Posted by happyface1
So he's breaking up with you because you gave him a nickname and lied about where you lived or grew up —? Is this correct ?
Yes about where I grew up
If he really loved you he would not leave you alone so easily for those reasons dear.
I have not met anyone who lied about things like that. But the first thing that comes to mind is you were ashamed about one of the two or both I don't know.
If someone can't take you for who were or where you came from then they don't deserve you now.
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