Is it possible to be "love sick?"

The three times I've been with the Cancer guy I am interested in, I get sick.

As in, actually physically stomach sick. Not that long after we say goodbye, I get violently ill (TMI)... and it happens for days. I usually lose weight, have no appetite, sometimes I can't sleep, and I have a surge of energy.

I feel like it's drug withdrawals or something. I feel totally calm when I'm with him. I have no idea if this is an actual thing. It's never happened in my life.

Damn

Posted by SensitiveBlues
yes. it's really bad form of obesssion

This.

I remember that feeling when I woukd see the Cancer guy I went out on a date with, it wasn't love sick though, he just made me want to vomit......

Posted by Greentea
I remember that feeling when I woukd see the Cancer guy I went out on a date with, it wasn't love sick though, he just made me want to vomit......

Don't you have the Scorpios ass to go and kiss?

We know you don't like us(Cancers), we get it.. The feeling is highly mutual.

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Posted by Greentea
I remember that feeling when I woukd see the Cancer guy I went out on a date with, it wasn't love sick though, he just made me want to vomit......

Don't you have the Scorpios ass to go and kiss?

We know you don't like us(Cancers), we get it.. The feeling is highly mutual.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
yes. it's really bad form of obesssion

Mmm, I would have to be obsessed for it to be 'a bad form of obsession.' I'm not. I'm not boiling bunnies, naming babies after him and plotting to systematically kill all the females on his FB friend list.

At first I just thought I got a stomach virus lol. Then I realized it's not random.

Maybe I'm allergic to him.

@Crabra @SensitiveBlues @KinglyCrab I find it interesting that you are Cancers and you're the ones who seem to think it's negative.

I'd complain, but it's kept me at my goal weight, so...

Sounds like he's just giving you IBS

Sounds like he's poisoning you, literally. Watch out.

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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Sounds like he's poisoning you, literally. Watch out.

Really? That's the best conclusion you can make?

You must be inbred

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
This is a symptom you should look into so it doesn't turn into an anxiety disorder

It's not healthy

Thank you for saying that. I am actually in therapy because I've have an anxiety disorders. We talk about this guy. My doc hasn't said what she thinks it is yet. Let's see if it happens next time.

The weird part is I am calm and happy before I see him and when I am with him. I feel mentally and physically fine when he goes, and then... suddenly... my stomach just revolts.

So he either causes me more stress than I am allowing myself to believe, or I am getting such a crazy high from him that this is what happens. Like heroin. From what I've read.

Maybe with your guys, and maybe with this guy, our subconscious is/was telling us something that is/was not registering. Like, "danger," or, "this is going to be something big."

Nothing but anxiety . I had it soon bad at one point...he just make you nervous