Where are these women?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by HouseCleaning on Tuesday, February 9, 2016 and has 20 replies.

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there is this local homeless bum i keep seeing around the area. after a little investigative work talking to people in the area, the word on the streets is this guy was offered a place to live, sleep, eat, shit, shave, shower by a total stranger, a woman. however, in exchange this mysterious woman wanted one thing from him, on demand sex; a sex slave basically. its a really sweet deal for someone in that position. a warm place to stay and all you got to do is bang the life out of some woman. you can even have your bum friends show up to join you.

he declined

i don't give a FUCK about the bum's answer, there no in-depth explanation analysis or outrage needed for his answer. hes a stupid homeless bum, he'll always be a stupid homeless bum, hes with the mange animals on the street, his own kind, end of story. what i want to know is where are these women? why aren't there more women like this out there? do i have to be fucking homeless meandering the streets in the cold nights wearing fingerless gloves, one shoe, hobbling because i lost circulation to my toes of my bare foot while reeking of urine to run into these women?

this is not the first time i've heard an offer like this proposed under these circumstances.

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Posted by HouseCleaning
there is this local homeless bum i keep seeing around the area. after a little investigative work talking to people in the area, the word on the streets is this guy was offered a place to live, sleep, eat, shit, shave, shower by a total stranger, a woman. however, in exchange this mysterious woman wanted one thing from him, on demand sex; a sex slave basically. its a really sweet deal for someone in that position. a warm place to stay and all you got to do is bang the life out of some woman. you can even have your bum friends show up to join you.

he declined

i don't give a FUCK about the bum's answer, there no in-depth explanation analysis or outrage needed for his answer. hes a stupid homeless bum, he'll always be a stupid homeless bum, hes with the mange animals on the street, his own kind, end of story. what i want to know is where are these women? why aren't there more women like this out there? do i have to be fucking homeless meandering the streets in the cold nights wearing fingerless gloves, one shoe, hobbling because i lost circulation to my toes of my bare foot while reeking of urine to run into these women?

this is not the first time i've heard an offer like this proposed under these circumstances.

I don't know but they're somewhere on the internet just go and find you a sugar momma or something along those lines. He's homeless not stupid its a difference he knows how to survive not be used as a human dildo.

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Posted by Imarollin
I had a homeless bum friend back in the day. He refused all my food, all my chairty (I didn't offer sex though) he was content on being homeless.

I can't understand it to this day.

When I talked to him on nights I'd come home from the downtown district I lived and he stayed, he told me he was in the military and that he'd never pay a single cent to the government again. And that's his explanation for being homeless.

I think your reasoning was different and I don't know your background but a part of me thinks homeless people have severe mental disabilities. And I half way agree to not enter a hospital for medicines for help. Hell. This dude just wanted complete freedom. Sadly he was downtown in the bible belt when, IMO, he should have been backpacking to Colorado to the wide open spaces.

yes this stupid bum i was talking about seems pretty happy with his freedom. you can even see it sometimes through the misery on his face. this wasn't what i was asking about though

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Posted by Imarollin
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I dunno man. I guess there are all over. Some women help even despite their return. People have bug hearts to those who are TRULY in need ya know? They need to feel like they make a difference and are taking care of others.

but wait, exchanging sex for care is a big heart?

In some demented way, sure. Any act of giving is still, giving, right?

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it seems more like a trade, but a generous trade, maybe. probably some strings. i don't know anything more beyond what i heard

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Posted by Imarollin
Posted by HouseCleaning
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I dunno man. I guess there are all over. Some women help even despite their return. People have bug hearts to those who are TRULY in need ya know? They need to feel like they make a difference and are taking care of others.

but wait, exchanging sex for care is a big heart?

In some demented way, sure. Any act of giving is still, giving, right?

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Erm no. The situation described in the OP is definitely an exchange of goods and services. So yes a trade. If the woman really had a big heart then she'd offer those things with no serious obligations in return. I personally consider it more towards a self-satisfying offer from the woman. Unfortunately for her, not everyone values things the same.

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Posted by thinktoomuch
Posted by HouseCleaning
there is this local homeless bum i keep seeing around the area. after a little investigative work talking to people in the area, the word on the streets is this guy was offered a place to live, sleep, eat, shit, shave, shower by a total stranger, a woman. however, in exchange this mysterious woman wanted one thing from him, on demand sex; a sex slave basically. its a really sweet deal for someone in that position. a warm place to stay and all you got to do is bang the life out of some woman. you can even have your bum friends show up to join you.

he declined

i don't give a FUCK about the bum's answer, there no in-depth explanation analysis or outrage needed for his answer. hes a stupid homeless bum, he'll always be a stupid homeless bum, hes with the mange animals on the street, his own kind, end of story. what i want to know is where are these women? why aren't there more women like this out there? do i have to be fucking homeless meandering the streets in the cold nights wearing fingerless gloves, one shoe, hobbling because i lost circulation to my toes of my bare foot while reeking of urine to run into these women?

this is not the first time i've heard an offer like this proposed under these circumstances.

Well apparently yes, you do. Or join a forum or club, where being a slave and a master is kinda the point. If you want to get into that community, it shouldn´t be that hard.

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i don't mean actual bdsm sex slave. i mean something like a dildo that talks.

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Posted by Jenna77
Was he hot?

For real though, some women feel attracted to weak men that somehow they can protect

yea i was checking his butt out and everything.

you're asking the wrong person. all he has is the rugged i'm homeless person look. oh i forgot to mention he could be in his late 20s early 30s.

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Posted by Imarollin
I had a homeless bum friend back in the day. He refused all my food, all my chairty (I didn't offer sex though) he was content on being homeless.

I can't understand it to this day.

When I talked to him on nights I'd come home from the downtown district I lived and he stayed, he told me he was in the military and that he'd never pay a single cent to the government again. And that's his explanation for being homeless.

I think your reasoning was different and I don't know your background but a part of me thinks homeless people have severe mental disabilities. And I half way agree to not enter a hospital for medicines for help. Hell. This dude just wanted complete freedom. Sadly he was downtown in the bible belt when, IMO, he should have been backpacking to Colorado to the wide open spaces.


When I first time met a homeless in my life, in Europe, I thought about how they came to this. And my answer (and I'm still stuck with it) was that they have experienced a wave of shocking disappointments. They don't like the others but they don't want to be agressive and "BAD" as the others either.

So they harm themselves cause we are bad. and they are so sensitive that they see the bad part in their character, whenever somebody wants to help them. for example if we are not really compassionate but only ethically correct. Like we would not sit with them on the floor. we would worry about small insects which could climb us if sitting near to them.

But it can also be that some of them have undiagnosed mental diseases like brain syst. that makes angry. the younger ones might be processing the belated teenage years. or trying to damage themselves cause they are not strong enough to rise against their fathers.

different folks and reasons.