If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
Should a woman ask a guy out on a first date?
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Posted by sunkisses26I am the woman 🙂Posted by Cg2016I think either sex can bring up the date? are you the boy or the girl?
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?click to expand
I just met him right & he's hot lol.
I seen him again this Saturday at the bar we met at.
And he was trying to kiss me the whooollleee night.
I snuck one and I let him peck me a few times.
But I didn't really want to makeout with him before a date.
I guess I'm weird like that.
So today while we were texting he asked me if I was doing anything later today & I said nothing planned, why? Then he goes just asking -_-
But call me prideful but I didn't feel like I should bring up seeing him after that. I could be wrong.
P.S. I'm the one who texted him to come to the bar that night. We're texting right now btw lol
Posted by sunkisses26Gemini with a cap moon. I forgot his rising but I'll look it up again.Posted by Cg2016whats his sign? it sounds like to me he was feeling out the situation hoping you would take the plunge and ask lol why don't you wanna ask him out anymore 😢Posted by sunkisses26I am the woman 🙂Posted by Cg2016I think either sex can bring up the date? are you the boy or the girl?
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
I just met him right & he's hot lol.
I seen him again this Saturday at the bar we met at.
And he was trying to kiss me the whooollleee night.
I snuck one and I let him peck me a few times.
But I didn't really want to makeout with him before a date.
I guess I'm weird like that.
So today while we were texting he asked me if I was doing anything later today & I said nothing planned, why? Then he goes just asking -_-
But call me prideful but I didn't feel like I should bring up seeing him after that. I could be wrong.click to expand
I doooooo want to see him! But I feel like if he asked me what I was doing later why wouldn't he bring up seeing me after that? *angry face* I had noootthhiiinnggg to do all day so I'm like well if he's not going to ask then I'm going to leave it be until he does. Idk if that's me being a dickhead though. I like to be invited out, you know courted properly. I don't like that "so....so..." unsure shit. Man take the fuckin dive! Lol 🙂
Posted by YourMajestyYes, I agree with this.
Guys sometimes think with their tail unfortunately when gals initiate.
Don't ask a guy out unless your intent is indulging in a purely sexual relationship.
Posted by sunkisses26Posted by Cg2016hahahahahaha I get it!!! I hate having to ask guys out (Im kind of scary lol ) but I will if I really like themPosted by sunkisses26Gemini with a cap moon. I forgot his rising but I'll look it up again.Posted by Cg2016whats his sign? it sounds like to me he was feeling out the situation hoping you would take the plunge and ask lol why don't you wanna ask him out anymore 😢Posted by sunkisses26I am the woman 🙂Posted by Cg2016I think either sex can bring up the date? are you the boy or the girl?
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
I just met him right & he's hot lol.
I seen him again this Saturday at the bar we met at.
And he was trying to kiss me the whooollleee night.
I snuck one and I let him peck me a few times.
But I didn't really want to makeout with him before a date.
I guess I'm weird like that.
So today while we were texting he asked me if I was doing anything later today & I said nothing planned, why? Then he goes just asking -_-
But call me prideful but I didn't feel like I should bring up seeing him after that. I could be wrong.
I doooooo want to see him! But I feel like if he asked me what I was doing later why wouldn't he bring up seeing me after that? *angry face* I had noootthhiiinnggg to do all day so I'm like well if he's not going to ask then I'm going to leave it be until he does. Idk if that's me being a dickhead though. I like to be invited out, you know courted properly. I don't like that "so....so..." unsure shit. Man take the fuckin dive! Lol 🙂
me on flirting (in my mind come on! ask me out! >.
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Yaaasssssssssss exactlyyyy! I need him to take the initiative. Like you know how to take the initiative to kiss me and ask me to come upstairs after the bar but not how to ask me on a date? Yeah have a seat lol
Posted by WynterI refused to so yup thanks yall.Posted by YourMajestyYes, I agree with this.
Guys sometimes think with their tail unfortunately when gals initiate.
Don't ask a guy out unless your intent is indulging in a purely sexual relationship.click to expand
Posted by Cg2016No. Just no.
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
He's a Gemini, so if you really are into him, trigger something else in him other than looks, sex, body, etc. because quite frankly they don't give a damn about that for the long haul. If he's just someone you wanna have fun with, then by all means...& please, please have some sort of conversation & intellect!!!!! ¬¬¬
Posted by RealTalkYeah I know they're intellectual beings. I am a sapiosexual myself. I'm also hilarious lmao. I'm not going to ask him out. That's weird for me. I did invite him to this art gallery exhibition I'll be modeling in tomorrow since it starts when he gets off work. I figured that was appropriate.
He's a Gemini, so if you really are into him, trigger something else in him other than looks, sex, body, etc. because quite frankly they don't give a damn about that for the long haul. If he's just someone you wanna have fun with, then by all means...& please, please have some sort of conversation & intellect!!!!! ¬¬¬
Don't ask him out.
If hes really interested, wait for him to ask, if he doesn't he's playing.
And if you ask him if hes playing, he will deny it and he will still keep talking to you for attention and not ask you out, or he will ask you out and cancel or no show keeping you on a line.
These are common games you can read about on every zodiac sign of this forum, Ive noticed the trends.
If hes really interested, wait for him to ask, if he doesn't he's playing.
And if you ask him if hes playing, he will deny it and he will still keep talking to you for attention and not ask you out, or he will ask you out and cancel or no show keeping you on a line.
These are common games you can read about on every zodiac sign of this forum, Ive noticed the trends.
http://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/venus-vs-mars-hunting-vs-attracting-men/
From the above link:
"Mars in Scorpio hunts effectively.
Venus in Sagittarius seeks fun, adventure and experience with men she’ll ultimately leave.
Venus in the first house wants a challenge.
Mars in the 12th is confused."
I guess men who were hunted by a Scorp Mars are very thankful.
I am the one with Sag V. Saying it is not true for me would be a lie.
From the above link:
"Mars in Scorpio hunts effectively.
Venus in Sagittarius seeks fun, adventure and experience with men she’ll ultimately leave.
Venus in the first house wants a challenge.
Mars in the 12th is confused."
I guess men who were hunted by a Scorp Mars are very thankful.
I am the one with Sag V. Saying it is not true for me would be a lie.
Posted by GobshiteThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other fucking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
Posted by thinktoomuchOr better yet she can lead herself on to believing his intentions are pure thru his inconsistent actions leading her to "take the lead" all in the name of "equality" only to become the fwb and inconsistently.
A woman should always just sit in the corner and stay quiet at all times and never initiate anything. For her own sake ofcours.
Haven't we seen this a few too many times on these boards?
Posted by CocoKatI don't let men take me that far lmao. If I sense bullshit even a little I'm out. I look good lmao. I'll just get another one *flips hair* ðŸ'…
Don't ask him out.
If hes really interested, wait for him to ask, if he doesn't he's playing.
And if you ask him if hes playing, he will deny it and he will still keep talking to you for attention and not ask you out, or he will ask you out and cancel or no show keeping you on a line.
These are common games you can read about on every zodiac sign of this forum, Ive noticed the trends.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveHunting is cool, but then again I like to turn the tables and be hunted. I don't like to feel that I'm chasing a man. It never gets those damsel in distress results lmaooo
http://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/venus-vs-mars-hunting-vs-attracting-men/
From the above link:
"Mars in Scorpio hunts effectively.
Venus in Sagittarius seeks fun, adventure and experience with men she’ll ultimately leave.
Venus in the first house wants a challenge.
Mars in the 12th is confused."
I guess men who were hunted by a Scorp Mars are very thankful.
I am the one with Sag V. Saying it is not true for me would be a lie.
Posted by Cg2016His mars is in cancer & his rising is aquaPosted by DwellingOnMoveHunting is cool, but then again I like to turn the tables and be hunted. I don't like to feel that I'm chasing a man. It never gets those damsel in distress results lmaooo
http://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/venus-vs-mars-hunting-vs-attracting-men/
From the above link:
"Mars in Scorpio hunts effectively.
Venus in Sagittarius seeks fun, adventure and experience with men she’ll ultimately leave.
Venus in the first house wants a challenge.
Mars in the 12th is confused."
I guess men who were hunted by a Scorp Mars are very thankful.
I am the one with Sag V. Saying it is not true for me would be a lie.click to expand
Posted by GobshiteI haven't played a game yet lmao. I just have standards. If I dig you, you will court me. I invited him to me twice: once on Saturday & to my show today. Now it's his turn. I think that's fair.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other fucking mind games.
Posted by CocoKatRight suppose he's trying to play with me. Never works though. I don't risk without reward lmao. Can't get too far with me and games.Posted by GobshiteThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other fucking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
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Posted by _Lmaooo the phone on my booty has been disconnected lmaoooooooo
#BOOTYCALLZ
#FRIENDZWITHBENEFIT
#FUCCBOI
#KANYE2020
No she shouldn't.
Posted by CocoKatI don't do well with being strung along or with inconsistent males. I cut them off as soon as they start lol. Ain't got the time.Posted by thinktoomuchOr better yet she can lead herself on to believing his intentions are pure thru his inconsistent actions leading her to "take the lead" all in the name of "equality" only to become the fwb and inconsistently.
A woman should always just sit in the corner and stay quiet at all times and never initiate anything. For her own sake ofcours.
Haven't we seen this a few too many times on these boards?click to expand
Posted by Cg2016Posted by _Lmaooo the phone on my booty has been disconnected lmaoooooooo
#BOOTYCALLZ
#FRIENDZWITHBENEFIT
#FUCCBOI
#KANYE2020click to expand
HOTLINE BLING
Posted by RyokoOh I'm not going to get hurt. I don't just give out feelings and attachment lol. I was not trying to let him kiss me *sigh* but he was in my face alllll night trying sooo hard lmaoooo. Then when I had him walk me to the car it's very pretty & scenic over there so I just let him a little bit. I rejected him most of the night. Then I texted him later like my rejecting his kissesPosted by Cg2016With a cap moon and gem sun he's a manly man. Do not ask him out. Let things progress naturally. BE his friend first if you want a relationship. Don't kiss this fool. RUN they are flirts and will crush your heart.Posted by sunkisses26Gemini with a cap moon.I forgot his rising but I'll look it up again.Posted by Cg2016whats his sign? it sounds like to me he was feeling out the situation hoping you would take the plunge and ask lol why don't you wanna ask him out anymore 😢Posted by sunkisses26I am the woman 🙂Posted by Cg2016I think either sex can bring up the date? are you the boy or the girl?
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
I just met him right & he's hot lol.
I seen him again this Saturday at the bar we met at.
And he was trying to kiss me the whooollleee night.
I snuck one and I let him peck me a few times.
But I didn't really want to makeout with him before a date.
I guess I'm weird like that.
So today while we were texting he asked me if I was doing anything later today & I said nothing planned, why? Then he goes just asking -_-
But call me prideful but I didn't feel like I should bring up seeing him after that. I could be wrong.
I doooooo want to see him! But I feel like if he asked me what I was doing later why wouldn't he bring up seeing me after that? *angry face* I had noootthhiiinnggg to do all day so I'm like well if he's not going to ask then I'm going to leave it be until he does. Idk if that's me being a dickhead though. I like to be invited out, you know courted properly. I don't like that "so....so..." unsure shit. Man take the fuckin dive! Lol 🙂
I'm a scorp sun with cap rising as well and i dealt with a gem sun gem rising cap moon once. Do not jump in. Tread carefully, protect your heart.click to expand
His signs:
Sun- Gem
Moon- Cap
Mars- Cancer
Venus- Gem
Rising- Aqua
Sun- Gem
Moon- Cap
Mars- Cancer
Venus- Gem
Rising- Aqua
Posted by RyokoDude fix it back lol
SHIT i accidentally bolded the whole fucking thing! I'm on my phone btw which makes typing difficult. I'm not Internet retarded.
Posted by thinktoomuchA question isn't dumb if you're engaging in a conversation to get the perspectives of people you don't know lol. Tf. I know what I think, I just wanna know what yall think. Would definitely help to read the back story if you're really interested in chiming in though..Posted by CocoKatHonestly I didn´t read the topic, I just read the title, and answered the general question, ´cause how stupid of a question is that?!?!Posted by thinktoomuchOr better yet she can lead herself on to believing his intentions are pure thru his inconsistent actions leading her to "take the lead" all in the name of "equality" only to become the fwb and inconsistently.
A woman should always just sit in the corner and stay quiet at all times and never initiate anything. For her own sake ofcours.
Haven't we seen this a few too many times on these boards?
But hey, women´s got to learn thought right?!?! Maybe she should ask him out and get pied massively.
I am in another topic advicing another girl to not being friends with a guy, she is interested in, but he only see her as a buddy. But I have a strong feeling, that she is not in any way gonna take my advice 😄 And I didn´t take that advice myself as a younger woman. But now I´ve learned my lesson, and I´ll never forget it.
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Posted by thinktoomuchThat's what I thought...Posted by CocoKatHonestly I didn´t read the topic, I just read the title, and answered the general question, ´cause how stupid of a question is that?!?!Posted by thinktoomuchOr better yet she can lead herself on to believing his intentions are pure thru his inconsistent actions leading her to "take the lead" all in the name of "equality" only to become the fwb and inconsistently.
A woman should always just sit in the corner and stay quiet at all times and never initiate anything. For her own sake ofcours.
Haven't we seen this a few too many times on these boards?
But hey, women´s got to learn thought right?!?! Maybe she should ask him out and get pied massively.
I am in another topic advicing another girl to not being friends with a guy, she is interested in, but he only see her as a buddy. But I have a strong feeling, that she is not in any way gonna take my advice 😄 And I didn´t take that advice myself as a younger woman. But now I´ve learned my lesson, and I´ll never forget it.
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I swear to everything any time a woman post yall swear to god she's trying to fall in love or some bullshit... the question was straight.. nooooobody mentioned love... tf...
Posted by Cg2016but he is trying to play games with you. You asked him out twice already, you've initiated most of the texts and the few times you've connected he's "almost" asked you out (you think) but he hasn't quite done it. Hes trying to get you to chase him. Gemini venus is the worst. I wouldn't contact him again.Posted by CocoKatRight suppose he's trying to play with me. Never works though. I don't risk without reward lmao. Can't get too far with me and games.Posted by GobbuttereThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other treetrunking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
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Posted by CocoKatHold up. I never ever said I initiated most of the texts though hun. He's texted me equally, hell he even calls me. Sometimes before he falls asleep. I met him the Saturday before last. It's Tuesday... I'll give him a little more time. It's not THAT deep. He looks good, but not too good to get cut off lol. I'm not hung up on him or no where near love.... it's not that deep. I just wanted to know how the general population felt about such a thing as a woman asking a man on a first date because uhhhh I won't do it lol.Posted by Cg2016but he is trying to play games with you. You asked him out twice already, you've initiated most of the texts and the few times you've connected he's "almost" asked you out (you think) but he hasn't quite done it. Hes trying to get you to chase him. Gemini venus is the worst. I wouldn't contact him again.Posted by CocoKatRight suppose he's trying to play with me. Never works though. I don't risk without reward lmao. Can't get too far with me and games.Posted by GobbuttereThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other treetrunking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
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Posted by RyokoWhat's your story? I'm curious.Posted by Cg2016Those are the same placements as the guy I'm talking about except he was a gem rising.
His signs:
Sun- Gem
Moon- Cap
Mars- Cancer
Venus- Gem
Rising- Aqua
I don't hand out my feelings either but i got emotionally involved on accident--didn't even notice it happened.
Be careful
BE VERY CAREFUL TRUST ME (NOT HIM)click to expand
Posted by Cg2016nope. let him be the hunter he was born to be. it will mean more at the end if he does it. You can suggest. But, imo, its so much better and feels better for your ego if a guy is constantly asking you out.
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
everytime you say yes, you raise his confidence and he inflates your ego at the same time.
he will feel like a real champion.
Posted by bkbella86pretty pic
No she shouldn't.
Posted by DMVSounds like what I think too. Ok so he can't come to my show tonight, so I told him he has to make it up to me and he goes how do I do that so I say you're a very smart man you'll figure it out. I hope he does for his sake. He got about 1 more week to bring up a date or the cut off process will commence.Posted by Cg2016nope. let him be the hunter he was born to be. it will mean more at the end if he does it. You can suggest. But, imo, its so much better and feels better for your ego if a guy is constantly asking you out.
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
everytime you say yes, you raise his confidence and he inflates your ego at the same time.
he will feel like a real champion.click to expand
Posted by RyokoSure! I mean I'm a scorp so I don't think me and him will get far anyway, but I'd still like to read your storyPosted by Cg2016Do you want me to PM the whole thing? It's six pages. Maybe it can help youPosted by RyokoWhat's your story? I'm curious.Posted by Cg2016Those are the same placements as the guy I'm talking about except he was a gem rising.
His signs:
Sun- Gem
Moon- Cap
Mars- Cancer
Venus- Gem
Rising- Aqua
I don't hand out my feelings either but i got emotionally involved on accident--didn't even notice it happened.
Be careful
BE VERY CAREFUL TRUST ME (NOT HIM)click to expand
Posted by RyokoOk coolPosted by Cg2016I'll send it to you later when I'm on the computer.Posted by RyokoSure! I mean I'm a scorp so I don't think me and him will get far anyway, but I'd still like to read your storyPosted by Cg2016Do you want me to PM the whole thing? It's six pages. Maybe it can help youPosted by RyokoWhat's your story? I'm curious.Posted by Cg2016Those are the same placements as the guy I'm talking about except he was a gem rising.
His signs:
Sun- Gem
Moon- Cap
Mars- Cancer
Venus- Gem
Rising- Aqua
I don't hand out my feelings either but i got emotionally involved on accident--didn't even notice it happened.
Be careful
BE VERY CAREFUL TRUST ME (NOT HIM)click to expand
Posted by Cg2016what his venus— took 3 months for this aries dude to ask me out.Posted by DMVSounds like what I think too. Ok so he can't come to my show tonight, so I told him he has to make it up to me and he goes how do I do that so I say you're a very smart man you'll figure it out. I hope he does for his sake. He got about 1 more week to bring up a date or the cut off process will commence.Posted by Cg2016nope. let him be the hunter he was born to be. it will mean more at the end if he does it. You can suggest. But, imo, its so much better and feels better for your ego if a guy is constantly asking you out.
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
everytime you say yes, you raise his confidence and he inflates your ego at the same time.
he will feel like a real champion.click to expand
Posted by DMVHis venus is in cancerPosted by Cg2016what his venus— took 3 months for this aries dude to ask me out.Posted by DMVSounds like what I think too. Ok so he can't come to my show tonight, so I told him he has to make it up to me and he goes how do I do that so I say you're a very smart man you'll figure it out. I hope he does for his sake. He got about 1 more week to bring up a date or the cut off process will commence.Posted by Cg2016nope. let him be the hunter he was born to be. it will mean more at the end if he does it. You can suggest. But, imo, its so much better and feels better for your ego if a guy is constantly asking you out.
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
everytime you say yes, you raise his confidence and he inflates your ego at the same time.
he will feel like a real champion.click to expand
Posted by Cg2016Shit his venus is in Gemini sorryPosted by DMVHis venus is in cancerPosted by Cg2016what his venus— took 3 months for this aries dude to ask me out.Posted by DMVSounds like what I think too. Ok so he can't come to my show tonight, so I told him he has to make it up to me and he goes how do I do that so I say you're a very smart man you'll figure it out. I hope he does for his sake. He got about 1 more week to bring up a date or the cut off process will commence.Posted by Cg2016nope. let him be the hunter he was born to be. it will mean more at the end if he does it. You can suggest. But, imo, its so much better and feels better for your ego if a guy is constantly asking you out.
If a guy is pursuing the girl and wants her or whatever should the woman be responsible for bringing up a date? Or what are your thoughts on something like this?
everytime you say yes, you raise his confidence and he inflates your ego at the same time.
he will feel like a real champion.click to expand
Posted by InstantkarmaLmaooo hot mess. Well he's loke really hot. He's 6'4 & his body is omgggg so sex was a thought, but since I'm so mental about ish I'd need a little bit more to actually take it there with him. Meh.
He is a Gemini Sun and Venus with an aqua rising. Cancer mars and cap moon! I wonder if that mars opposes moon.... hmmm
He should be one hot mess!.
If I were into one night stands, I would use him for sex. And that's about it.
So initiate if your emotions are not involved. If you are looking for anything more, it is gonna be very chaotic.
He is a Gem sun and Venus, if he wanted to ask you out, he would have by now. Even with that Cancer Mars, he would have.
Maybe you are initiating too much? Disappear on him. Then see him chase you.
Still, there is nothing sexier than a woman initating...sex... if sex is all she wants!!! Sad but that's how it works.
Posted by Cg2016Oh, OK got it... I was under the impression you where doing all the contacting. If hes calling you before he goes to sleep, you maybe his backup girl (in his head because he knows you like him.. that's how venus and sun in gemini work. They don't... they get bored before anything even takes off. I would not be so eager to pick up for him, see if he actually wants to see you, then you'll know. I'm happy your not hung up on him. I had a gemini venus do some real damage (he was also a sun) similar.. lots of texting, late night phone calls.. very little real life contact. I kept asking him out, he kept making excuses, I was persuing hard like all my male friends told me too. Big Mistake.Posted by CocoKatHold up. I never ever said I initiated most of the texts though hun. He's texted me equally, hell he even calls me. Sometimes before he falls asleep. I met him the Saturday before last. It's Tuesday... I'll give him a little more time. It's not THAT deep. He looks good, but not too good to get cut off lol. I'm not hung up on him or no where near love.... it's not that deep. I just wanted to know how the general population felt about such a thing as a woman asking a man on a first date because uhhhh I won't do it lol.Posted by Cg2016but he is trying to play games with you. You asked him out twice already, you've initiated most of the texts and the few times you've connected he's "almost" asked you out (you think) but he hasn't quite done it. Hes trying to get you to chase him. Gemini venus is the worst. I wouldn't contact him again.Posted by CocoKatRight suppose he's trying to play with me. Never works though. I don't risk without reward lmao. Can't get too far with me and games.Posted by GobbuttereThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other treetrunking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
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If he is eager to see you, he will find a way to make one of your invites without any excuses. hes trying to set you up (in his mind) for sex when you say "make it up to me" but hes not so interested he is actively persuing. This situation mirrored my own exactly. Mine was a gemini sun/venus, pisces moon.. we hung out several times in the beginning. That man put me thru almost, but not quite anything happening.. because he wasn't that into me. It took 2 years to get over him and then he reappeared hoping to court me again. Stupidly I let him back for him only to lose interest once I regained mine. We had a date for a "possible" hook up that he bailed on once again. It was all a game to feed his ego. I was a game to him, my feelings too.
Gemini venus and sun men are very good with mind games and they are very sexy, lead women on with it. Its my LEAST favorite position for men.
Posted by CocoKatPosted by Cg2016Oh, OK got it... I was under the impression you where doing all the contacting. If hes calling you before he goes to sleep, you maybe his backup girl (in his head because he knows you like him.. that's how venus and sun in gemini work. They don't... they get bored before anything even takes off. I would not be so eager to pick up for him, see if he actually wants to see you, then you'll know. I'm happy your not hung up on him. I had a gemini venus do some real damage (he was also a sun) similar.. lots of texting, late night phone calls.. very little real life contact. I kept asking him out, he kept making excuses, I was persuing hard like all my male friends told me too. Big Mistake.Posted by CocoKatHold up. I never ever said I initiated most of the texts though hun. He's texted me equally, hell he even calls me. Sometimes before he falls asleep. I met him the Saturday before last. It's Tuesday... I'll give him a little more time. It's not THAT deep. He looks good, but not too good to get cut off lol. I'm not hung up on him or no where near love.... it's not that deep. I just wanted to know how the general population felt about such a thing as a woman asking a man on a first date because uhhhh I won't do it lol.Posted by Cg2016but he is trying to play games with you. You asked him out twice already, you've initiated most of the texts and the few times you've connected he's "almost" asked you out (you think) but he hasn't quite done it. Hes trying to get you to chase him. Gemini venus is the worst. I wouldn't contact him again.Posted by CocoKatRight suppose he's trying to play with me. Never works though. I don't risk without reward lmao. Can't get too far with me and games.Posted by GobbuttereThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other treetrunking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
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Oooohh I see. Well he works and is in school. He also is a semi-pro soccer player. I mean I just met him so I'm not going to go to crazy about his communication skills because it's not like he has been doing anything sus thus far. I'm not even trying to analyze that shit and who he has or may n
Posted by InstantkarmaYeah. I don't see me getting wrapped up in my feelings though because well I don't feel anything. He's just hot so far. I've been numb for like a year though so good luck to him if he wants me to sweat him. I don't do thosePosted by Cg2016With his placements, he is very capable of giving you a "mental" connection.Posted by InstantkarmaLmaooo hot mess. Well he's loke really hot. He's 6'4 & his body is omgggg so sex was a thought, but since I'm so mental about ish I'd need a little bit more to actually take it there with him. Meh.
He is a Gemini Sun and Venus with an aqua rising. Cancer mars and cap moon! I wonder if that mars opposes moon.... hmmm
He should be one hot mess!.
If I were into one night stands, I would use him for sex. And that's about it.
So initiate if your emotions are not involved. If you are looking for anything more, it is gonna be very chaotic.
He is a Gem sun and Venus, if he wanted to ask you out, he would have by now. Even with that Cancer Mars, he would have.
Maybe you are initiating too much? Disappear on him. Then see him chase you.
Still, there is nothing sexier than a woman initating...sex... if sex is all she wants!!! Sad but that's how it works.
I feel he has a heart breaker chart. Now that you said he is a hottie... and argh! You are a Scorp.
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Got it! I only wanted to share my experience with you hoping someone would've for me, I would have known how to protect myself form unnecessary heartbreak. Mine was a computer nerd. But to be fair I do live in an area where men are a rare commodity, so even the nerdiest have the capability to become playas.. haha.
Posted by CocoKatI wish he would try to play me. I play a good disappearing act lmao.
Gemini venus and sun men are very good with mind games and they are very sexy, lead women on with it. Its my LEAST favorite position for men.
Posted by CocoKatI'm from nyc, he's from london but he lives here now. I travel a lot and I'll be going away to school in Australia soon. He doesn't know and I don't plan on telling him. I'm not trying to get wrapped up in anyone I meet. They're here to keep me company until I leave. So that's why I'm like. I just wanna discuss women askin men out on dates. Because uuuhhh he's sexy but not that fuckin sexy lmaooo
Got it! I only wanted to share my experience with you hoping someone would've for me, I would have known how to protect myself form unnecessary heartbreak. Mine was a computer nerd. But to be fair I do live in an area where men are a rare commodity, so even the nerdiest have the capability to become playas.. haha.
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