Well he sure knew how to hug me up and kiss me all night and invite me upstairs to his house though *side eye*
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Posted by tizianiLmaoooo my leaving usually makes men scared. However, I will be leaving for 3wks end of this month so I'll pull that card later on lmaoooPosted by Cg2016LOL then I stand corrected.Posted by tizianiWell he sure knew how to hug me up and kiss me all night and invite me upstairs to his house though *side eye*
Ah well if he's from Landan then he's never going to put himself out there like that, yeah.
Well you know, you can get away with saying literally anything as long as you finish off the sentence with
"... and my flight leaves town next week".
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Posted by RyokoLet me figure out how to fix it. I'm sorry
@cg2016 your PM is disabled. I can't message you.
Posted by RyokoIdk how to fix it man... not on my phone at least
@cg2016 your PM is disabled. I can't message you.
Posted by InstantkarmaBecause I still find him attractive and would like to spend time with him. I don't understand why everything has to be lifetime or nothing lol. Are people not allowed to want to have male or female company without wanting to be in a relationship? Relationships aren't the be all and end all of life. Not everyone wants that shit.
Why bother? You are leaving anyway. Since you are not looking for anything serious, does it matter if he asks you out on a date or not?
This how I see it. But don't fuck around with the time I AM giving you though.
Posted by CocoKatJust seen this. Wow that's crazy. Yeah he won't have such an opportunity. I know how geminis work. I've dated 6 of them. He'll make 7 lmaooooo. I'm waiting for him to do some dumb shit so I can fly away. With geminis you gotta fly away first lol.
If he is eager to see you, he will find a way to make one of your invites without any excuses. hes trying to set you up (in his mind) for sex when you say "make it up to me" but hes not so interested he is actively persuing. This situation mirrored my own exactly. Mine was a gemini sun/venus, pisces moon.. we hung out several times in the beginning. That man put me thru almost, but not quite anything happening.. because he wasn't that into me. It took 2 years to get over him and then he reappeared hoping to court me again. Stupidly I let him back for him only to lose interest once I regained mine. We had a date for a "possible" hook up that he bailed on once again. It was all a game to feed his ego. I was a game to him, my feelings too.
Posted by RyokoI'm following you nowPosted by Cg2016it's somewhere in your settings. there's a yes or no check box.Posted by RyokoIdk how to fix it man... not on my phone at least
@cg2016 your PM is disabled. I can't message you.
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Posted by AriesLoveHmmm. Ok I'll keep yall posted on what happens.
Gemini men are slow and indecisive...very sneaky as well. He probably has a girlfriend for his reason of not asking you out yet.
They don't mind texting and talking forever. However, they have no problem setting up a date if they want to see you. Sounds like he's not all that interested in seeing you or maybe his finances aren't in order to plan a date.
I would not ask him...then he'll probably expect you to pay and take the lead on everything...not a good look. He asked you what you were doing that day, you told him nothing...he didn't proceed. Something is not right.
Posted by Cg2016Art gallery is cool, but you're still initiating. Allow him to.Posted by RealTalkYeah I know they're intellectual beings. I am a sapiosexual myself. I'm also hilarious lmao. I'm not going to ask him out. That's weird for me. I did invite him to this art gallery exhibition I'll be modeling in tomorrow since it starts when he gets off work. I figured that was appropriate.
He's a Gemini, so if you really are into him, trigger something else in him other than looks, sex, body, etc. because quite frankly they don't give a damn about that for the long haul. If he's just someone you wanna have fun with, then by all means...& please, please have some sort of conversation & intellect!!!!! ¬¬¬click to expand
Posted by CocoKatHuge mistake. Pursuing ANY man is a no-no. No man likes a woman who is too eager. Your male friends set you up to fail, lol...they most likely wanted you for themselves.Posted by Cg2016Oh, OK got it... I was under the impression you where doing all the contacting. If hes calling you before he goes to sleep, you maybe his backup girl (in his head because he knows you like him.. that's how venus and sun in gemini work. They don't... they get bored before anything even takes off. I would not be so eager to pick up for him, see if he actually wants to see you, then you'll know. I'm happy your not hung up on him. I had a gemini venus do some real damage (he was also a sun) similar.. lots of texting, late night phone calls.. very little real life contact. I kept asking him out, he kept making excuses, I was persuing hard like all my male friends told me too. Big Mistake.Posted by CocoKatHold up. I never ever said I initiated most of the texts though hun. He's texted me equally, hell he even calls me. Sometimes before he falls asleep. I met him the Saturday before last. It's Tuesday... I'll give him a little more time. It's not THAT deep. He looks good, but not too good to get cut off lol. I'm not hung up on him or no where near love.... it's not that deep. I just wanted to know how the general population felt about such a thing as a woman asking a man on a first date because uhhhh I won't do it lol.Posted by Cg2016but he is trying to play games with you. You asked him out twice already, you've initiated most of the texts and the few times you've connected he's "almost" asked you out (you think) but he hasn't quite done it. Hes trying to get you to chase him. Gemini venus is the worst. I wouldn't contact him again.Posted by CocoKatRight suppose he's trying to play with me. Never works though. I don't risk without reward lmao. Can't get too far with me and games.Posted by GobbuttereThis is assuming he's not playing any games.
If you truly believe in equality, yes.
If you don't then no... but quit playing hard to get and all the other treetrunking mind games.
Smells fishy he the male kissed her, texted with her and has yet to ask her out.
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Posted by Cg2016I agree with InstantKarma though. You've already asked him out...twice & he doesn't seem too interested. Probably has a girl, or an ex he's still pining for. Please girl you're leaving, so if you wanna fuck him, fuck him & have some fun. What a way to be sent off 😛Posted by InstantkarmaBecause I still find him attractive and would like to spend time with him. I don't understand why everything has to be lifetime or nothing lol. Are people not allowed to want to have male or female company without wanting to be in a relationship? Relationships aren't the be all and end all of life. Not everyone wants that shit.
Why bother? You are leaving anyway. Since you are not looking for anything serious, does it matter if he asks you out on a date or not?
This how I see it. But don't fuck around with the time I AM giving you though.click to expand
Posted by RealTalkI'm gonna leave it be until he shows some effort. If not fuck it. I don't chase em, I replace em lolPosted by Cg2016I agree with InstantKarma though. You've already asked him out...twice & he doesn't seem too interested. Probably has a girl, or an ex he's still pining for. Please girl you're leaving, so if you wanna fuck him, fuck him & have some fun. What a way to be sent off 😛Posted by InstantkarmaBecause I still find him attractive and would like to spend time with him. I don't understand why everything has to be lifetime or nothing lol. Are people not allowed to want to have male or female company without wanting to be in a relationship? Relationships aren't the be all and end all of life. Not everyone wants that shit.
Why bother? You are leaving anyway. Since you are not looking for anything serious, does it matter if he asks you out on a date or not?
This how I see it. But don't fuck around with the time I AM giving you though.click to expand
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