Should I text or ghost?

Met this guy and I really liked him (a whole lot). And could've sworn the feelings were mutual. However, haven't seen him in almost three weeks, hasn't attempted to see me and I have received sporadic texts within these past few weeks. When he texts again, which I'm sure he will, I'd like to end things. I'd rather stopnhim right there before I like him any further and it ends up going nowhere. We weren't official or exclusive, but I'd rather end things nicely rather than just ghost him.

What should the text say? 😕

Umm how do you ghost someone whose already ghosting you?

That is a decision you are going to have to make for yourself because you are the one that has to stick with/live with your choice. If you don't want to talk to him anymore because he isn't meeting your needs don't respond. But you have to be honest with yourself, don't ghost him in the hopes that he will notice and beg for your attention.

If you really like him and your still hoping for more from him be straightforward. Either he'll step up or step out. Either way you'll have your answer.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Umm how do you ghost someone whose already ghosting you?

Fair point. I guess I'll just let things fade out as they are, naturally.

Posted by Airfairy215
Met this guy and I really liked him (a whole lot). And could've sworn the feelings were mutual. However, haven't seen him in almost three weeks, hasn't attempted to see me and I have received sporadic texts within these past few weeks. When he texts again, which I'm sure he will, I'd like to end things. I'd rather stopnhim right there before I like him any further and it ends up going nowhere. We weren't official or exclusive, but I'd rather end things nicely rather than just ghost him.

What should the text say? 😕

You are the dealing with a Bull, right? I have a story for you: a few months ago I was dealing with the same thing: feelings were mutual, we seemed to connect on a deeper level - oops - he dropped dead. I stepped up and demanded an explanation. He was busy with dating another woman. I told him that I can't be any part of our whatsoever anymore and the result was him panicking, reconnecting and sticking by my side until now.

If you want any closure, stand up, I think you have the right to know what's going on at least. It makes it easier to close a chapter. So be blunt, no beating around the bush! You will have your answer if you want it. If not, just leave him be. He will be back when there's nothing better out there, that's for sure.

Posted by Airfairy215

Posted by LadyNeptune
Umm how do you ghost someone whose already ghosting you?

Fair point. I guess I'll just let things fade out as they are, naturally.

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Or text him: horse-race event on Saturday afternoon, are you up to? 😄

I mean, suggest something interesting to go to maybe?

this ghosting thing is mainly in cases if the other is hung up on somebody else... but he didnt see the best of you yet

("ending it" in this circumstances is a nonsense, you dont have anything to end.... be more playful) and active in your life

Ghosting is such a pussy move so tell him what you think. This isn’t going anywhere so I’m done. It’s really that simple. We hate when people ghost us and then we do it to them lol. Good luck dear, he may honestly be going through shit right now. A lot of us are

Posted by Brittnie
Ghosting is such a pussy move so tell him what you think. This isn’t going anywhere so I’m done. It’s really that simple. We hate when people ghost us and then we do it to them lol. Good luck dear, he may honestly be going through shit right now. A lot of us are

Ghosting is such a wrong choice of word

Flakey

Weak

Cowardly

Seem more apt

The spirit world are nodding in agreement 👻👍👻

BOOOOO!👻

Posted by NemDeux
do you have a problem, or are you the problem?

The wise green one has spoken

Take heed!!

👍😈😄

My advice is to delete the number and start dating again. Life's too short to sit around waiting

Posted by Sirius
My advice is to delete the number and start dating again. Life's too short to sit around waiting

That's exactly what I did. Sucks cause I really, really liked him but I've tried to reach out plenty and I know how to take a hint.

Posted by Brittnie
Ghosting is such a pussy move so tell him what you think. This isn’t going anywhere so I’m done. It’s really that simple. We hate when people ghost us and then we do it to them lol. Good luck dear, he may honestly be going through shit right now. A lot of us are

True! If he reaches out again I'll just tell him it's been great but it's pretty obvious we're looking for different things.

Posted by Airfairy215

Posted by Sirius
My advice is to delete the number and start dating again. Life's too short to sit around waiting

That's exactly what I did. Sucks cause I really, really liked him but I've tried to reach out plenty and I know how to take a hint.

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Reality is, The person who likes you will stay in your life daily. they will want to be around you as often as possible, So you made a great choice by moving on.