So why do my friends come to me for

relationship advice? lol

Like, I may probably be the very last person to come for it! lol
My romantic relationships weren't very successful in general... well, I'm good at flirting and short terms, but when it comes to long terms... I'm burnt too many times.

So two of my friends are recently going through a tough time recently. One got dumped by his fiancee and other said that M word too hastily (after like, 6 weeks, and even though I do rush things... but my friend - what was she thinking?!)

As I'm not really helpful with giving advice, I just try to listen to them (even though being a listener isn't my forte -most times I just gab about... on and on) and comfort them in any way I can. I just want them to feel better...
but then my current romances are not really going well lol I need someone to listen to me... but then I see none lol

Hence, I came to this board lol...

I already cried this morning... and very probably tomorrow morning, too lol

So, what should I do feel better and become strong again so that I can be there when my friends need me? 🙂
Any ideas?

pssymonstaa lol
Too bad I don't really get pleasures from sex the act itself. I've tried that (going out and having sex), but it did not really solve a problem... probably a momentarily distraction at its best 🙂

I've no idea what dsl, so I looked it up on google... & lol!

sewdope, thank you!

I just got up... yes, I just decided to go to bed last night lol it was too late at night anyway. I played games on computer for a while before that, though 🙂

I've no problem with dominating a conversation when I want to & feel like to... and actually that's how most of my conversations with others end up lol... but I'm trying to be very patient with my friends and listen to them. And crack some jokes here and there. I like making jokes and people seem to enjoy/appreciate them, too 🙂 Feel a need to lighten up my friends' moods a bit!

Crying is fine sometimes, I think... quite cathartic - but I try to be cautious not to indulge myself in it too much or too often. Not good for my mental health lol I'm already quite off my head, so no need to fuel that insanity further lol unless I want to become a full blown nutjob!

But I understand crying alone can feel suck quite much :/
I feel a bit better this morning though, after some good sleep 🙂
I hope you have a great day!

Posted by Acrab
sex as a cure?

Lol no. Like I wrote above, I don't... well, have not yet found the pleasures of sex lol
I slept with a guy once, no strings attached, but then it felt so empty, so figured it wasn't my thing 🙂

My female friend and I just decided to go on a short trip on the weekend after this... we just exchanged one or two texts and she already went off to book tickets lol And it was about five minutes ago.
We are both geminis... lol I just hope that we will be able to stick to the plan 🙂

She and I talked lots last night as her boyfriend broke up with her over texts 😢 She tried so hard to act as if it weren't a big deal, but I have known her for a long time (like twenty years 🙂), so I knew better than that. It's sad to see her discouraged like that... she's super cheerful and happy most of the time :/

We will have lots of fun on our trip, though!

Just finished talking to that guy friend... he is totally lost & heart broken 😢
There's no such a thing like an easy break up, but he's a quite sensitive guy!
All I can do is just offering an ear...