So I finally picked up the phone because I was ready to say my peace. So I pretty much said that I knew he was playing me all along, and that I now have clarity.
He asked if I was having a bad day unreal lol, I saidI was having a great day actually.
He didn't put up much of fight, but did ask if I was doing this for attention. Told me I was breaking his heart in the most insincere manner you can imagine. lol So in a calm manner I let him know I woke up.
Stood my ground without a breakdown on the phone, didn't get over emotional because he does not deserve anymore from me. When you step away from a situation and see how dumb you were, it is unbelievable. But all I can do is learn, I will keep making this mistake a positive thing in my life. I am working very hard to be happy with what I have and to stop looking or wanting more. This short trip with a player really opened my eyes, and I see so much clearer now!! :-)
@Op- Break out the Ben and Jerry. And today is a new day for different options now for you in a good way.
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He asked if I was having a bad day unreal lol, I saidI was having a great day actually.
He didn't put up much of fight, but did ask if I was doing this for attention. Told me I was breaking his heart in the most insincere manner you can imagine. lol So in a calm manner I let him know I woke up.
Stood my ground without a breakdown on the phone, didn't get over emotional because he does not deserve anymore from me. When you step away from a situation and see how dumb you were, it is unbelievable. But all I can do is learn, I will keep making this mistake a positive thing in my life. I am working very hard to be happy with what I have and to stop looking or wanting more. This short trip with a player really opened my eyes, and I see so much clearer now!! :-)