what do u do when he told u that he got his x preg

i have been messing with this guy for 4yrs. he took me to my high school prom and all. anyway we talked about getting married a few months ago and then aftera few weeks later he told me he got his x pregnant

Sorry, thats terrible. Evidentily his X wasn't an X, and was still in the picture. You have to be leary of x's that remain real cool w/each other. Some x's actually get along better as a non-couple, than when they were one. If he got her pregnant, sorry to bust your bubble, but who else did he mess with, that just was lucky enuff not to end up pregnant. Theres probably more to his story, there are no accidents, don't let him feed u that line. It's up to u in the end how you want to handle it, I would proceed with extreme caution, if u decide to stick it out with him. I hope you can handle the baby mama drama, that will be sure to raise it's ugly head. Keep your head up, and see if maybe theres not someone else u may have a interest in. Good Luck and Congratulations on your Graduation!

you have been 'messing'....

do you mean you two were not exclusive for over 4 years??

If so, you move on.

sofabulous, I know that you love this guy, but you must do something that your heart forbids, but mind desires (if that is the dilemma) that is to cease the relationship.

Sometimes, we as people, must ignore our emotions, place them on the back burner, & go with our mental note.

And this kinda reminds me of a song...

"Because of the Ex" by Mya

Hehe