What does this mean?

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We have been dating 6 months...we do everything together...we together all the time. I help take care of his kids and have met his family and friends. We do not say the "love" word to one another yet. We were walking through an antique store and he picked out this gorgeous sterling silver ring with my birthstone in it and had me try it on, it fit. He then bought it for me. It was not super expensive $ 25 but what does that mean in man speak? What should it tell me about what he feels/thinks?
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It is not as heavy as you think... but it is not exactly as light as you think either. The question really lies in the HOW the ring got on your finger. Was it just like 'here ya go, try this on !' and YOU put it on your own finger ? Or was it a bit more intimate than that... and HE was the one that put it on your finger.

Six months and no 'L' word ? Are you sure that you are a Cancer ? 😉
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Posted by David13
It is not as heavy as you think... but it is not exactly as light as you think either. The question really lies in the HOW the ring got on your finger. Was it just like 'here ya go, try this on !' and YOU put it on your own finger ? Or was it a bit more intimate than that... and HE was the one that put it on your finger.

Six months and no 'L' word ? Are you sure that you are a Cancer ? 😉



6 months and no L word yes we are both cancers but his venus is Gemini and my moon is Gemini...so that may be why?? We also both have had serious heart breaks in the past and have both made the choice to take it slow.

The ring situation went down as follows: he said look honey they have jewelry, I said oh yeah, he said take a look, I did then walked back to him, he said was there nothing you liked?, I said there was one really pretty ring, he said try it on for me, I said ok and tried it on and it fit, he looked at the sales woman and said we are taking this ring for her today, and that is how the ring purchase went down.
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Posted by David13
It is not as heavy as you think... but it is not exactly as light as you think either. The question really lies in the HOW the ring got on your finger. Was it just like 'here ya go, try this on !' and YOU put it on your own finger ? Or was it a bit more intimate than that... and HE was the one that put it on your finger.

Six months and no 'L' word ? Are you sure that you are a Cancer ? 😉



6 months and no L word yes we are both cancers but his venus is Gemini and my moon is Gemini...so that may be why?? We also both have had serious heart breaks in the past and have both made the choice to take it slow.

The ring situation went down as follows: he said look honey they have jewelry, I said oh yeah, he said take a look, I did then walked back to him, he said was there nothing you liked?, I said there was one really pretty ring, he said try it on for me, I said ok and tried it on and it fit, he looked at the sales woman and said we are taking this ring for her today, and that is how the ring purchase went down.
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Then yes... consider it as just a little gift for no real reason. You chose it... he bought it... done.
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It is not as heavy as you think... but it is not exactly as light as you think either. The question really lies in the HOW the ring got on your finger. Was it just like 'here ya go, try this on !' and YOU put it on your own finger ? Or was it a bit more intimate than that... and HE was the one that put it on your finger.

Six months and no 'L' word ? Are you sure that you are a Cancer ? 😉



6 months and no L word yes we are both cancers but his venus is Gemini and my moon is Gemini...so that may be why?? We also both have had serious heart breaks in the past and have both made the choice to take it slow.

The ring situation went down as follows: he said look honey they have jewelry, I said oh yeah, he said take a look, I did then walked back to him, he said was there nothing you liked?, I said there was one really pretty ring, he said try it on for me, I said ok and tried it on and it fit, he looked at the sales woman and said we are taking this ring for her today, and that is how the ring purchase went down.

Then yes... consider it as just a little gift for no real reason. You chose it... he bought it... done.
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Yes, that is what I am going to consider it, a just because gift.
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Posted by CancerCutey
We have been dating 6 months...we do everything together...we together all the time. I help take care of his kids and have met his family and friends. We do not say the "love" word to one another yet. We were walking through an antique store and he picked out this gorgeous sterling silver ring with my birthstone in it and had me try it on, it fit. He then bought it for me. It was not super expensive $ 25 but what does that mean in man speak? What should it tell me about what he feels/thinks?




What about your own two kids? You never answered what you did with the second one. The first one you ditched, does he know your history and background? Kind of weird you put this guys kids in the spotlight. He and his family will figure you out soon enough. Don't slip up, maybe you'll get a $ 50.00 ring for Christmas. 😢

May I suggest birth control in the mean time?
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Posted by CancerCutey
We have been dating 6 months...we do everything together...we together all the time. I help take care of his kids and have met his family and friends. We do not say the "love" word to one another yet. We were walking through an antique store and he picked out this gorgeous sterling silver ring with my birthstone in it and had me try it on, it fit. He then bought it for me. It was not super expensive $ 25 but what does that mean in man speak? What should it tell me about what he feels/thinks?




What about your own two kids? You never answered what you did with the second one. The first one you ditched, does he know your history and background? Kind of weird you put this guys kids in the spotlight. He and his family will figure you out soon enough. Don't slip up, maybe you'll get a $ 50.00 ring for Christmas. 😢

May I suggest birth control in the mean time?
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My children and I speak often and for your information have a CLOSE relationship. Not that I need to justify that to the likes of YOU!! What is your problem with me, I have done nothing to you or to anyone for that matter!! I had a failed marriage, and now I am dating someone new, there is nothing wrong with that. You ASSUME I have nothing to do with my kids, you ASSUME were not close, AND YOUR WRONG!! i WILL NOT discuss my children any further than that on an open forum period. SO ON THAT NOTE Take your obviously BITTER in your own life, closed minded, NEGATIVE self and MOVE ALONG!! I don't know you, nor do I care to know you!! I have done nothing to you what so ever to deserve this harsh treatment from you!!
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Posted by CancerCutey
We have been dating 6 months...we do everything together...we together all the time. I help take care of his kids and have met his family and friends. We do not say the "love" word to one another yet. We were walking through an antique store and he picked out this gorgeous sterling silver ring with my birthstone in it and had me try it on, it fit. He then bought it for me. It was not super expensive $ 25 but what does that mean in man speak? What should it tell me about what he feels/thinks?




What about your own two kids? You never answered what you did with the second one. The first one you ditched, does he know your history and background? Kind of weird you put this guys kids in the spotlight. He and his family will figure you out soon enough. Don't slip up, maybe you'll get a $ 50.00 ring for Christmas. 😢

May I suggest birth control in the mean time?
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The first one I ditched? Who the hell are you to talk to me that way and ASSUME such horrible things, My boys LIVE TOGETHER, I see them and talk to them often! AGAIN I SAY, YOU ASSUME ALOT!!! I will NOT have anything about my boys be "dragged" out of me by the likes of you on a public forum, you don't like that OH WELL keep ASSUMING and looking ignorant,close minded and sounding like a total bitch!!