Coochie's last dance

How much can you take before it's too much or enough?

Just a few questions I'm throwing out, answer whichever you want.
How much sex are you getting vs how often you really want it?

Should I have sex even when I'm too tired?
Part of me doesn't want to disappoint and another part of me still wants it.
Feels like I would be short changing my partner.

Do you have sex even if you are not in the mood?
Why?

How do you turn your partner down?
What is their response?

How do you respond when your partner is not in the mood for sex?
Is your response different than how you really feel?

Do you rate performance?

Is your libido compatible with your partner?

Girl, I like the title of this thread. I'm in a very long term relationship with a Leo and I'm an Aries.

How much sex are you getting vs how often you really want it?
-For about a decade and a half, it was everyday multiple times. Now, we gettin' tired. I would like it more, so would he, but, we are starting to slow down.

Should I have sex even when I'm too tired?
-Yes. I give the disclaimer - you know I'm still kinda sleeping right?

Do you have sex even if you are not in the mood?
-Yes. Sometimes, it's about staying connected to my man... ain't all about sex.

How do you turn your partner down?
-I have never said no to him that I can remember. Sex is a real strong bond for us - being two animal signs.

How do you respond when your partner is not in the mood for sex?
- the "rule" has always been that I cannot initiate. I guess, him being a male Leo, he gotta always be the one pursuing, the hunter, the man... I'm cool. It causes delicious tension in me. He knows not to let me leave the house like that or the energy I emit...smh, lol!

Do you rate performance?
-hell no.

Is your libido compatible with your partner?
-yes, thank goodness. I think I might be slightly hotter.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Just a few questions I'm throwing out, answer whichever you want.
How much sex are you getting vs how often you really want it? lately... 😢 i dont really care about it. i dont even care to understand why, but i know it has everything to do with everything else going on in life. and... i'm getting it more often than i'm wanting it. so there's lookin up! lol

Should I have sex even when I'm too tired? i'll never turn it down. i think i have 2 times in my life. guys that i'm not with/dating do not count. they will def get turned down.

Do you have sex even if you are not in the mood? yep.
Why? i am easily turned on by the object of my affections. so ez it's almost pathetic. almost.

How do you turn your partner down? ... ? i'm clueless. but the 2 times i did... cramps.
What is their response? heartbreaking disappointment

How do you respond when your partner is not in the mood for sex? extremely unfavorably.
Is your response different than how you really feel? not at all. i take it very personally and i act like i take it personally.

Do you rate performance? i dont tolerate bad performance.

Is your libido compatible with your partner?

usually if not always. i could care less about sex at the moment. it's odd. i dont like it and i like it all at the same time. something weird is going on, but i think the phase will end well.

bah

Posted by LunarMaiden
Just a few questions I'm throwing out, answer whichever you want.
How much sex are you getting vs how often you really want it?

NEVER ENOUGH

Should I have sex even when I'm too tired?
Part of me doesn't want to disappoint and another part of me still wants it.
Feels like I would be short changing my partner.

TIRED SEX IS GUD

Do you have sex even if you are not in the mood?
Why?

YES. BECAUSE IT IS SOMETHING TO DO

How do you turn your partner down?
What is their response?

I NEVER TURN HIM DOWN...UNLESS HE IS TOO STINKY.
BUT IF HE FIXES HIMSELF, THEN ITS ON.

How do you respond when your partner is not in the mood for sex?
Is your response different than how you really feel?
MAD. THAT IS HOW I REALLY FEEL.

Do you rate performance?
DOES NOT COMPUTE...
Is your libido compatible with your partner?

OUR LIBIDOS ARE SIMILAR.

Never in the mood? Does not compute

How much sex are you getting vs how often you really want it?
- Maybe 4 sessions per weekend... which works well for me. Retreating to the bed while abandoning the world outside for entwining intimate moments is simply blissful.

Should I have sex even when I'm too tired?
Part of me doesn't want to disappoint and another part of me still wants it.
Feels like I would be short changing my partner.
- Hmmmm... using my example above... there's nothing wrong with taking naps in-between ! 😉

Do you have sex even if you are not in the mood?
Why?
- Not Applicable.

How do you turn your partner down?
What is their response?
- Not Applicable.

How do you respond when your partner is not in the mood for sex?
Is your response different than how you really feel?
- I pretend that it is doesn't bother me. PRETEND. Not a good thing, but I internalize it as a kind of rejection... perceiving that there is something hidden that needs to be found in the cryptic words of the reason.

Do you rate performance?
No. Enthusiasm, intensity, and zeal... yes.

Is your libido compatible with your partner?
For the moment, yes.

Just a few questions I'm throwing out, answer whichever you want.
How much sex are you getting vs how often you really want it? -- NOT NEARLY ENOUGH *tantrum*

Should I have sex even when I'm too tired? -- I'VE DONE IT WHEN I HAVE A STOMACH ACHE. THE ACHE WENT AWAY.

Do you have sex even if you are not in the mood? ---SAY WHAAAT?

How do you turn your partner down? -- I NEVER HAVE.

How do you respond when your partner is not in the mood for sex? -- NEVER HAD THAT EXPERIENCE WITH HIM, SO FAR

Do you rate performance? -- THAT'S INEVITABLE

Is your libido compatible with your partner? -- I THINK IT IS.