Why would a guy text you how's your day and then when you write back he ignores you?

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Posted by Stensco21
And then I said good night and he never wrote back? Like what's the point of even texting. The day before he told me to text him after we hung out and I forgot and then the next day he said how's your day? At like noon and then ignored me the rest of the day
He was already asleep.

His phone was turned off.

His phone was charging and on silent.

Jesus Christ dude! He texted you the following day.

How is it ignoring you...? Most people have work or school or other shit going on. If he gets back to you and it's not immediately after you sent the text it's not the end of the world.

Your gonna have to get over these insecurities you have if you want to ever have a successful relationship.
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i’ve been wondering the same thing for years. tbh I think they like to waste my time and get my hopes up.

with one guy I straight up went off at one point and go ā€œI don’t know why you waste your energy asking me how my days going when you’re not going to reply anyways. there’s no point and now you’re just wasting your and my time.ā€

his response: ā€œsorryā€

LOL. i’ll never understand, and there’s no point in even questioning it anymore. some people are inept
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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
i’ve been wondering the same thing for years. tbh I think they like to waste my time and get my hopes up.

with one guy I straight up went off at one point and go ā€œI don’t know why you waste your energy asking me how my days going when you’re not going to reply anyways. there’s no point and now you’re just wasting your and my time.ā€

his response: ā€œsorryā€

LOL. i’ll never understand, and there’s no point in even questioning it anymore. some people are inept
Exactly!! It's just games. I've actually gone off on guys who tried to pull this with me. It's a big big turn off.
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šŸ™„ So annoying when they are so immature...
You all are the immature ones if you are judging maturity levels on speed of text responses. Jc.
I don’t think so. To have a mature relationship you need to able to communicate. Not playing games.
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Texting is not communicating. Communication happens face to face.

Playing games is texting your dude while you know he's busy at work and then pouting when he doesn't text you back immediately.
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šŸ™„ So annoying when they are so immature...
You all are the immature ones if you are judging maturity levels on speed of text responses. Jc.
I don’t think so. To have a mature relationship you need to able to communicate. Not playing games.
OP just said she wasn't really interested in him anyways though.. And they weren't in a relationship. No idea why this thread even happened then.. Now I am just confused.
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Ok, I am confused too šŸ˜‚ Maybe they are meant for each other’s
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Posted by ManInTheMoon
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šŸ™„ So annoying when they are so immature...
Immature in wanting to meet halfway?
She forgot to reply... He is punishing her. That is playing games. Immature!!!
How would he know she forgot?

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Asking? But if they are not in a relationship then it makes sense. I got the impression they were
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šŸ™„ So annoying when they are so immature...
Immature in wanting to meet halfway?
What do you mean halfway?

Like meeting halfway down the road. Road being relationship.

In effort. Doesn't want to spend energy that won't be reciprocated. Not everyone is giving.
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True I can see that