Will going no contact with an ex make them miss you?

This topic was created in the Dating forum by Stensco21 on Tuesday, October 17, 2017 and has 12 replies.

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9 Years

Posted by Gemitati

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Only if they still care about you.

How long does it take for them to miss you?

There’s no accurate answer to your question i myself could stand not seing the one I care for up to a year or more. It all depends if the attraction is still there and why he/she became your ex.

You could say 72 hours and 35 minutes.

Would be same effect!

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Lol could be

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Posted by Rindaroo

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Posted by Rindaroo
Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.

So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?

Well I'm not sure it's the same situation. He disappeared & refused to talk to me. That lasted a week & I didn't contact him again. Even when he started liking posts & making comments on my FB. 2 1/2 months later he sent me a message telling me he missed me. I did not message him or call him until he did that. About a week later we started talking again & met and worked everything out. He said that he tried really hard to not want me but it didn't work. He missed me soooo much. I told him I refused to reach out after how he acted, and he said that was smart. I guess it allowed us both the space to figure out we didn't want anyone else.

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So he wanted someone else before the break up?

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Posted by Rindaroo

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Posted by Rindaroo
Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.

So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?

Well I'm not sure it's the same situation. He disappeared & refused to talk to me. That lasted a week & I didn't contact him again. Even when he started liking posts & making comments on my FB. 2 1/2 months later he sent me a message telling me he missed me. I did not message him or call him until he did that. About a week later we started talking again & met and worked everything out. He said that he tried really hard to not want me but it didn't work. He missed me soooo much. I told him I refused to reach out after how he acted, and he said that was smart. I guess it allowed us both the space to figure out we didn't want anyone else.

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Have you been together long? These kinda relations give me anxiety EESH! I wish it wasnt so though. Well done to you.

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Posted by Rindaroo

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Posted by Rindaroo
Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.

So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?

Well I'm not sure it's the same situation. He disappeared & refused to talk to me. That lasted a week & I didn't contact him again. Even when he started liking posts & making comments on my FB. 2 1/2 months later he sent me a message telling me he missed me. I did not message him or call him until he did that. About a week later we started talking again & met and worked everything out. He said that he tried really hard to not want me but it didn't work. He missed me soooo much. I told him I refused to reach out after how he acted, and he said that was smart. I guess it allowed us both the space to figure out we didn't want anyone else.

So he wanted someone else before the break up?

No. It turned out he was afraid I'd leave him after a short-term relationship and he wanted a long term one. I was planning on moving in a couple of years. It's just we both tried dating others in the separation & it just made us want each other. I'm not moving anymore...

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I see. Glad it worked out for you

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Posted by Rindaroo

Posted by Stensco21

Posted by Rindaroo
Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.

So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?

Well I'm not sure it's the same situation. He disappeared & refused to talk to me. That lasted a week & I didn't contact him again. Even when he started liking posts & making comments on my FB. 2 1/2 months later he sent me a message telling me he missed me. I did not message him or call him until he did that. About a week later we started talking again & met and worked everything out. He said that he tried really hard to not want me but it didn't work. He missed me soooo much. I told him I refused to reach out after how he acted, and he said that was smart. I guess it allowed us both the space to figure out we didn't want anyone else.

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And you just took him back?

Wow