about my son

My son has been kind of hard to deal with. he is 17yrs old he wont talk to me about his problems and he is a scopio

If your son is a scorpio, he probably wants your respect and acceptance more than anything. It wouldn't hurt if you would tell him how much you trust his judgement and point out his good qualities. You can get a great number bees with honey than with vinegar, right? Scorpio men are easily threatened and quick to anger, it's a shame that you have to walk around on eggshells around your own kid, but it's where you must start in order to mend things with him.

It is normal for a 17 year old boy to shut his parents out.
Although he is not an adult yet he feels that you should give him his
freedom, let him be on his own.
You have to respect the fact that he is almost an adult
and that some day he will talk to you. He can't just stop talking to you.
Just trust the fact that you raised him well and that you know he has a
good head on his shoulder and will make the rights decisions when it
comes times too. Untill then let him be a teenager. good luck

Scorpios are the most private and distrustful people. Don't force him to talk to you, but let him know you're there if he needs you.