Advice on Aquarius Man

I was advised to take this topic here so do any fellow sagis have advice for me on this?
I met this Aquarius man about 3 weeks ago on a dating site. He messaged me and we talked every morning for about 4 days until he asked for my number. The night he asked for it he jokingly told me to come over to his house. Because I knew that he was partially serious and because I didn't think I would have a relationship with this guy (he's 12 years older than I am) I went ahead and saw this as an opportunity for a friend with benefits. I went over and we ended up hitting it off so well! We talked for 2 hours before we did anything and when we did have sex it was amazing! I have seen him twice and both times we talk about everything under the sun and have great sex. Both times he hints that he wants me to stay the night but I decided not to because I didn't wanna catch feelings. He was trying to cuddle with me and being kinda cute.... So my question is, now I really like him so how do I play it from here? I've given him a TON of space since I know they don't like being smothered. We used to rotate texting each other every few days but within the last week it's me that texts him every 3 days or so. He's always really sweet and we'll talk for hours but then I don't hear from him for days. I would love for this to turn into something more but I'm not sure how they feel about dating someone they hooked up with right away. Advice?

I was friends with my aqua for a long long time before anything happened with him. His birthday was yesterday and he invited me to his party but im declined both.


From your posts of I have read, you seem to have trouble controlling your emotions when it comes to sex. Maybe you should not sleep with guys till you are in a relationship with them.


I know you say you didn't expect to like him but you ended up liking him just cause of the sex or connection or whatever that is pretty intense. Nothing is wrong with that but for self protection when your intense like that may be to not sleep with someone till you in something monogamous with them.


As for the aqua only time, will tell.

Posted by feby16aqua
I don't know, I would date someone I hooked up with right away... I don't see a problem with that. BUT I am a woman 😛
From what you are saying it does sound to me like he likes you. What he likes you for is another story, but again, I know me personally I won't waste time like hours on someone if I am not interested in them.

His bday is Feb 16 also 🙂 he's always super nice when we talk. He's just not much of an initiator in any sense. Not in texting, not in asking me to hang out, he seems really shy with making the first move. He's always down after I make it, but I still have to make it

I don't know what time he was born so when I just put noon this is the info I got...

RS: Gemini
Sun: Aquarius
Moon/mercury/mars: Aquarius
Venus: Aries
Jupiter: Taurus
Saturn: Leo

And I don't mind initiating, it's just in the last with all men no matter the sign I have a tendency to initiate and I feel like that eliminates the chase for them because I can be kinda aggressive and then they get over it. So I've been trying to fall back on doing that :/