Any of you Sagi Girls Involved With Taurus Guys?

Posted a similar one in the Taurus section but figure it'd be good to get Sagi's experiences too.

Just curious, I know they say that typically it's not a good match (Taurus is too predictable and boring for Sagi and the Sagi is too freedom oriented for the Taurus).

But I've known this girl for a couple years now. I'm not the most sociable guy out there and she put in a lot of time to get to know me and get me to slowly open up.

At times things were going great and then something would go wrong and I'd close up and avoid her and she'd continue to try and contact me and eventually we'd talk again but as friends or whatever.

She dates other guys and they usually end up hurting her and she knows how I feel about her. She'll say that she's not looking for a relationship but then will tell me how she wants to find someone to settle down with but has her guard up as well cause she's been hurt so many times before.

I know she probably only sees me as a friend and always will, but I also get hints at times that she is interested in me in some way and I feel like she wants me to make a lot more effort to win her over but I'm really reserved and find it hard to be affectionate and show her I care out of fear of rejection and that I'm inexperienced in relationships.

Also kind of a problem is that I'm a full-time college student with a ways to go (made mistakes after high school) and she works full-time to support her 6 year old son and the father isn't in the picture at all so I'm sure she needs someone with a career and is more stable and ready to commit which I gladly would if I were in a position to do so.

She even talks about how she wants to get married and have another kid or two by the time she's 29 or 30 which is around when I'll be done with my bachelor's. Maybe I'm just reading too much into that lol.

She's a little older though (I'm May 6th, 1983 and she's December 9th, 1982).

I'm Taurus with Leo Rising and Pisces Moon. Not really sure about her rising or moon sign since I don't know her time of birth.

Sorry for the long-winded post. Just hoping some of you Sagittarius can shed some light on your experiences with Taurus men. Am I just being stupid and being strung along to boost her ego when she gets hurt cause Sagi's don't like to settle? I've heard that once they've been through some things and been hurt they tend to look for stability and want to settle down instead of running around forever.

i know a friend of mine just like you a taurus social and charming and he made his first relationship with a sag girl he met while we were out she was actually hanging with the rest of us,little do they know the broke up after 3-4months the problem form what he told me was that she was pissing him sooo much!!!!one day he went to her house and she wanted to see a series film but he didn't want to do that so he got ungry and left he also told me that he doesen't like much femministic girls and she obviously believed in femminisim,but on the other hand it was his first relationship he might messed it up as well.

I'm gonna have to second that, if you haven't blatantly told her how you feel she's probably not assuming anything. One thing all Sagi's share is our appreciation for honesty - so just be straight with her and rest assured she'll be straight with her reply.

I recently broke up with my Taurus. Even though we still see each other, I try to keep him just as friends. I do want to emphasize that I still love him. I feel like we are not progressing, and that is why I ended things. He is so content with his life and I want to be stimulated and challenged. I don't like doing the same things all the time. I think he is young so it has a lot to do with it, but I see young guys that are so much more driven and it concerns me that he is too laid back and not ambitious enough.
I started feeling this way for a while before I ended things. I didn't want to hurt him but I did and he still wants to be with me and I with him, BUT he needs more time to figure out what he wants to do in life. I am trying to just get some major priorities done in my life and I can't be a girlfriend to him.

It's a great attachment, but I think we want different things.

PS I am a little older too like almost 3 years.

Affectionate and loving but lacked emotional depth... Could you explain that a bit more to this "dumb" taurus? lol

I mean, did he seem to lack that depth to you because he never spoke about it or something? I know personally I tend to feel and experience my motions and don't speak or share about them much if at all. I keep those things to myself.

How long were you with him for? Maybe he wasn't comfortable enough sharing that side of himself with you.