Aqua male - sag female

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Hi Guys

Probably going to make no sense but here goes.

Im in a pickle. My aqua ex and i split as i was young (25) had only one previous relationship and i thought the grass was greener and left him for a dud guy ( a libra) Needless to say we didnt get along as mentally or physically was not enough. For the next 6 years i had many relationships and learn so much, nearly a lifetime of knowledge on relationships and how they work and more importantly... how its so hard to get along with someone in a deep meaningful level. Im a sagittarius and hes aquarius, the moon signs are the same (libra) and when i started learning about astrology read right into every house and chart to try to understand why in 6 years of many dates and relationships i could not find that again. like a soul mate which im led to believe could be a lot of astrological compaitibility maybe.. anyways..

Ive been single a long time now, and yea get offers from guys but they always lack substance. Like the cancer guy i gave the boot to for playing hot and cold. a few months back, but not a relationship just a few dates.

So now hes come back as friends and i wont lie i know.. not think. i know it could be long term. And even himself says its meant to be by the way it happened and we started talking. Now hes hiding how he feels and so am i. Dont know why but i do not like letting people know how i truelly feel. Its a weakness i wont divulge until i know its safe to do so. So my question is. is it possible that this has happened for a reason. So has anyone any tips on the aqua man. How to read them when they are as good as me at concealing feelings from peeople. Ive told him i dont want him in that way but im a big fat liar lol. So my question is what would you do?

For the first time i 6 years i felt that spark and intelectually connected which is something i havent been able to dow ith anyone. Yea i fancied them and had breif flings, but it was never enough for me to not see them as slightly dim. so any advice or tips with this sort of thing.?
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You already told Cancer guy 'you don't like him that way'. What do you expect us to say? You are 31 and I think you can *RISK* being somewhat honest. By saying 'that way', meaning.. Romantically (I assume). You pretty much closed up your routes for him to step a little more forward.


Give him some clue that you are, for example, curious about him... or we can see how things go, etc etc. if you are worried that you may be rushing into a relationship with him. I believe you need to give him something if you expect something in return.

Those crazy Romances are alive only in novellas as of our era. No one wants to run after a girl and then risk being called a stalker nowadays.

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When you wrote "he" I thought you were talking about the Cancer coming back.

I find Aqua men to be pretty forward. If they want you, they come on pretty strong. I'm Scorpio, so I can't know your chemistry with an Aqua man. As much as I would be flattered by their strong attention, I wouldn't date one. Reason: I wouldn't trust his longterm devotion for me. I just feel that the Aqua man may show another pretty legged girl the same strong attention. I may be wrong but that is how I perceive an Aqua man.