Aqua/Pisc Cusp Male and Scorp/Saggie Cusp Female?

@seaclovers

Venus in Aquarius men like to draw you in and sometimes be told how "awesome" they are, probably even more with a Leo moon, although with the latter I'm just going by hearsay. So compliment him with moderation, a little but not too much since there's an outside chance it'll go to his head, even if he's mature he may turn narcissist, fuck that.

In your case I think he knows he's attractive and he's just playing stubborn to increase you desire to pursue him and, after having a quick look at you chart, I can't really blame him to be honest. With all the Sag and Scorpio energy you have he only takes a little spark for you to be all over him and he definitely digs that, I mean who wouldn't?

Therefore, I'd say challenge him (mentally) to chase you from time to time, create some mystery and don't let him sit too comfortable in his chair, don't allow him to be lazy. Shakes things often, Aquarians get bored easily.

The fascinating thing about Aquarius is that its energy gets activated in two scenarios that seems almost opposite: you either pursue him very aggressively blowing his aloofness out of the water (which seems to be the case with your chart) and as a reflection he'll get even more dominant than your normal dominant self (totally hot), also his prideful Leo moon is going to have a say at some point; or you intrigue him mentally with your brain in order for him to chase you.

Capricorn moon helps in the second scenario, it makes it more balanced.

Speaking from experience (my father is a vulcanic Aqua, my mother was an ice cold Capricorn) I notice that the Cap energy in a woman usually keeps the Aquarius man hooked, although tbh he doesn't seem to thoroughly understand how it works. But that's good! It aliments his drive, which is what keeps his aquarian brain sharp most times.

He's also from 1989 so he has Saturn/Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn, it's very likely a few of them are in conjunct with your moon, it makes you more emotionally in tune, I like it.

Moreover, you have Mars/Rising in Scorpio, while he has Pluto, if they make aspects that's totally hot in bed and you need that to be mutual with your chart. Sometimes it can create an unhealthy feeling of possessiveness, but here's where the notorious Aquarius detachment should come to help, making again things a little more balanced.