Break up

I broke up with a guy I was dating last night.

I feel so butter because I have feelings for him. But I’m not at the same place in life as him ( career). He’s 4 years older than me. A sag sun + Scorpio moon + venus in Capricorn. He’s also a cap stellium. I’m super confused about how he feels, I met his friends. Went on dates for months. But apparently did want anything serious ( he’d didn’t tell me this until I said I want different things to him). I wish I met him after I’d graduated and was well on my way with my career. It’s so sad losing someone I was compatible with. 😔

Posted by Solwickedsleepless

I broke up with a guy I was dating last night.

I feel so butter because I have feelings for him. But I’m not at the same place in life as him ( career). He’s 4 years older than me. A sag sun + Scorpio moon + venus in Capricorn. He’s also a cap stellium. I’m super confused about how he feels, I met his friends. Went on dates for months. But apparently did want anything serious ( he’d didn’t tell me this until I said I want different things to him). I wish I met him after I’d graduated and was well on my way with my career. It’s so sad losing someone I was compatible with. 😔

i dont really understand the problem

can you please formulate it again? why did you break up with him

Edit: "but apparently did want anything serious" - does that mean he wanted something serious or he didnt want anything serious? (sorry, I am not native English) - and what your career has to do with it? I am just confused

I’m sure when you read up on Scorpio Moon you immediately exaggerated this person’s qualities. The dumb things some of you on here put up with to be with a a Scorpio Moon is astounding.

Posted by Solwickedsleepless

I broke up with a guy I was dating last night.

I feel so butter because I have feelings for him. But I’m not at the same place in life as him ( career). He’s 4 years older than me. A sag sun + Scorpio moon + venus in Capricorn. He’s also a cap stellium. I’m super confused about how he feels, I met his friends. Went on dates for months. But apparently did want anything serious ( he’d didn’t tell me this until I said I want different things to him). I wish I met him after I’d graduated and was well on my way with my career. It’s so sad losing someone I was compatible with. 😔

I don't think you're feeling "butter" about the breakup. You're just embarrassed (and kicking yourself in the ass) when he told you he wanted this to be serious between the two of you. This is not the cherry on top of the sundae you wanted to hear from him but you're compensating (again) for feeling "butter about it". Think about it! You went in there KNOWING that you were not in the same place as his career (perhaps he's NOT a college graduate (or is) and you are/are not). Perhaps his career would have him travel all other the world (Military? Long Longshoreman??) that you knew you were not compatible with him. Okay, fine, that was your prerogative. Perhaps you really DON'T want to date an "older man" (again, you're compensating for his response of "I wanted this to be serious" (he said this after you said it yourself).

Don't keep kicking yourself in the ass. Always be honest. For I myself dated a Saggy man (yrs after I had a Saggy bf) and I told my date, "We're not compatible, I like my men to smell nice" (yes, I told him this); he wasn't offended and we parted ways. Again, be honest.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

At least you had your epiphany January 7 and not January 8th