Break up with a Sagittarius Man

I don't want to analyze him at this point. I don't even know why I'm back here in DXP. I guess I need an outlet because while I present a calm, strong facade - I'm crumbling inside.

Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Rising so go figure lol.

I've cried about 3x but being an air sign I found myself processing my feelings with my head. I've been overthinking and tried to decode his behavior using astrology but at the end of the day... he's still gone. Way to end 2025.

Gosh I'm so tired from overthinking.

Lost my sister in November to colon cancer.

Sag boyfriend gone December 17th.

Posted by Mutya
Gosh I'm so tired from overthinking.

Lost my sister in November to colon cancer.

Sag boyfriend gone December 17th.

I'm sorry for your loss, and also sorry you're going through this, as a Libra sun Taurus moon myself I completely understand what you're going thru,

Taurus mooners usually have delayed reactions, and as an air sign we keep thinking about how we're feeling, so some days you're fine other days you're crumbling down,

Give it time your feelings will float up eventually and you'll let it out,

If you have a water moon friend, try talking to them, they will help you talk about your emotions ( I don't know how they do it but they're healers IME)

Otherwise write about it or keep talking about it here until it's out.

When I ended my friendship with a really close friend, I was spiraling down for months, not even realizing how deeply it affected me, I had to seek the help of a therapist and it really helped.

Damn still sorry you lost your sister. So how you feelin' now?

Posted by Mutya
I don't want to analyze him at this point. I don't even know why I'm back here in DXP. I guess I need an outlet because while I present a calm, strong facade - I'm crumbling inside.

Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Rising so go figure lol.

I've cried about 3x but being an air sign I found myself processing my feelings with my head. I've been overthinking and tried to decode his behavior using astrology but at the end of the day... he's still gone. Way to end 2025.

Really sorry to hear about your sister passing may she rest in peacefully

May I ask what the Sag guy is doing?

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Posted by Mutya
Gosh I'm so tired from overthinking.

Lost my sister in November to colon cancer.

Sag boyfriend gone December 17th.

I'm sorry about your loss, and also sorry you're going through this, as a Libra sun Taurus moon myself I completely understand what you're going thru,

Taurus mooners usually have delayed reactions, and as an air sign we keep thinking about how we're feeling, so some days you're fine other days you're crumbling down,

Give it time your feelings will float up eventually and you'll let it out,

If you have a water moon friend, try talking to them, they will help you talk about your emotions ( I don't know how they do it but they're healers IME)

Otherwise write about it or keep talking about it here until it's out.

When I ended my friendship with a really close friend, I was spiraling down for months, not even realizing how deeply it affected me, I had to seek the help of a therapist and it really helped.

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Thank you. I do have a male Virgo friend who I talk to daily and he allows me to vent just so I can get the Sag out of my system. It's rough. Everyday I wake up feeling like I couldn't breathe and my heart beating so fast. I just want the pain to stop.

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Damn still sorry you lost your sister. So how you feelin' now?

I dunno honestly. I'm just surviving each day

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Posted by Mutya
I don't want to analyze him at this point. I don't even know why I'm back here in DXP. I guess I need an outlet because while I present a calm, strong facade - I'm crumbling inside.

Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Rising so go figure lol.

I've cried about 3x but being an air sign I found myself processing my feelings with my head. I've been overthinking and tried to decode his behavior using astrology but at the end of the day... he's still gone. Way to end 2025.

Really sorry to hear about your sister passing may she rest in peacefully

May I ask what the Sag guy is doing?

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Ghosted me December 17th. We've been rocky since November for reasons I would rather keep private. We patched up mid-November until his birthday December 2nd. He broke up with me Dec 5th saying I deserve better and I deserve more. He's been tight financially and going through so many things. When I responded to him calmly he came back next day acting like nothing happened. Then he said he feels like he has depression. I didnt press or chase and gave him space. He cam back again Dec 12th and we agreed to move forward. December 16th he got into a huge fight with his grandmother's sister and was in a bad mood but responded when I checked in on him. His friends even couldn't even talk to him that day. Then poof lol. Ghosted me but few days later told his friends he misses me. Monitors my social media posts and stories but not reaching out.

I think he's playing mind games and before anyone tells me he's cheating, no he's not.

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Posted by Mutya
I don't want to analyze him at this point. I don't even know why I'm back here in DXP. I guess I need an outlet because while I present a calm, strong facade - I'm crumbling inside.

Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Rising so go figure lol.

I've cried about 3x but being an air sign I found myself processing my feelings with my head. I've been overthinking and tried to decode his behavior using astrology but at the end of the day... he's still gone. Way to end 2025.

Really sorry to hear about your sister passing may she rest in peacefully

May I ask what the Sag guy is doing? click to expand

Ghosted me December 17th. We've been rocky since November for reasons I would rather keep private. We patched up mid-November until his birthday December 2nd. He broke up with me Dec 5th saying I deserve better and I deserve more. He's been tight financially and going through so many things. When I responded to him calmly he came back next day acting like nothing happened. Then he said he feels like he has depression. I didnt press or chase and gave him space. He cam back again Dec 12th and we agreed to move forward. December 16th he got into a huge fight with his grandmother's sister and was in a bad mood but responded when I checked in on him. His friends even couldn't even talk to him that day. Then poof lol. Ghosted me but few days later told his friends he misses me. Monitors my social media posts and stories but not reaching out.

I think he's playing mind games and before anyone tells me he's cheating, no he's not.

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What kind of mind games could he be playing?

And how bad is it for him financially? Can he afford his own flat? Or can he afford like half of the groceries when you meet at home?

Or does he want to move into your house and consume your groceries lol

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Posted by Mutya
I don't want to analyze him at this point. I don't even know why I'm back here in DXP. I guess I need an outlet because while I present a calm, strong facade - I'm crumbling inside.

Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Rising so go figure lol.

I've cried about 3x but being an air sign I found myself processing my feelings with my head. I've been overthinking and tried to decode his behavior using astrology but at the end of the day... he's still gone. Way to end 2025.

Really sorry to hear about your sister passing may she rest in peacefully

May I ask what the Sag guy is doing? click to expand

Ghosted me December 17th. We've been rocky since November for reasons I would rather keep private. We patched up mid-November until his birthday December 2nd. He broke up with me Dec 5th saying I deserve better and I deserve more. He's been tight financially and going through so many things. When I responded to him calmly he came back next day acting like nothing happened. Then he said he feels like he has depression. I didnt press or chase and gave him space. He cam back again Dec 12th and we agreed to move forward. December 16th he got into a huge fight with his grandmother's sister and was in a bad mood but responded when I checked in on him. His friends even couldn't even talk to him that day. Then poof lol. Ghosted me but few days later told his friends he misses me. Monitors my social media posts and stories but not reaching out.

I think he's playing mind games and before anyone tells me he's cheating, no he's not.

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Is this a water moon? Good grief.

Oh I’m so sorry to hear about your darling sister, that is so awful. There are no words. Just sending big hugs across the ether to you Xox

And on Sag dude, yes I agree you are getting mind games. I do think however, at this crucial stage in your life you need more than he is giving you… be it mind games or otherwise- take your power and energy back girl! Focus on yourself and your needs.

Sagittarius or not, that's how men have become like, they distance themselves and give just enough crumbs to keep you hanging, don't fall for it, reclaim your energy and give him the boots.

Don't waste any more time on him.

I would be super reluctant to date someone with luminaries falling in my 11H or 12H. even as far as friendship goes, I view sun in my 12H as a sign not to trust em. Venus in my 12H is good though.

You have no good relationship houses in Sagittarius, I wouldn't give those natives the time of day.

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I would be super reluctant to date someone with luminaries falling in my 11H or 12H. even as far as friendship goes, I view sun in my 12H as a sign not to trust em. Venus in my 12H is good though.

You have no good relationship houses in Sagittarius, I wouldn't give those natives the time of day.

I just saw a Tik Tok that said a man having his Venus or moon in your 12th house means he’s closeted. I didn’t bother looking into it, but is that your feeling when a man’s moon falls into your 12th?

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I would be super reluctant to date someone with luminaries falling in my 11H or 12H. even as far as friendship goes, I view sun in my 12H as a sign not to trust em. Venus in my 12H is good though.

You have no good relationship houses in Sagittarius, I wouldn't give those natives the time of day.

I just saw a Tik Tok that said a man having his Venus or moon in your 12th house means he’s closeted. I didn’t bother looking into it, but is that your feeling when a man’s moon falls into your 12th?

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cloudy said that moon in my 12H is a good overlay. the 12H can be soft and Venusian, like how Pisces is exalted in Venus, Neptunian energy can be decent for relationships but not when its involving masculine planets. My 12H is Cancer so those male mooners are already pretty metro if not openly bisexual.

I am so sorry for your loss! Hang in there.❤️

When it rains, it pours. I am sorry for the loss of your sister. May her memory be a blessing.

As for the Sag, block him everywhere. Cut him off and don’t look back. As hard as it may be, move on from him. If he really loved you, he wouldn’t have ghosted. Stop giving him chances for him to continue to hurt you or walk all over you. Close the door on him. It’s a new year.