Should I not bother?

Hey Sags just wanted your input on whether I should pursuit a friendship with this Sag woman or not.

Long story short we were really close friends (almost inseparable) then we got together (this was on and off and a chaotic mess). When it ended she tried to reconcile, but then we had a fight and I tripped and blocked her. I regretted it

Fast forward years later, I reached out because tbh I missed my friend. We’ve talked a couple times, all initiated by me. But her responses have been…dry (for lack of a better word). I can’t seem to make this girl laugh at all and that was easy back then. But when she jumps on social I see the fun bubbly person I remember. So I know she hasn’t changed even after all these years.

And it can’t be the last fight because we barely remember what the fight was about so…

What am I doing wrong? Should I not bother trying?

She's got enough friends. Your role has either been replaced, or made redundant.

You’re boring tbh if a sag ain’t biting on your hook

You’re not a shiny red ball anymore

Reality has set in and there are fancier balls out there.

She knows what to expect from you.

Show her something different!

Saggis suffer from FOMO.

Be something she can’t miss out on

Posted by Saturn_Returns
She's now a different person and has moved on. It's not exactly rocket science.

This too.

Posted by Undine
She's got enough friends. Your role has either been replaced, or made redundant.

Again, I agree.

You used to be FOMO but got replaced by another FOMO

Posted by DragonSag
Well I can just say that we never forget. We may move on, but we never forget. Not to say we hold grudges, but more like what went wrong is always somewhere in the back of our minds. Not sure what to tell you about what you should or shouldn't do. You know your situation with her best. But we don't quite do reconciliations after fall outs with people. Once things get broken they can never be the same

I would also agree with this.

Why reconcile with someone who blocked you and told you to take a hike.

She sounds non-toxic to me . Not wanting to repeat unhappy scenarios

The past is the past. It does affect you though if it ended badly. Not exactly inspiring wanting to be friends again. She’s not acting bubbly with you, so that should be your answer.

Some people don't care to keep in touch with ex's. I am one of these people. Seems like she is as well.

There is no point in your decision to pursue or not pursue a friendship with her as she has already decided not to as evidenced by you reaching out multiple times and her keeping things surface level.

Posted by saggurl88

LOL ok got it

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LOL ok got it

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I'm trolling you lol But you should see how things are in person and let her know that you miss the friendship. Maybe that will help!

Posted by MonaLisa26

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Posted by saggurl88

LOL ok got it
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I'm trolling you lol But you shied see how things are in person and let her know that you miss the friendship. Maybe that will help!
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…and get spat in a face? 🤔

Honestly…I hate to see her dating. Woman doesn’t let TA fuck GO!

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Sag people are NICE, there will be no spitting in faces.

He is asking what he should do, his last effort should be to try to meet up in person before he gives up in general. He's the one who blocked her for years, so he should make an effort if he wants to get back into her life.

Sag rarely hold grudge especially for someone she loves. But she seems like she has moved on from your friendship. Maybe she did forgive you but she have set it in her mind that she won't be close to you, maybe due to trauma from your arguments. Throughout those arguments, I'm sure she did try to talk to herself to give you a chance and you just spoiled it. In terms of how to get her back as your friend, apologize again and make her believe that you have changed.

If you have to ask, then no