DMV
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broke up with the fish
he called me a selfish bitch for not giving a fuck about his feelings. on the contrary, i do give a fuck about his feelings which is why i broke up with him. he said alot of things that made me squirm. like i finally cleared his veneer and found the real fishie. he attacked me and i thought that much of it was uncalled for. i ended up having to hang up on him. he started to verbally abuse me on the phone. kinda feel like i finally got the real him. he def killed any chance of me reconciling with him a few months down the road. even as a friend, he killed that.
we were only offical for like 3.5 weeks. we met 5 weeks ago. i feel like he got carried away and i got carried away bec he did. i didnt have the heart to tell him to chill. i didnt want to hurt his feelings, but i ended up doing that anyway.
im content with the decision i made.
we were only offical for like 3.5 weeks. we met 5 weeks ago. i feel like he got carried away and i got carried away bec he did. i didnt have the heart to tell him to chill. i didnt want to hurt his feelings, but i ended up doing that anyway.
im content with the decision i made.
Wow you sound very strong and sure of yourself! Good for you girl 🙂
That pisces sort of sounds like this asshole taurus guy I knew ugh the sex was awful so was the kissing. He was like the only person I really ever dumped except for the sag. Someimes you just really don't care anymore!
That pisces sort of sounds like this asshole taurus guy I knew ugh the sex was awful so was the kissing. He was like the only person I really ever dumped except for the sag. Someimes you just really don't care anymore!
Posted by DMV
he called me a selfish bitch for not giving a fuck about his feelings. on the contrary, i do give a fuck about his feelings which is why i broke up with him.
this!
Do you know how many times I have thought this/said this to people.
*sigh*
I'm glad other Sagi's get it.
Posted by brianafayPosted by DMV
he called me a selfish bitch for not giving a fuck about his feelings. on the contrary, i do give a fuck about his feelings which is why i broke up with him.
this!
Do you know how many times I have thought this/said this to people.
*sigh*
I'm glad other Sagi's get it.click to expand
its the truth but the other person wont see it like that.
Posted by Sagittarius89
Wow you sound very strong and sure of yourself! Good for you girl 🙂
That pisces sort of sounds like this asshole taurus guy I knew ugh the sex was awful so was the kissing. He was like the only person I really ever dumped except for the sag. Someimes you just really don't care anymore!
it was over for me. what would he rather me do? stay for the sake of his feelings. i would be f'd up for doing tht.
To me, it's better to be considered a heartless bitch, be honest with myself and him, and cut it off before it gets more serious...
If other people want to live with their heads up their asses and drag shit out even when they know it's not gonna work...fine whatever.
Not this bitchh
If other people want to live with their heads up their asses and drag shit out even when they know it's not gonna work...fine whatever.
Not this bitchh
word.
ok, well if you just need someone to play in the hay with ... if you buy me dinner couple times and get me really drunk, or with happy weed I'm all yours 😛
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Takin' it real slow
It's da Venus in Virgo
That's the way to GO !
🙂
oooh a venus in virgo. fits well wih my mars in virgo and venus in cap.
Posted by jru2
ok, well if you just need someone to play in the hay with ... if you buy me dinner couple times and get me really drunk, or with happy weed I'm all yours 😛
dully noted lol
Good for you DMV, and you didn't just let it die out slowly by all of a sudden not picking up his calls, texting, etc. That is the way so many people do break ups now and its mean.
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Good for you DMV, and you didn't just let it die out slowly by all of a sudden not picking up his calls, texting, etc. That is the way so many people do break ups now and its mean.
the old DMV, woulda did that. but ive decided to just be straight up.
Posted by DMVPosted by TheLadySagittarius
Good for you DMV, and you didn't just let it die out slowly by all of a sudden not picking up his calls, texting, etc. That is the way so many people do break ups now and its mean.
the old DMV, woulda did that. but ive decided to just be straight up.click to expand
yeah I'll do that too, if we were never in anything official...
but an official boyfriend deserves an official breakup.
You did the right thing V, but you know that already. 🙂
Posted by THEKingofLibra
What the fuck is official breakup. I've been dumped by text message! Thats how you do it.
Official breakup really just means there was a discussion, like hey, we're not together anymore...don't be surprised when you see me hitting on your bestfriend 😛 lol j/k
"it's not you, it's me"
I understand all of your concerns, and how can you truly move on and if your heart is with someone else, that's how I feel right now I want to move on but I can't cause Sagg#1 has my heart and if wouldn't be fair for me to begin something with someone else knowing I have feeling for another so I had to break things off with Sagg#2 and I did it like you but he was cool and said we would remain friends......
Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Wow you sound very strong and sure of yourself! Good for you girl 🙂
That pisces sort of sounds like this asshole taurus guy I knew ugh the sex was awful so was the kissing. He was like the only person I really ever dumped except for the sag. Someimes you just really don't care anymore!
it was over for me. what would he rather me do? stay for the sake of his feelings. i would be f'd up for doing tht.click to expand
No I wasn't disagreeing with you lol
Cutting it off with a clean sweep is best ... however, allowing him to become close enough to you to have deep feelings was wrong of you to do ... since, he never had your heart in the first place, so therefore, shouldn't been lead to believe it was available in the first place.
In the end, you have to do what is best for you ... I just hope that you realize that fucking with someones head is wrong.
In the end, you have to do what is best for you ... I just hope that you realize that fucking with someones head is wrong.
Posted by brianafayPosted by THEKingofLibra
What the fuck is official breakup. I've been dumped by text message! Thats how you do it.
Official breakup really just means there was a discussion, like hey, we're not together anymore...don't be surprised when you see me hitting on your bestfriend 😛 lol j/k
"it's not you, it's me"click to expand
ooo fay, i do think his half brother is sexier than he is. mmmmmmm but naw, i wont go there...or will i
thats exactly what i told him. its me, not you. he called me an emotional mess and i agreed. that pissed him off. u know ppl get pissed off when you agree with them.
Posted by scorpdiva
I understand all of your concerns, and how can you truly move on and if your heart is with someone else, that's how I feel right now I want to move on but I can't cause Sagg#1 has my heart and if wouldn't be fair for me to begin something with someone else knowing I have feeling for another so I had to break things off with Sagg#2 and I did it like you but he was cool and said we would remain friends......
thats good. at least he didnt drag u through the dirt. i thought the fish with aries placements was being too dramatic for a 3.5 week relationship to be frankly honest.
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Wow you sound very strong and sure of yourself! Good for you girl 🙂
That pisces sort of sounds like this asshole taurus guy I knew ugh the sex was awful so was the kissing. He was like the only person I really ever dumped except for the sag. Someimes you just really don't care anymore!
it was over for me. what would he rather me do? stay for the sake of his feelings. i would be f'd up for doing tht.
No I wasn't disagreeing with you lolclick to expand
i know i was reiterating your point.
Posted by P-Angel
Cutting it off with a clean sweep is best ... however, allowing him to become close enough to you to have deep feelings was wrong of you to do ... since, he never had your heart in the first place, so therefore, shouldn't been lead to believe it was available in the first place.
In the end, you have to do what is best for you ... I just hope that you realize that fucking with someones head is wrong.
yeah it woud have been wrong had i fucked with his head. but i didnt do that. i wouldnt have just entered a relationship if i knew i wasnt over my old one. der lol. he was overly dramatic and played the martyr. i did like him but i dont love him. i think your being overly dramatic as well.
his mercury is in aries and its his chart ruler. i dont question anyones level of commitment in a relationship, so i dont trivialize (sp?) someone else feeling. however, he was being overly dramatic with his tirade. i tried to have a calm discussion with him but nope. he went ape.
yeah mercury retrograde in aries no less.
yeah mercury retrograde in aries no less.
i hope your brother is paying you.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMV
his mercury is in aries and its his chart ruler. i dont question anyones level of commitment in a relationship, so i dont trivialize (sp?) someone else feeling. however, he was being overly dramatic with his tirade. i tried to have a calm discussion with him but nope. he went ape.
yeah mercury retrograde in aries no less.
Calm discussion w/ Pisces male while they're being real talked ?
Hahhahahaha lmao, awwwww. really.click to expand
lol. i was very calm till he told me that i was being too calm and then i unleashed the beast from within. he backed down very quickly. he likes to dish out spats but cant take it. he was picking a fight. not surprising.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Imagine Blurt Cobain at his most dramatic errr sorry emotional ?
dont depress me
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMV
his mercury is in aries and its his chart ruler. i dont question anyones level of commitment in a relationship, so i dont trivialize (sp?) someone else feeling. however, he was being overly dramatic with his tirade. i tried to have a calm discussion with him but nope. he went ape.
yeah mercury retrograde in aries no less.
Calm discussion w/ Pisces male while they're being real talked ?
Hahhahahaha lmao, awwwww. really.
lol. i was very calm till he told me that i was being too calm and then i unleashed the beast from within. he backed down very quickly. he likes to dish out spats but cant take it. he was picking a fight. not surprising.
Aaahhh you know them better than I first thought ?
How many versions of reality did you have to contend with ?
Did you ever swap notes with others to find the variations ?
Did you ever call him on it (instant knee jerk reaction/violent reaction, then how it's all your fault) ?
I love him as he's my lil Brother but sometimes ,damn son ! give it up, everyone knows you make shit up !!!click to expand
lol @ versions of reality. how ever did you know? no we werent together long enough for me to swap stories but i tell you what, with my other fish..MY LORD! he had so many stories out in the world it was laughable!!!i dont know how he keeps up with it all. the old fish got called out alot and still deny deny deny.
this fish wasnt that bad but then again, i only spent 5 weeks with him. way too early to tell. what i did notice was that when he was having fights at work and got suspended for it, i couldnt get a complete story out of him. hes a bad liar, gives off all the signals. i think i asked him 2x what happened and he swore i wasnt his fault. dammit, they dont suspend you for a week for something thats not your fault.
Posted by DMVPosted by P-Angel
Cutting it off with a clean sweep is best ... however, allowing him to become close enough to you to have deep feelings was wrong of you to do ... since, he never had your heart in the first place, so therefore, shouldn't been lead to believe it was available in the first place.
In the end, you have to do what is best for you ... I just hope that you realize that fucking with someones head is wrong.
yeah it woud have been wrong had i fucked with his head. but i didnt do that. i wouldnt have just entered a relationship if i knew i wasnt over my old one. der lol. he was overly dramatic and played the martyr. i did like him but i dont love him. i think your being overly dramatic as well.click to expand
Is that right?
So, telling you you did the right thing is very dramatic?
You should work on that ... sounds like your logic is fucked up.
He obviously thought your heart was available to fall in love with .. and you think that's being overly dramatic?
You should hook up with a Virgo then, for two reasons:
1. they don't comprehend emotions niether, so you'd fit right in
2. they will teach you how to use logic
Good luck with that.
You should hook up with a Virgo then, for two reasons:
1. they don't comprehend emotions niether, so you'd fit right in
2. they will teach you how to use logic
Good luck with that.
good luck with playing the victim
I have done the same thing in the past, and I think it is the best way to end up, basically being honest and not wasting your time nor the other's time.
He must be devastated, but well, that is his problem.
Sometimes it is us the ones dumped, sometimes we are dumpers. It's how life goes.
He will be okay, and you will find another guy...it is just time.
BTW, I do go on seeing the Sag guy. He has survived a lot of shit from me and his perseverance has paid off. I'm giving him a chance.
He must be devastated, but well, that is his problem.
Sometimes it is us the ones dumped, sometimes we are dumpers. It's how life goes.
He will be okay, and you will find another guy...it is just time.
BTW, I do go on seeing the Sag guy. He has survived a lot of shit from me and his perseverance has paid off. I'm giving him a chance.
Posted by LeFruitDeMonImaginationPosted by PiscesArgie
He has survived a lot of shit from me and his perseverance has paid off. I'm giving him a chance.
.. to get some more?
You guys are so generous 😉click to expand
Lol!!!
Actually now he is getting to know the good things 😉
But we met during a bad time (a post break-up of mine)
Posted by THEKingofLibraPosted by PiscesArgie
I have done the same thing in the past, and I think it is the best way to end up, basically being honest and not wasting your time nor the other's time.
He must be devastated, but well, that is his problem.
Sometimes it is us the ones dumped, sometimes we are dumpers. It's how life goes.
He will be okay, and you will find another guy...it is just time.
BTW, I do go on seeing the Sag guy. He has survived a lot of shit from me and his perseverance has paid off. I'm giving him a chance.
ROFL you are like a beat up hooker. "Well I didn't get paid, but he was so insistent and passionate, I just had to fuck him"click to expand
At least somebody here fucks hahahahhahaa noT YOU precisely..wanker.
Posted by LeFruitDeMonImaginationPosted by PiscesArgiePosted by LeFruitDeMonImaginationPosted by PiscesArgie
He has survived a lot of shit from me and his perseverance has paid off. I'm giving him a chance.
.. to get some more?
You guys are so generous 😉
Lol!!!
Actually now he is getting to know the good things 😉
But we met during a bad time (a post break-up of mine)
I'm glad for both of you then 😉click to expand
Thanks.
time will tell. He is really nice and understanding, but can put limits and is no fool. And he seems to be very honest, and certainly direct. I love that.
We are taking things veryyy slowly. No rush.
My first Sag....🙂
Yes ma'am.
Sag Moon here 🙂
thats a strong connection. sun conjunct moon.
yeah
well the synastry is where i was gettin at.
i think its stronger for men sun and womens moon is stronger when conjunct then the other way around because women are more their moon sign.
yep!
Through studying the composite chart of a relationship, we can gain important insights into the dynamics of a couple. The composite chart is the chart of the relationship itself. It is derived by determining the mathematical midpoints between each person's planets and points, and is an entirely new chart altogether—the chart of a relationship. Basic relationship dynamics can be seen in the composite chart.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/compositechart.html<BR>
synastry compares the natal charts. Relationships between planets, signs (types of energy), and houses (sectors of the chart) are described in words and/or often rated in numbers to show to what degree, how, and in what ways one person is compatible or incompatible with another. The assessment is based on the patterns and distributions of energy in the respective and combined charts.
Through studying the composite chart of a relationship, we can gain important insights into the dynamics of a couple. The composite chart is the chart of the relationship itself. It is derived by determining the mathematical midpoints between each person's planets and points, and is an entirely new chart altogether—the chart of a relationship. Basic relationship dynamics can be seen in the composite chart.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/compositechart.html<BR>
synastry compares the natal charts. Relationships between planets, signs (types of energy), and houses (sectors of the chart) are described in words and/or often rated in numbers to show to what degree, how, and in what ways one person is compatible or incompatible with another. The assessment is based on the patterns and distributions of energy in the respective and combined charts.
i dont fair well with long term relationships, so i didnt bother doing the composite. self sabotage, maybe. the synastry tells me about how we relate to one another. that was enough for me.
DMV you should teach me some in depth astro lol I don't know how to read any of that
lets see your birthcart. whats your birth date, time and birth place
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i felt like i would really be breaking his heart if i waited any longer than i did. like six months. have him tell me that he loves me and i say nothing back or even worse lie to protect his feelings.