What to do next with my Sag Woman?

I am 47, my Sag woman 45. She has twin 13 year old boys and has been married/divorced twice. We have been together 6 months or so and needless to say things have been great! We do alot of fun things together, try new places etc. She even gave me a honeydo list and said this is becasue you are more than just a friend to me. However, it seems one day i am a jerk and the next she can't be without me. For Valentines I gave her a card talking about how I love to share everything with her with a fake flower. I signed the card, "I Promise to Love you until the Flower fades". She cried and said kiss me!. Two weeks later (Feb 26) she told me she was gong out with her friends, I have never had an issue with this but this time it didn't sound right. I went to her house and saw a car parked in the driveway. I saw a man (who I think may have been her second ex-husband, divorced almost 3 years). What is strange about it is that just a couple of days before she asked me if she was better off without him in her life, he had taken money from her, then left her for good. I was heart broken, I knocked on the door and all I said is "I knew you were lying to me". and left. I haven't spoken to her since (about a week now). Not sure if I should call, write her a letter saying I am sorry and all the things she is to me or just leave it be. You Sag women out there I need some advice on what to do next!

Two weeks later (Feb 26) she told me she was gong out with her friends, I have never had an issue with this but this time it didn't sound right. I went to her house and saw a car parked in the driveway. I saw a man (who I think may have been her second ex-husband, divorced almost 3 years). What is strange about it is that just a couple of days before she asked me if she was better off without him in her life, he had taken money from her, then left her for good. I was heart broken, I knocked on the door and all I said is "I knew you were lying to me". and left.

*so you think she was cheating on you with her ex husband for 3 years? i think you may have jumped to conclusions. you said you didnt talk to her, but has she contacted you?

No she hasn't contacted me either. With the ex-husband they have been divorced for 3 years. This is the first time (if it was him) that she would have seen him in since she was with me. She has had no problem speaking about her past relationships honestly. So if she would have seen him any time prior I am sure whe would have told me. I have no issues with her talking about past relationships.

i think you should swallow your leo pride and contact her. just clear the air. she probably thinks your pissed as shit about something.

what are her astro placements? moon and mercury to be exact.

I don't know her placements but her birthdate is 12/6/1965 if that helps.

where was she born?

dont you miss her? if you do, call her.

Yes of course I do! Just afraid of the reaction I might get. She was born in Florida.

no fear!

I appreciate your advice. Any other opinions out there?

Posted by LovingLeo
I appreciate your advice. Any other opinions out there?

lol

shes a venus in cap, lol.

What does taht mean?

She sounds bipolar or borderline. I am borderline. And I'll tell ya it ain't pretty.

@Loving: I am a Sag with venus in Capricorn... a few questions I have for you. Has the sex been hot and did she tell you she loves you?

Posted by Sagittarius89
She sounds bipolar or borderline. I am borderline. And I'll tell ya it ain't pretty.

i think that could be the venus going hot and cold.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Sagittarius89
She sounds bipolar or borderline. I am borderline. And I'll tell ya it ain't pretty.

i think that could be the venus going hot and cold.

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Yes, its a curse...lol

@theladysag. Yes sex has been hot and she has told me she loves me. Then one day she will be like "i am confused". But, then she'll say she will ask me to come over that she has a honeydo list and follow it up with "I am letting you do things for me, because you are more than a friend. Should I call, write....help!

call.

What do you mean a curse?!!! i once dated Geminis, couldn't handle the twins!

then again, my advice was not good enough... 😢

venus in caps are constantly pondering whether or not they made the wrong decision. im a venus in capricorn. she just wants to make sure that shes right about you. your stunt at her door probably has her thinking maybe not. but if a venus in cap tells you that they love you, they mean it.

Mr Leo, DMV is right. Call her, if she doesnt answer, then email/text her. She might have just been talking to her ex, not necessarily anything more. If she really cares about you, she is waiting for your call.

Posted by DMV
then again, my advice was not good enough... 😢

teehee

DMV, your advice was perfect. I am a Leo , we like to here diffeent sides!

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Posted by Sagittarius89
She sounds bipolar or borderline. I am borderline. And I'll tell ya it ain't pretty.

i think that could be the venus going hot and cold.

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True too. I have a pisces friend who has a venus in cap. She is hear than there with the guys she dates it's odd.

dude its like everyday, im debating whether or not i made the right decision. assurance from my partner helps me stay hot.

i would give her some more time. i'm a sag with venus in cap and i think i would want you more if i thought i lost you. if she doesnt come around in another week or so i would contact her and just flat out ask her what the deal is and where she stands with you. sag's love upfront approaches. no bs. just get to the point of the matter.

3rd times a charm