I Love You

So the Sagg, and I know I have mention about two Sagg men on her before but the original one Sagg #1 said I Love you on the phone last night before we got off the phone. It made my heart melt, I have said it to him before but he didn't say it back so for him I think this was a big step. So just a question for the Sagg on here when do you say I love you, do you say it first or after? How do you feel about saying those words?

scared to fucking death of uttering those words but that could be my lunar scorpio talking. seriously all forms of commitment scare the living daylights outta me; even car notes.

i think you were probably apprehensive that he didnt say it back when you said it. but it means so much more when we finally do say it because we mean it.

i never say it first. it would be like committing social suicide.

Posted by DMV

i never say it first. it would be like committing social suicide.

lmao. I feel the sameeee way!!!

Right! See it was a while back that I said it to him like in October, I have said it since but thru text. He just really threw me for a loop cause he was like Ok let me get back to work I will talk to you later, I love you. I was floored I said it back and then we hung up, I think like all Sagg and like his Venus in Sagg committing to anything really scares him, we made plans for friday and I am like what time and he said let's play it by ear he doesn't want to commit to a time cause he feels so obligated me being Scorp Sun, Taurus Moon I like to plan stuff I am very organize like that.

yeah saggis are flaky as hell. i dont like committing to anything because i know im going to flake out and people are going to get pissed.

I usually will just say what the other person wants to hear. I would call myself a " Love the one your with" type. So I figure if I don't love them now I will probably love them at some point so why not say it back?

Posted by DMV
yeah saggis are flaky as hell. i dont like committing to anything because i know im going to flake out and people are going to get pissed.

This is exactly what he told me, he don't want me bitching at him if he can't make it. So he perfers to play it by ear.

Posted by Sagittarius89
I usually will just say what the other person wants to hear. I would call myself a " Love the one your with" type. So I figure if I don't love them now I will probably love them at some point so why not say it back?

That's how I am too though. I hate to hurt someone's feelings even if I am not in love with them, I can still love them.

Posted by DMV
yeah saggis are flaky as hell. i dont like committing to anything because i know im going to flake out and people are going to get pissed.

I agree

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Posted by Sagittarius89
I usually will just say what the other person wants to hear. I would call myself a " Love the one your with" type. So I figure if I don't love them now I will probably love them at some point so why not say it back?

That's how I am too though. I hate to hurt someone's feelings even if I am not in love with them, I can still love them.

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Exactly

Posted by DMV
yeah saggis are flaky as hell. i dont like committing to anything because i know im going to flake out and people are going to get pissed.

Me too! Neither I like when people tell me to be in a certain place at a certain time.
I find it so hard to be on time!

And to your question: I will not say I love you first ever unless I am really drunk or I am 100% sure you love me back. Usually I will wait until someone does it first. I think it's a good sign that he told you first.

Hmm well being a girl I wait to say it till after they say it.

The other day my scorpio slipped up and accidently said "I love you." I was like "ummm..." And gave him this look that told him it was too soon. We both agreed we shouldn't take those words lightly and he made a joke that he actually said "olive juice" haha

I say it when I feel it feels right tho. However, in my head I have literally thought "I love you so much, but I can't say it yet cus I don't want to freak you out"

Posted by happykitsune
Hmm well being a girl I wait to say it till after they say it.

The other day my scorpio slipped up and accidently said "I love you." I was like "ummm..." And gave him this look that told him it was too soon. We both agreed we shouldn't take those words lightly and he made a joke that he actually said "olive juice" haha

i wouldnt base my feelings on not saying i love you first on my gender. its more of an insecurity thing.

are you sure that he said it accidentaly? why did you discount his feelings by telling him that it was too soon? for you it coulda been too soon for you to handle those types of feelings from him, but he knows exactly what hes feeling. do you think that your subtly trying to control the pace of the relationship? i think that the joke he made afterwards wasnt a total joke. he was making the joke to cover up his embaressment and even worse, regret.

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Posted by happykitsune
Hmm well being a girl I wait to say it till after they say it.

The other day my scorpio slipped up and accidently said "I love you." I was like "ummm..." And gave him this look that told him it was too soon. We both agreed we shouldn't take those words lightly and he made a joke that he actually said "olive juice" haha

i wouldnt base my feelings on not saying i love you first on my gender. its more of an insecurity thing.

are you sure that he said it accidentaly? why did you discount his feelings by telling him that it was too soon? for you it coulda been too soon for you to handle those types of feelings from him, but he knows exactly what hes feeling. do you think that your subtly trying to control the pace of the relationship? i think that the joke he made afterwards wasnt a total joke. he was making the joke to cover up his embaressment and even worse, regret.

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It was a mutual thing. We both went "uh-oh" when he said it. I told him later about the "I love you's" I say in my head and he told me that he was sorry, that he didn't want to say it until he was positive he loved me. This is something we've talked about previously so it wasn't like I was getting after him, more like a "hmm remember what you said" kinda deal. It's very likely he says I love you in his mind as well so no wonder it slipped. The both of us aren't ready to use those words yet though...we both find they're very sacred words that shouldn't be thrown around. Idk, that's just how we feel. Someone else may have different views on the words, but I'm glad he holds saying the words in such a high regard as I do

i hold those words sacred 2

That's good. Not many do, and it's sad :/