@happykitsune
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Should I feel upset about this? :/
Understanding Your Feelings When a Partner Cancels Plans
Feeling upset when your partner prioritizes friends over you is natural, especially when you had planned quality time. It reflects your need for connection and respect. Communicate your feelings openly and consider their perspective. Balancing social life and relationship needs is important for emotional well-being and mutual understanding.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
You clingy little centaur cow 😛I don't know why you two still haven't bumped uglies and just stay indoors these days, sipping wine and doing each other's homework. Either way, you are like fucking children - hanging out with 'friends', going to library, studying.. Pathetic 😛
Lol well we are trying to take it slow...and we are at a college...you kinda go there to study, learn and socialize 😛
lol what is it with Cad and you calling people gay.
Thanks for your input tho lol
Thanks Bass. I inquired about something pertaining to it in the scorpio board. Blah
I wouldn't be that worried. Let him hang with his friends, he will come to you . Everybody needs to have some space and it's nice to miss the ohter person, too. It works better if you also go out with your friends, too, and don't make any type of scene, just let him be. We water sign people need plenty of time off our partners. That makes us go back to you recharged adn happier. Don't give it a thought, he loves you but also loves to hang out with pals. No worries.
your moon in scorpio is rearing its ugly little head. posseiveness and jealousy. i suggest getting a hobby.
Your upset cause he wanted to hang with his friends? WAIT TILL ONE KICKS YOU OUT OF THE HOUSE! lol....
Posted by Sagittarius89
Your upset cause he wanted to hang with his friends? WAIT TILL ONE KICKS YOU OUT OF THE HOUSE! lol....
lol. childs play huh
that was definitely not a sting. the majority of the stings i got, i could never post.
Posted by Sagittarius89
Your upset cause he wanted to hang with his friends? WAIT TILL ONE KICKS YOU OUT OF THE HOUSE! lol....lol. childs play huh
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Lol totally
Posted by DMV
that was definitely not a sting. the majority of the stings i got, i could never post.
I hear ya!
Posted by PiscesArgie
I wouldn't be that worried. Let him hang with his friends, he will come to you . Everybody needs to have some space and it's nice to miss the ohter person, too. It works better if you also go out with your friends, too, and don't make any type of scene, just let him be. We water sign people need plenty of time off our partners. That makes us go back to you recharged adn happier. Don't give it a thought, he loves you but also loves to hang out with pals. No worries.
Usually I would agree with you if it hadn't been in the context of him blowing me off in the first place. The fact is he had planned to hang with me from the beginning of the week. I don't mind that he hangs with friends. I love that he's social because quite honestly we sagis need our space and scorpios can become too clingy if they don't regulate themselves. But saying you're going to hang with someone then blowing them off for last minute plans with guys is not cool and I let him know. Yes I was calm about it and I said I'd be fine. He wanted to make it up to me though. He knows what he did was wrong
Yeah I know right. Anyone who marries a man who would kick them outta the house is insane.
Posted by happykitsune
Yeah I know right. Anyone who marries a man who would kick them outta the house is insane.
Umm who the hell is married??
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
I am 21 years old, My ex boyfriend kicked me out of his house when we were dating. I can feel a guy wanting to purpose any day now! Clearly I am marriage material at it's finest!
Ha!
Well I intend on getting married. Now whether its to my scorpio only time will tell, but he seems to wanna get it to that point.
Tht sucks your exboyfriend kicked you outta his house. what'dya do to deserve that? Good thing hes your ex now
Posted by happykitsune
Well I intend on getting married. Now whether its to my scorpio only time will tell, but he seems to wanna get it to that point.
Tht sucks your exboyfriend kicked you outta his house. what'dya do to deserve that? Good thing hes your ex now
Yeah, it's a long story. Oh, I see what you mean. How old are you?
Posted by happykitsune
Well I intend on getting married. Now whether its to my scorpio only time will tell, but he seems to wanna get it to that point.
Tht sucks your exboyfriend kicked you outta his house. what'dya do to deserve that? Good thing hes your ex nowYeah, it's a long story. Oh, I see what you mean. How old are you?
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Same age as you
Posted by happykitsune
Well I intend on getting married. Now whether its to my scorpio only time will tell, but he seems to wanna get it to that point.
Tht sucks your exboyfriend kicked you outta his house. what'dya do to deserve that? Good thing hes your ex nowYeah, it's a long story. Oh, I see what you mean. How old are you?
Same age as you
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Oh. You want to get married now?
Posted by Sagittarius89
Clearly I am marriage material at it's finest!Oh yeah, I'd do you.
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Lol
No, after I graduate college. It doesn't hurt to talk about it with the partner you're with tho
Posted by happykitsune
No, after I graduate college. It doesn't hurt to talk about it with the partner you're with tho
Ah I see, yeah true true got see where people stand
Posted by happykitsune
No, after I graduate college. It doesn't hurt to talk about it with the partner you're with thoAh I see, yeah true true got see where people stand
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Of course cus if they aren't on the same page I'm outta there
i read that people shouldnt get married till after their saturn return.
i never thought of finding my MRS while in college,i was having too much fun drinkin, skipping class, and doing shrooms. good times.
a few of my friends did find their mates in college but they didnt get married till 5 years later.
Posted by DMV
i read that people shouldnt get married till after their saturn return.i never thought of finding my MRS while in college,i was having too much fun drinkin, skipping class, and doing shrooms. good times.
a few of my friends did find their mates in college but they didnt get married till 5 years later.
Posted by DMV
i read that people shouldnt get married till after their saturn return.i never thought of finding my MRS while in college,i was having too much fun drinkin, skipping class, and doing shrooms. good times.
a few of my friends did find their mates in college but they didnt get married till 5 years later.
To each their own. I come from a smaller town and go to a christian college so you put those two together and you got a lot of people getting married around my age. It'll happen when I'm ready. I'm almost outta college so if something does happen it most likely be after.
When saturn returns? What exactly does this mean? o.o
Posted by everevolvingepithet
It's usually around 29-31 give or take a year and wherever you Saturn is, is where everything goes tits up somewhat.🙂
My saturn Capricorn 11.39
Not sure what that means. 30 seems a bit old tho 😛
I read once that it was this special calculation with the degrees. Honestly I feel like that part of astrology isn't accurate tho
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Right right, 30 is just like soooooo old !
*rolls eyes*http://planetwaves.net/cainer/archive/000750.php
http://www.bemyastrologer.com/saturn_return_in_capricorn.html
http://www.psychicguild.com/psychic-articles/86
I must agree on anything that pertains to 'having to grow up'
Drat 😢
🙂
40 is the new 30 so no I must re-iterate that 30 isn't old !
😛
Haha well you must realize I'm only 21. I still think 30 is old and pushin it if someone wants to have kids. Then again I'm female...I have eggs I'd rather not dry up before I find a man to have kids with
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Fair play. yeah 21 is a young whippersnapper imo.
I dunno on the kids thing, a lot of responsibility involved plus they become priority over everything else, hence the '40 is the new 30' hahah.
I like my freedom too much.
Plus I don't think it's literally 'women are on the scrap heap once they pass 30'..
Although at 21, you shouldn't be thinking about kids that much.
Haha oh I have a tendency to think ahead. Marriage comes first of course. But I think the fact that a lot of people around me are getting married has kinda forced me to look at the age in which a women will most likely need to stop having kids (35) because of problems with kids coming out wrong (mentally retarded) or not being able to have kids. I read an article that said it's hard to get women pregnant more and more each year.
Do I have a set age I hope to get married? yes...
Am I gonna get married at the age I want? Probably not. I'll take life in strides as it comes to me, but it's never hurt me to be prepared in a large scale sense.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Yeah I think past 30 it's harder to conceive generally speaking, but that doesn't guarantee a spazz free child either.
I see your point on what you say about all your peers settling down but again that's no reason to take heed of such a thing.
Ask around a lot of the older women/men who had kids young. Even though they'll jump up straight away and say something like 'best thing that's happened to me', pay attention to the 'but....' or how they're restricted, if that helps. 🙂
Yes, but these are people who had kids from ages 16-23 I think anytime after 25 is good because thats the age when you have matured fully to an adult. It's a good age range for have children (25-34 yrs). It's my ideal age range so that's what I'm shootin for 🙂 If I had a kid now I'd be all kinds of stressed. I wanna have fun in my marriage too for a bit as well...wanna be able to have sex whenever without having to worry about another person x.x
based on the logic surrounding the Saturn Return, people dont mature until 29.5. there is some logic to the saturn return. ive heard horror stories related to the return and also good ones. im going through mine right now and its been up and down. most of my peers have been divorced by the time they get to 30. divorcee at 29...no
"I still think 30 is old and pushin it if someone wants to have kids. Then again I'm female...I have eggs I'd rather not dry up before I find a man to have kids with"
*say what lol! im female and 29 and 30 is not old in the least bit. its older than 21, but wow, the things that you can conquer in your 20s. thats when your finding yourself. i think that those are the years to let loose and experience the world. but thats my 2 cents. my eggs arent drying up anytime soon lol.
im curious, what age do you want to get married. i want to get married and have kids by around 33. i think by then i will be ready to deal with a little buggers, husband, and a career.
ive missed you ^ 🙂
how ya been?
Posted by DMV
based on the logic surrounding the Saturn Return, people dont mature until 29.5. there is some logic to the saturn return. ive heard horror stories related to the return and also good ones. im going through mine right now and its been up and down. most of my peers have been divorced by the time they get to 30. divorcee at 29...no"I still think 30 is old and pushin it if someone wants to have kids. Then again I'm female...I have eggs I'd rather not dry up before I find a man to have kids with"
*say what lol! im female and 29 and 30 is not old in the least bit. its older than 21, but wow, the things that you can conquer in your 20s. thats when your finding yourself. i think that those are the years to let loose and experience the world. but thats my 2 cents. my eggs arent drying up anytime soon lol.
im curious, what age do you want to get married. i want to get married and have kids by around 33. i think by then i will be ready to deal with a little buggers, husband, and a career.
I agree DMV! 30's are the best. Your more mature, you know what you want and know how to get it and I dont know about you, but damn Im more sexual and more outgoing when it comes to sex.
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yes i agree. more confident in every way.
Posted by DMV
i read that people shouldnt get married till after their saturn return.how many fricken times does saturn return in one's lifetime? I've done it twice and that bitch isn't allowed to come back again for the third time.
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The Saturn return is an astrological phenomenon which occurs and influences a person's life development at 27 to 29 or 30-year intervals according to their "life chart". These intervals or "returns" coincide with the approximate time it takes the planet Saturn to make one orbit around the sun, i.e. 28?_ years. It is believed by astrologers that, as Saturn "returns" to the degree in its orbit occupied at the time of birth, a person crosses over a major threshold and enters the next stage of life. With the first Saturn return, a person leaves youth behind and enters adulthood. With the second return, maturity. And with the third and usually final return, a person enters wise old age. These periods are estimated to occur at roughly the ages of 27-30, 58-60, 86-88 and so on
Posted by DMV
ive missed you ^ 🙂how ya been?
Messing up html by the look of it 🙂
Pretty good thanks, still waiting on confirmation of my new job ffs, but I think they're a bit tired of me calling daily and really busy ha.
Exercise exercise, the occasional energy drink treat and I finally found a shop that has haribo tangfastic in stock (I have gone 5 days and nowhere had any...then they were back in stock in the local supermarket in bigger bags !!😛)
That and some hornby train set/CB radio motha $ —?% @ needs to be leaving feedback on ebay right about now, ffs. 🙂
So all in all peachy fine.
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chillin like a villan. cant complain.
Posted by DMV
based on the logic surrounding the Saturn Return, people dont mature until 29.5. there is some logic to the saturn return. ive heard horror stories related to the return and also good ones. im going through mine right now and its been up and down. most of my peers have been divorced by the time they get to 30. divorcee at 29...no"I still think 30 is old and pushin it if someone wants to have kids. Then again I'm female...I have eggs I'd rather not dry up before I find a man to have kids with"
*say what lol! im female and 29 and 30 is not old in the least bit. its older than 21, but wow, the things that you can conquer in your 20s. thats when your finding yourself. i think that those are the years to let loose and experience the world. but thats my 2 cents. my eggs arent drying up anytime soon lol.
im curious, what age do you want to get married. i want to get married and have kids by around 33. i think by then i will be ready to deal with a little buggers, husband, and a career.
A good age range is 25-30 years old.
Keep in mind we live in different areas. Smaller towns tend to have people marrying sooner. I live in the bible belt and the town I live in people get married at the age of 18-20 something. I think that is far too young so I've decided on a good middle ground.
Biologically speaking 25 years is when most people mature fully in their bodies and mind. Though people have been known to mature slower and faster. Biologically speaking women also begin to lose their ability to have kids around the age of 35...or it'll get harder at least. I'd rather not wait till then because if I do...well, I ain't gettin any younger lol. Also the fact that more and more men are start to have lower and lower sperm count and it's harder to get some women pregnant these days. Just some of the research I've read and it scares me. Sorry, but that's the way I live...you guys do it your way and I'll do it mine. I'm the cautious type 😆
I agree DMV! 30's are the best. Your more mature, you know what you want and know how to get it and I dont know about you, but damn Im more sexual and more outgoing when it comes to sex.
yeah I hear sex gets even better the older you get
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Idk, I'm pretty good at getting over when people let me down, but I'm wondering if I'm just being too sensitive about this.
My scorpio and I have break starting tomorrow so we wont be able to see each other for a week and decided we'd go to the library together tonight and study for midterms before we spent some last minute time to kiss and whatnot. I took a little longer than I thought I was going to with the study session I was in today and he calls me a few mins before I said I was going to get out. Basically the voicemail said he wanted to hang out with me, but his friends were pressuring him to hang all week and he hadn't had a chance to hang out with them so he was still going to the library with me, but then we'd cut it short and he'd hang with friends. Well my study session kept going and he called me a second time. Still couldn't answer so he said to call him. I told him I was sorry and that I'd get my stuff together real fast, but instead he asked if I really needed to go to the library, which I replied, "I guess not", to which he said he didn't want to blow me off, but he didn't really need to go to the library and his friends were really pressuring him to hang so he was just going to hang with them, but he still wanted to see me tomorrow for lunch before he left.
Pretty sure I just got stung...ow. I was like "cool, I need to study anyway" and told him maybe I'd be able to have lunch. He was like "well what else are you going to do, sleep?" ..."no I have to study for this test" -.-
So I get off the phone and I'm surprised he didn't catch it or maybe he's just avoiding it, but I was kinda upset. I hid it well, but I think anyone could hear that something wasn't right...
Is it wrong I feel bad about this? He blew me off for his friends...hmm...