Do I have any chance with my Sag ex?

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Libra879
@Libra879
10 Years

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This might turn into more of a rant but I'm interested in anything you have to say🙂 Libra girl here haha!!

I don't really know to describe the relationship. We liked each other for 4 years, but we didn't date until this year because we wanted to wait until we were old enough and for after exams. I really like him, and I think he really liked me, but our relationship wasn't great. I have naturally high expectations and I suppose I imagined a relationship straight out of a film, and he's a very practical guy and I think buying me flowers and kissing me in the rain was the last thing on his mind.
He broke up with me about 3 weeks ago after 4 months and we're still friends. He told me he thought our personalities were too different, but I think he was turned off by a lot of things which weren't working. Eg. I want a romantic relationship but I don't really do cute stuff I wait for him to do it. Also I had been distant from everyone for a while because an event which happened kind of made me shut off from everyone. The day after we broke up, my best friend (also a Sag) got mad at me and we had an argument about it a few days ago and my temper came out of nowhere because I was so frustrated. He witnessed this and if anything I've turned him off more, especially as no one's used to seeing me angry, even I'm not.
I would love to build up a relationship with him over time, but I'm wondering if it's just no good. Whilst I've been seriously imaging settling down with him for 4 years I think he may not be thinking down that route (even though he said he had thought about it...?🙂 I'm also worried that I'm not "in love" with him, but I'm just in love with the idea of him and the time I've invested. I thought we had a really strong bond, but it seems to have broken in light of this break up and this argument with the previously mentioned best friend. It scares me how quickly he seems to write me off? But I might be reading him completely wrong.