well let me start by saying i know this sag through a family member , he's pretty cool and i've been knowing him now for 6 years....i'm 25 and he is too.. we never took it to a relationship due to 6 years ago i didn't think he was the commitment type. we always stayed in contact but boy does he talks about sex and too me it's cool but i get turned off when i feel thats all you want from me. now me and sag did have sex 6 years ago 1 time, i was his first. now it seems like theres mixed signals because through those 6 years it will be off and on contact, i never worried about it because he always bring up sex and i just want more than that. just recently sag will contact me to see how i'm doing and even call every now and then i hardly initiate, i let him lead. i can honestly say me and sag never really hung out as far as dates and stuff so i feel as if i don't know him fully... i will say i can see a future with him...they say the c word scares them lol...but now sag has a lot going for himself he has his own vehicles, a house, very independent and lord no kids...very attracting to me.... now i'm quite established too own car, own place, i work and no kids either...so my question is how do i handle a sag....i mean i want him to take the lead, do i just continue being his friend....i just feel that him and i've already had sex 6 years ago.... i'm at a stage in my life that i don't wanna just sleep with him without being committed to one another...what should i do?
