Do you find it hard to say I love you?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by virgodog58 on Saturday, January 25, 2014 and has 12 replies.

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@virgodog58
14 Years1,000+ Posts

My ex is a Sag. female: we have a 12-year-old son (also a Sag.) We have known each other for many years but in all of that time she had only ever said "I love you" to me once - and that was many years ago and I am not sure that she really even meant that as it sounded more like she was kind of testing or teasing me to see what my response was. If she had sounded sincere I think I might have been able to say it back to her but as she didn't really sound sincere I didn't say it. Later on she told me that she used to love me but had stopped loving me because I was such a critical person (typical Virgo I suppose!) I was wondering whether you think it is typical of a Sag. not to want to say these words (maybe for fear of being trapped, in that "I love you" may be interpreted as a commitment that you are afraid of?) What say you?

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@SilentGhost
12 YearsScorpio

She an Ex..

Why talk abt an Ex ?

In ur heart kill her and then she's dead.

No more talk abt ex love etc etc..

And you can carry on your life.

Maybe even make another happy ?

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@Sag89
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

I like how the Scorpios hop on here. No one cares. ^

Virgo, I thought you guys were the ones who had a hard time expressing? Maybe she just kept getting hurt by you and fell out of love.

I'm sure if she said it only once she was probably serious.

I mean if I say it.

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@xAdoree
12 Years

It's normal for Sagittarius people to not say "I love you" seriously, since they're known for being afraid of commitment, but they also tend to joke around a lot as well. Being a sag, it really depends. I have no problem saying it at all to friends and family, but when it comes to lovers, I refrain more from saying it, because it feels more serious to me. So I guess you can't really tell. xD I think they use it in a more flexible way so that they don't think about the whole commitment thing