Don't know what's up. Sagittarius sun, Cap Venus, that's all I know.

Had an argument with my boyfriend last Sunday about something I assumed based on my observations. He told me that wasn't it. We got over it quickly right then. Next day I texted him asking to move forward and forget about the argument since he knows I get really upset when we're not talking. He said he forgot about it then itself but wouldn't take any gifts from me??!! Now that was an old argument from March that we got over in some time and he finally demanded 10 days ago that I buy him shoes. We have this thing where I buy him shoes and he buys me make up. Just a thing we both love. Don't know why he brought up the no gifts thing again. I said why you're bringing this up, nothing of that sort happened. He said 'I said no'. So I left it there and we continued talking. I was happy we got over it pretty quickly given how he takes weeks to get over stuff.

So Wednesday he texted me, we chatted but I kind of had a feeling he was upset coz of something, he did mention he's tired from work. I asked him if he's upset he didn't reply to it and went to sleep.

Today I texted him the normal hi, what's up. He didn't reply to that either so I again texted asking if he's busy and if he's okk coz I got the feeling that day too that he wasn't and that I'm worried. He said he's okk. And nothing else.

Now I feel if he was still mad at me, then, 1. I wouldn't have felt we're over it by the end of the argument. 2. He wouldn't have said he's over it. 3. He wouldn't have reached out himself if he was in fact still mad. He never has if he's mad.

So am I right to think it's something else and not me?? This has happened earlier where he wouldn't talk to me properly or even ignore me when he's upset but since we had that argument a week ago I'm thinking if it's me. Or over thinking?? I really have a gut feeling it's not me. Still just asking you guys.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

I think he knows you sensitive and he's taking bit of advantage of that. Do you like buying him gifts? Because if Yes it would sound like a punishment.

On the other hand I don't know how you argue with him. If you constantly trying to undermind his words then I would be annoyed too. Why don't you try to stop walking on egg shells with him and try to believe what he says? From my perspective that's what it looks like, but I don't see how you guys interact.

Yeah I do like buying him gifts. And this thing I asked him, I'd asked once earlier too.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

I think he knows you sensitive and he's taking bit of advantage of that. Do you like buying him gifts? Because if Yes it would sound like a punishment.

On the other hand I don't know how you argue with him. If you constantly trying to undermind his words then I would be annoyed too. Why don't you try to stop walking on egg shells with him and try to believe what he says? From my perspective that's what it looks like, but I don't see how you guys interact.

But how come he's annoyed if he said he's over it and even reached out himself, something he's never done when he's mad.

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Posted by ClassyAquarius

I think he knows you sensitive and he's taking bit of advantage of that. Do you like buying him gifts? Because if Yes it would sound like a punishment.

On the other hand I don't know how you argue with him. If you constantly trying to undermind his words then I would be annoyed too. Why don't you try to stop walking on egg shells with him and try to believe what he says? From my perspective that's what it looks like, but I don't see how you guys interact.

But how come he's annoyed if he said he's over it and even reached out himself, something he's never done when he's mad.

I meant it's unpleasant when your partner doesn't believe your words. You admitted you asked something before and then mention it again. Then you asked again if he's not mad for sure, because you won't stand him not talking to you. It sounds like you don't trust him. Do you trust him?

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I trust him blindly, coz if I didn't we wouldn't be together today if I didn't take his word. I hope he knows that and he's crazy if he doesn't 😑

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Posted by ClassyAquarius

I think he knows you sensitive and he's taking bit of advantage of that. Do you like buying him gifts? Because if Yes it would sound like a punishment.

On the other hand I don't know how you argue with him. If you constantly trying to undermind his words then I would be annoyed too. Why don't you try to stop walking on egg shells with him and try to believe what he says? From my perspective that's what it looks like, but I don't see how you guys interact.

But how come he's annoyed if he said he's over it and even reached out himself, something he's never done when he's mad.

I meant it's unpleasant when your partner doesn't believe your words. You admitted you asked something before and then mention it again. Then you asked again if he's not mad for sure, because you won't stand him not talking to you. It sounds like you don't trust him. Do you trust him?

I trust him blindly, coz if I didn't we wouldn't be together today if I didn't take his word. I hope he knows that and he's crazy if he doesn't 😑

Maybe he doesn't feel it since you questioning a lot. What you say and do is two different things. Those things have to meet if you want to have clear space in relationship

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As I said, we wouldn't be together today if I didn't believe him, but I do, blindly for that matter and if he's anything sensible then he knows I trust him blindly. Anyway, say he doesn't believe that I believe him or is just annoyed that I questioned him, what do I do now, give him space?

Why don't you just live with him? It's so much easier than texting lol

Posted by SagInTheSun898

Why don't you just live with him? It's so much easier than texting lol

Lol we would if we could. Not possible right now.