Sagittarius apology?

One of my best friends from high school born 12/12/62.

Was always everybody's friend (when he needed something) always the charming flirt with all the girls and kiss, make out and screw every girl that had a boyfriend including a girl he knew I seriously crushed on for years but was to shy to talk to that also happened to be the sister of a girl he dated for a couple years. He is married to a friends ex wife. He moved away and tried several times to be facebook friends but at time I did not friend anyone. Yesterday I responded to his request (I'm friend #4) and he messaged me immediately. Asked how I was then said "I'm sry for the past my mistake". I did not respond. Then asked how I was again, where I am said he missed our friendship and is always telling stories of our good times.

Recently I have recalled several times I felt used or was put at risk and how he pretended to care that I had a crush by calling and talking to her. I was always at his side waiting for her to show interest or for him to help us meet but he was actually just grooming her to be comfortable with him. I wanted to ask what apology was for incase I forgot something that he felt bad about but let it be. It struck me as something important to him and I didn't want to just say "screw you".

My ex-wife Sagittarius never, never apologized for anything so figured that was typical Sag behavior.

God you're old as fuck.

Posted by Hemispheres

God you're old as fuck.

And you're disrespectful af 😒

Posted by Shy_Taurus

One of my best friends from high school born 12/12/62.

Was always everybody's friend (when he needed something) always the charming flirt with all the girls and kiss, make out and screw every girl that had a boyfriend including a girl he knew I seriously crushed on for years but was to shy to talk to that also happened to be the sister of a girl he dated for a couple years. He is married to a friends ex wife. He moved away and tried several times to be facebook friends but at time I did not friend anyone. Yesterday I responded to his request (I'm friend #4) and he messaged me immediately. Asked how I was then said "I'm sry for the past my mistake". I did not respond. Then asked how I was again, where I am said he missed our friendship and is always telling stories of our good times.

Recently I have recalled several times I felt used or was put at risk and how he pretended to care that I had a crush by calling and talking to her. I was always at his side waiting for her to show interest or for him to help us meet but he was actually just grooming her to be comfortable with him. I wanted to ask what apology was for incase I forgot something that he felt bad about but let it be. It struck me as something important to him and I didn't want to just say "screw you".

My ex-wife Sagittarius never, never apologized for anything so figured that was typical Sag behavior.

I dont know many Sags, my aunt is one and I never in my life heard her apologize for anything.

Ex co-worker is a Sag, he's a very decent fella and he squeezes an apology in where he feels its needed. He's is the gentleman type really. He actually apologized for my ex husbands behaviour! And he doesnt even know him.

I think its part parenting, upbringing and self development. But also, some say it out of habit and doesnt mean it and some never say it but show with actions. To me personally, saying sorry doesnt mean much, actions do.

I apologize all the time, but only to those I care about.... I'm a Saggitarrius sun 5th house w/ libra moon.. maybe I wanted balance but honestly, there's no reason for me NOT to apologize to those I hurt. I think the OPs rationale is all wrong

If you don't recieve an apology from a Saggitarrius it's because they truly believe you were wrong.

"I think the OPs rationale is all wrong"

That is why I asked rather Sagittarius can be apologetic or if they were more often like my ex and never apologized.

Posted by Solaristic

If you don't recieve an apology from a Saggitarrius it's because they truly believe you were wrong.

I thought it meant that they (ex for example) did not care about mine/anybody's feelings.

That is why it surprised me that this seemed important to my friend from high school even though I'm not sure what he thinks he apologized for.

Posted by Shy_Taurus

"I think the OPs rationale is all wrong"

That is why I asked rather Sagittarius can be apologetic or if they were more often like my ex and never apologized.

It could be also they're trying to unburden themselves more than apologize to you, if you know what I mean. Just so they can feel good about themselves... I've known multiple Sagittarius like that. But it's been a long time, I'm pretty sure your friend has changed drastically.

Sounds almost like some AA thing. And I’m confused did most of this happen in high school like 25 years ago?

You are an adult. You either forgive him and try again or you don’t. But If he said sorry, he probably means it, otherwise he wouldn’t have reached out.

If you’re asking strangers the why, who knows. I’m a sag and say sorry if I’m wrong. It’s not even something I struggle with at all. It takes me no time to say those words.

Posted by 7s

One of my little Bros is a sag born on 12/12)92. The girls like him. And he gets with other dudes girls quite often. He was jumped recently by a group of guys I don't know. He doesn't want to tell me why but my guess is is he probably got with someones chick again. I know a handful of sag dudes that do that actually.

And yeah the sign is not good for apologies and if you get one it won't be sincere. They like to shit on everything.

Posted by 7s

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by 7s

One of my little Bros is a sag born on 12/12)92. The girls like him. And he gets with other dudes girls quite often. He was jumped recently by a group of guys I don't know. He doesn't want to tell me why but my guess is is he probably got with someones chick again. I know a handful of sag dudes that do that actually.

And yeah the sign is not good for apologies and if you get one it won't be sincere. They like to shit on everything.

You guys are kind of terrible lol I feel bad saying that cause you always say nice things about Gemini's. But trust me, I have solid reasons.

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Lol. I’m only one among all others. I can’t speak for them all

But it does take 2 to sleep together. Women and men know the risk of being side pieces.

It’s disgusting to mess with someone’s ex though. Why a man or women would even want to have sex with someone his friend has been with, is beyond me.

It does sound like he’s making amends. Sometimes at this age when people are dealing with their life, they start to realize what they’ve done. Doesn’t mean you have to accept it.

I’m a Sag & I apologize when I’m at fault. Sometimes, I even apologize for other people’s actions when someone has been wronged. I also take responsibility. It’s part of maturing.

If you desire it, you could ask. If you don’t, don’t. Who knows what space he is in today.

If he has done some soul searching and means it....he means it🤷

Feel free to take him at his word, without having any further expectations from him. Another words don't assume any other changes beyond that apology.

Posted by Hemispheres

God you're old as fuck.

Hahahaha you’re something

Posted by saggurl88

Sounds almost like some AA thing. And I’m confused did most of this happen in high school like 25 years ago?

You are an adult. You either forgive him and try again or you don’t. But If he said sorry, he probably means it, otherwise he wouldn’t have reached out.

If you’re asking strangers the why, who knows. I’m a sag and say sorry if I’m wrong. It’s not even something I struggle with at all. It takes me no time to say those words.

Yes, I'm guilty of remembering and part of the problem is I was too naïve and only just recently realized the total of his behavior when it came to his friends so my mind will process and let go. But I did not ignore him any longer and friended him on Facebook. He did apologize but did not specify what. He seemed happy to reconnect but now has been quiet since.

Sagittarians are quite often fun and likeable peoples. My ex was not bad but she would not apologize. I appreciate when someone can apologize.

Posted by dillpickle

sag is “you snooze you lose” energy

Bingo!