Freedom from a Sagi woman's point of view

Posted by JSagittarius707
I don't know about other female sagi's, so I just wanted to ask... is your personal freedom more important to you than your past or present relationships? I feel that freedom has always been an issue with me in my relationships. I always give freedom to the other person. I'm not a jealous person at all. I may be territorial, but not jealous. So if I give a person their freedom, how come it's so hard for that other sign to give it in return? My last relationship was a Cancer (wanted to shoot myself with that one lols) and before him I was with a Libra (good relationship, but he became too possessive). Haven't had a whole lot of boyfriends but most of my lovers complained the same. They always complained that I wasn't paying them any attention, but I felt like I was. I don't like to feel caged in, so when they tell me I can't do something it's like a reflex to challenge it. But for some reason if they give me that freedom, and I know that I can do something without complaint, then I'll be around more. Contradictory, I know, but it's a subconscious ordeal. Does any other sagi woman have this problem? Lmk... lols

Posted by DMV

aquas and caps on the flip side didnt complain about my perceived lack if attentiveness.

Posted by AquaScorp92

Posted by DMV

aquas and caps on the flip side didnt complain about my perceived lack if attentiveness.

Understanding a Sag needs some time, but me being an aqua helps a lot, I understand that people need their alone time, its not that you need to do all the things together, sometimes you need to take care of certain things alone and its ok to let them go, because, "Trust is something that brings Life to a Relation."

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Posted by happykitsune

Lol well there's your problem right there. You were dating CLINGY and NEEDY, aka cancer and libra.

I like my freedom too and I don't like to be pushed in a certain direction. I remember when I was younger I couldn't be in a relationship for more than 2 weeks or I'd get depressed and feel trapped.

I'd say date a sag cus they obviously want freedom too, but I've known some sags who can be pretty clingy -.-

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Posted by DMV

aquas and caps on the flip side didnt complain about my perceived lack if attentiveness.

Understanding a Sag needs some time, but me being an aqua helps a lot, I understand that people need their alone time, its not that you need to do all the things together, sometimes you need to take care of certain things alone and its ok to let them go, because, "Trust is something that brings Life to a Relation."

How about "Trust is how a relationship lasts"

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Posted by MzSagittarius
I'm possessive and protective to, though I'll NEVER show that side.

Posted by Mebs
I agree. I'm very loyal and loving, but as far as being submissive, ummm that's not me. My man can be gone all day, and I may ask how his day was, but insofar as prying I wouldn't do that.

My Sag ex said he wanted to go to a bachelor party and paused, looking at me. I said, "Wtf is your problem? You need singles for the stripper or something? I have change!". I really didn't mind. But on the other hand, he smothered me and snooped through my things and didn't want me to have any space. That was a huge problem for us. And I wasn't bending.

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Posted by happykitsune

Lol well there's your problem right there. You were dating CLINGY and NEEDY, aka cancer and libra.

I like my freedom too and I don't like to be pushed in a certain direction. I remember when I was younger I couldn't be in a relationship for more than 2 weeks or I'd get depressed and feel trapped.

I'd say date a sag cus they obviously want freedom too, but I've known some sags who can be pretty clingy -.-

Oh yes. My Sag ex had a Venus in Scorp and he was the worst. I was so happy when I lost my cell phone, so I wouldn't have to deal with him calling me ten times a day. Once, my phone dialed him accidentally when I was with a male buddy of mine. I picked up the phone and it had over TWELVE minutes on it! I was like, "Hello?". He was like, "OH! Your phone dialed me, I was waiting for you to say something.". O_O I was heated!

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Posted by DMV
yes, people want more than i can actually give. even when i gave up my freedom for a leo, it still wasnt good enough. so iv stopped trying to change for other people. same with a cancer, scorpio (s), leo(s), pisces,libras.

if you dont like how i act, leave me be 🙂

aquas and caps on the flip side didnt complain about my perceived lack if attentiveness.

Posted by Mebs
I agree. I'm very loyal and loving, but as far as being submissive, ummm that's not me. My man can be gone all day, and I may ask how his day was, but insofar as prying I wouldn't do that.

My Sag ex said he wanted to go to a bachelor party and paused, looking at me. I said, "Wtf is your problem? You need singles for the stripper or something? I have change!". I really didn't mind. But on the other hand, he smothered me and snooped through my things and didn't want me to have any space. That was a huge problem for us. And I wasn't bending.

Posted by happykitsune

Lol well there's your problem right there. You were dating CLINGY and NEEDY, aka cancer and libra.

I like my freedom too and I don't like to be pushed in a certain direction. I remember when I was younger I couldn't be in a relationship for more than 2 weeks or I'd get depressed and feel trapped.

I'd say date a sag cus they obviously want freedom too, but I've known some sags who can be pretty clingy -.-

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lmao I've had a sagi bf before, was my first love, and arrows were flown at each other... it was a chaotic relationship to say the least ahahha but I feel you... I don't like to be pushed in certain directions other than my own lols

Posted by MzSagittarius
^^^She's terrible at hiding it. I can sit there and have a full conversation with someone and watch the object of my affection out the corner of my eyes without missing a beat. Ahhh, I love being a woman.