WHY THE THREATS?

i dont get it.... why does he always threaten to stop tlaking to me.... or like today... he messages me making fun of my fb status.... and we are tlaking and i think we are just having fun... and then he says:
just when i think u couldnt get any more irritating...

i said: i can always be more irritating

he said: then maybe we should stop tlaking

I cant stand it, its starting to really upset me........ why does he always say this—

Because he's an idiot.

To see how far he can push you before you snap.

And to further this portion of this evenings show along...if someone hurts your feelings, call them on it. Don't sit on it and stew. I have zero issue with saying "That hurt", or "You made me look/feel like an ass just there."

Ha! Me again. Joo know, some are just abrasive because they are, and some use it to mask other emotions ( nervousness, expectation, etc. ) I can just about bet that he thinks it's amusing to speak to you this way. Because you care about his opinion, his thoughts, views..are interested in him as a man it comes off wrong to you ( because he's not feeding your ego, or stroking his chin thoughtfully while composing love sonnets to you ). Hurtful because you care. If you didn't it wouldn't bother you at all. You'd just fire something back like a shot such as "What a fabulous idea. I bid thee good day..go forth into that sweet, gentle night." and put on some raucous music or go varnish your toenails. It's a bit of a "Hey you CLOD! SEE ME!" and it feels like he does not. But he does, he really does.
When I talk to people one on one I'm combative verbally, make threats to their person with stunning regularity, and everyone who knows me knows I wouldn't hurt a soul ( flies and hairy black bugs are fair game though ). But I'll still say I'd like to punch someone..shank a bitch, yada dada da. Why? Because I think it's amusing, bit of a ha-ha on me. I LIKE to verbally spar, it's a good ting for me. And when I can boost that into the physical realm it's tremendous.
Try not to let it get under your skin, because that's exactly where he wants it to be. Could call his bluff too..remember...the dude who went not even a few days of his weeks sojourn of solitude before he texted you? 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
Ha! Me again. Joo know, some are just abrasive because they are, and some use it to mask other emotions ( nervousness, expectation, etc. ) I can just about bet that he thinks it's amusing to speak to you this way. Because you care about his opinion, his thoughts, views..are interested in him as a man it comes off wrong to you ( because he's not feeding your ego, or stroking his chin thoughtfully while composing love sonnets to you ). Hurtful because you care. If you didn't it wouldn't bother you at all. You'd just fire something back like a shot such as "What a fabulous idea. I bid thee good day..go forth into that sweet, gentle night." and put on some raucous music or go varnish your toenails. It's a bit of a "Hey you CLOD! SEE ME!" and it feels like he does not. But he does, he really does.
When I talk to people one on one I'm combative verbally, make threats to their person with stunning regularity, and everyone who knows me knows I wouldn't hurt a soul ( flies and hairy black bugs are fair game though ). But I'll still say I'd like to punch someone..shank a bitch, yada dada da. Why? Because I think it's amusing, bit of a ha-ha on me. I LIKE to verbally spar, it's a good ting for me. And when I can boost that into the physical realm it's tremendous.
Try not to let it get under your skin, because that's exactly where he wants it to be. Could call his bluff too..remember...the dude who went not even a few days of his weeks sojourn of solitude before he texted you? 🙂

THANKYOUUUU SOO MUCHHH!!!! ur right... usually i just fire back with a witty response.... but im so invested in him now, that im too afraid to say anything to set him offf....... so i just back off.... i didnt respond with anything.... i just ignored that comment completely... and going to sit back and wait for him to contact me again.... or atleast until i am completely over it.

i kno he doesnt mean any harm..... or atleast thats how i feel when i talk to him, its just how he plays.... i mean.... like i said he always says it.... but he always returns.... it only bothers me now becuase i developed feelings 😢

okay, and i kno fb is lame lol but i just gotta say....... lol the other day he made his first comment on my wall LOL

and it made me soo happy 🙂
its almost like, hes slowly taking me public

oh and the other day was my first day at work... and he asked if i started yet, i said no... so he asked if i wanted to talk on the phone while he went to the store * which he hasnt done in a while*

and so we talked for about 40 minutes... mind u, im literally just there to keep him company while he shopped...... he would ust talk about what he was doing in the store lol and ask me advice on whatever he was looking at, even though i cant see anything lol

but i missed it...

lol sorry just venting got off track there :S

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
okay, and i kno fb is lame lol but i just gotta say....... lol the other day he made his first comment on my wall LOL

and it made me soo happy 🙂
its almost like, hes slowly taking me public

....what...like a public company?

Even the name 'facebook' is really lame. Who did the spin on that? I could easy put that guy out of a job.

LOL No, the very Taurean habit of butting in anywhere and everywhere. Whether it's friend or more it's plainly saying ( in a bellow in some cases ) "Mine".

Go on the next *shopping trip* lil. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
Go on the next *shopping trip* lil. 🙂

lol i would but he doesnt want to meet me....... lol *sigh*

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus

ur right... usually i just fire back with a witty response.... but im so invested in him now, that im too afraid to say anything to set him offf....... so i just back off.... i didnt respond with anything.... i just ignored that comment completely... and going to sit back and wait for him to contact me again.... or atleast until i am completely over it.

i kno he doesnt mean any harm..... or atleast thats how i feel when i talk to him, its just how he plays.... i mean.... like i said he always says it.... but he always returns.... it only bothers me now becuase i developed feelings 😢

Why do women DO that? Meet a guy, attract a guy.. then when she realizes she's falling for him, gets all weird and starts walking on eggshells around him? She CHANGES.. she's no longer the fun, sassy chick that made his head spin.. she stops verbally/mentally sparring with him (why?!?! that's what he LIKED about you, duh!)... she's all careful about what she says and watching him like a hawk and overanalyzing every little thing he says/does for clues about how he feels.. then generally overreacting or feeling hurt over shit that never bothered her before, further contributing to making her a nervous wreck and a sad sack and too damn HARD to be around!

What (non-asshole) guy wants to keep dealing with a girl who is too scared to even say what she thinks or how she feels, too afraid to do the fun and saucy things she used to? Eventually, the guy scratches his head and thinks, "Hmm.. this is not as fun as it used to be. Adios!".. that's it.. they don't dig deeper or analyze further or try to figure out WHY you changed OR how to change you back... he just figures this NEW you, this tense, worried, over-invested little girl must be the REAL YOU now that it's been long enough to get to know you a little, so he thinks.. "It used to be fun and thrilling, now it's not, oh well, see ya!"

You're digging a hole, Bullette. Put down the shovel before it caves in and buries you alive!

Call his bluff and remove him from your facebook page...

You know I have been browsing around and mostly all the girls do this......It makes me realize how much I have grown in many different ways......so I guess I will say this again. Focus on you...dont sweat the small stuff...enjoy the butterflies and go for the ride and if you dont like it get off at the next stop.....Good Luck

^^^^ agreeing with Nefer

lol i mentioned him in my status, and he messages me laughing.... 😛

love this kid!

😄

Facebook has a lot to answer for.....LOL
Dont delete him, thats going too far, I did that to someone in the heat of the moment and sadly, they turned around and walked away forever.

Posted by dogsbody
Facebook has a lot to answer for.....LOL
Dont delete him, thats going too far, I did that to someone in the heat of the moment and sadly, they turned around and walked away forever.

I knooo lol wth!!

I did that to a Scorpio and he never spoke to me again !! Lol
Kinda sad ... It's just Facebook

Posted by Nefer

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus

ur right... usually i just fire back with a witty response.... but im so invested in him now, that im too afraid to say anything to set him offf....... so i just back off.... i didnt respond with anything.... i just ignored that comment completely... and going to sit back and wait for him to contact me again.... or atleast until i am completely over it.

i kno he doesnt mean any harm..... or atleast thats how i feel when i talk to him, its just how he plays.... i mean.... like i said he always says it.... but he always returns.... it only bothers me now becuase i developed feelings 😢

Why do women DO that? Meet a guy, attract a guy.. then when she realizes she's falling for him, gets all weird and starts walking on eggshells around him? She CHANGES.. she's no longer the fun, sassy chick that made his head spin.. she stops verbally/mentally sparring with him (why?!?! that's what he LIKED about you, duh!)... she's all careful about what she says and watching him like a hawk and overanalyzing every little thing he says/does for clues about how he feels.. then generally overreacting or feeling hurt over shit that never bothered her before, further contributing to making her a nervous wreck and a sad sack and too damn HARD to be around!

What (non-asshole) guy wants to keep dealing with a girl who is too scared to even say what she thinks or how she feels, too afraid to do the fun and saucy things she used to? Eventually, the guy scratches his head and thinks, "Hmm.. this is not as fun as it used to be. Adios!".. that's it.. they don't dig deeper or analyze further or try to figure out WHY you changed OR how to change you back... he just figures this NEW you, this tense, worried, over-invested little girl must be the REAL YOU now that it's been long enough to get to know you a little, so he thinks.. "It used to be fun and thrilling, now it's not, oh well, see ya!"

You're digging a hole, Bullette. Put down the shovel before it caves in and buries you alive!

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oh my god this scarily true. LISTEN to this advice lil' taurus. it's gonna help you out so much

I find the gray quite distracting on the whole...and oh HAI there! I was woolgathering again..just be you lil'. Nutty, sane, smart-arsed you. That's quite enough. And if he doesn't see all the wonderful there, it's his loss. Truly. 🙂

Whole lot of gray area. *drum riff* Okay, that was bad. LOL

Hmmm.. the grey area... I'd wager when TheLadySagittarius quoted me in that post above, she left an open html tag, which is affecting everything posted afterwards. I wonder if she HID the post, would the page go back to normal? 0.0

why are taurus men so slow? dense. ahhh....i mean they are not einsteins. not the ones i know. and yes it is related to the original problem . they say the weirdest things, things that are just plain stupid to other mortals.

it is really frustrating,

Taurus men are slow because they want you to move your asses bfore they move theirs.
Play your cards and show me what you got in store 🙂
Den I will see. You liking a guy does not necessarily mean he should love you back almost instantly.

About Threats.How would we know y he is behaving like that?
May be he is an a@@hole??.Or silent punishment when u make him upset (taurus guys won't like to enter into battle of words),or hes just pissing you off??
Best solution: If you really seeking a solution better ask him.We can't read his mind. Or if you want to discuss it and some other qualities of him for the sake of girlish discussion datz something else

Posted by Nefer
Hmmm.. the grey area... I'd wager when TheLadySagittarius quoted me in that post above, she left an open html tag, which is affecting everything posted afterwards. I wonder if she HID the post, would the page go back to normal? 0.0

OMG just saw this after 5 months when thread was resurrected recently..