I live with three other guys. Two are Gems born on the same day a year apart, and one is an Aqua.
The older Gem is my complete opposite, I'm a Sag with Cancer moon, he's a Gem with a Cap moon.
The problem is that we rarely talk to one another, we treat each other like friendly acquaintances, while I'm friends with my other roommates. I feel like he generally doesn't like me and is only nice to me because we live together. I always feel like I'm annoying him and in his way.
He's a REALLY nice guy, extremely shy and such, and a little spontaneous like many Gems. I genuinely want to be his friend. Seriously, not just because he's my roomie, but because I think we have a lot to learn from each other.
How do I approach this situation?
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The older Gem is my complete opposite, I'm a Sag with Cancer moon, he's a Gem with a Cap moon.
The problem is that we rarely talk to one another, we treat each other like friendly acquaintances, while I'm friends with my other roommates. I feel like he generally doesn't like me and is only nice to me because we live together. I always feel like I'm annoying him and in his way.
He's a REALLY nice guy, extremely shy and such, and a little spontaneous like many Gems. I genuinely want to be his friend. Seriously, not just because he's my roomie, but because I think we have a lot to learn from each other.
How do I approach this situation?