How do Sag men behave when they are in love?

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ellemandolin
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Also, when they are truly committed?

I'm a Taurus female with a Sag Moon/Virgo Rising. I'm unaware of my Sag bf's chart. We've known each other for over 2 yrs. Friends for the first. I was dating another Sag. This is the 3rd Sag i've dated. One of those is also the father of my 2 year old.

Started seeing him in Jan and it's been the easiest relationship i've been in. He says the same. I don't feel the typical anxiety I usually feel. I feel at peace. We both get along wonderfully and enjoy many laughs together. We also share the same wacky sense of humor, so this has bonded us. Our conversation still has yet to get boring.

We took things slow at first. He was very shy. He told me he was nervous. Barely looked me in the eye, and kept stuttering. I found it endearing because I had never seen him that way. Both of us initially said we didn't want anything serious. Just a casual friendly fwb situation. I'm not your typical Taurus female. I'm very adventurous sexually, and have had my fair share of partners without gaining any emotional attachment. I don't have expectations after one date or expect a man to worship the ground I walk on. I'm the type that will offer to pick up the check. I'm 50/50 in my relationships. Materialistic princess types cause me to roll my eyes in disgust. This may be due to the Sag in my chart.

At month 4, we admitted that we were more than a casual hookup. He told me he loved me, and from April on, we've been great.

Past experiences with Sags, I had my heart broken. Left during a pregnancy. He slept around during. I've raised our son without him. Other sag, charming but got bored. He is gay now tho.

Current Sag is incredibly romantic. Attentive. Affectionate. Treats my son like his own. Speaks about his future and includes my son and I. Has mentioned he often thinks of me being the woman he'd marry, and how he's interested in adopting my son. We have plans to move in together early next year. I love him dearly. His last relationship was 3 years ago, and he dated her for 5 years. Other than her, he's only been in a few relationships. Told me he never felt anything real, hence why he wouldn't commit.

Is it possible for a Sag man to be fully committed like this? It's safe to say he genuinely loves me and this isn't another Sag game, correct? How do you act when you are in love?
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I doubt its a game. Reading that, I'm more worried you'll be the one to get bored and pull away. Living with each other will tell a lot, and after a few months of that I bet you both know what the long term prospects are.

my last live in was with a fish, and living together just killed the passion. We were perfect for each other when we saw each other once a month, but not everyday.

current live in is with an aqua, and living together creates too much passion/drama.

I'm looking for something in the middle, and I definitely won't be making any commitments until I live with someone for a few months at least. When people are older, I just don't think they can know whether or not they get along together until they live together.

It seems appropriate to give it a try after this much time, but since you have a son, I think you should have a plan B you can act on quickly if things start getting flaky. With my current gf, there's just no way we could have stayed together this long if I had my kids all the time, and the only reason we have stuck it out sometimes is because she doesn't have a place to go.

So, only thing I might suggest is for you to know exactly what your plan is if cohabitation doesn't work for you.
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ellemandolin
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Basically how you describe is how we are when we are in love. He's showing every sign that he is. We are very open and honest with our feelings and intentions and are not afraid. If you want his chart, get his date of birth and the exact time he was born. Good luck and feel free to ask questions 🙂



This is reassuring. He's been very open with his feelings and we communicate well. I asked him what his time of birth was, and he was unsure. His mom and I are pretty close, so i'll ask her 🙂
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ellemandolin
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Posted by DMV
I don't have expectations after one date or expect a man to worship the ground I walk on.

i have high expectations and my man better worship the ground i walk on. treat me like the queen of sheba i am and i will treat you like the roman god that you are.



I certainly expect to be respected, but I feel that it goes both ways. I, in no way, ever feel that my feelings and wants are more important than his, and want us to be equals.

It's nice to be pampered, and he does his fair share of catering to me, but it is reciprocated.
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Posted by JustaSag
It sounds like he very much is, I'm a Dec. 5th sag and I can't speak for every one but I know the only time in my life I told someone else I loved them that I truly and deeply meant it, it doesn't come easy for me to say at all. All signs point to him being crazy about you, I can tell you that 🙂 Just treat him right and you will truly have a life-long love.



I was born on Dec 4th.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Basically how you describe is how we are when we are in love. He's showing every sign that he is. We are very open and honest with our feelings and intentions and are not afraid. If you want his chart, get his date of birth and the exact time he was born. Good luck and feel free to ask questions 🙂



This is reassuring. He's been very open with his feelings and we communicate well. I asked him what his time of birth was, and he was unsure. His mom and I are pretty close, so i'll ask her 🙂
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Don't manipulate him or play games. He'll use his horse legs and bolt faster than lightning lol