Is he serious?

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snowielaney
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10 Years

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I have an ex Sag bf whom I was with when I was 21 and things didn't work out so of cos we kinda broke up. Now I'm 36 and he still has been contacting me on and off all these years. And all the time I just ignored him or blocked his number. He will use different numbers and each time I will just blocked his numbers again. He was married so it was the only sensible thing to do. Even so it didn't stop him from trying to call me and asking me out all that saying he missed me and still loved me even when I told him I had a bf.

But this time around, I did not know why I didn't block his number. He was divorced and I broke up with my bf about 4 months ago. He kept saying that he only wanted to be with me and there is no one else. He admitted that maybe he had been flaky in the past but now that he has aged (he's 39 now btw), he wants to stop playing around and settle down with me for the rest of his life. He will msg me everyday wanting to meet, telling me he loves me and miss me.
Even when I told him that I still want to date ard first, he said he will wait for me as he does not want to be with anyone else. He even called himself my future hubby and wants to meet my parents all that. He wants me to give me one last chance and he promised to love me and take care of me forever.

He's been so persistent and I'm not sure of my feelings for him. Not sure that once I say yes, will he change and once again I will regret my decision. And I'm also dating another guy whom I actually like but it's hard communicating with him as he's always distant and detached (scorpio guy), hardly get to talk to him or meet him. While I have this Sag guy who's willing to shower me with attention.

Is this Sag guy for real? I know they are not the best when it comes to committing to relationship. Can he be trusted?

I'm sun sign Pisces with moon in Leo.

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KaptainKhaos
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10 Years500+ PostsPisces

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Idk why buy I CANNOT for the life of me take Sagg people seriously. For like... anything. I don't trust em lmfao.

If he was messaging you when he was a married whose to say he won't be messaging other women when you two are together? I say stick it out with the guy you're interested in. You make the mistake of settling for the Sagg only to be reminded of why he is an Ex.

Their flame is weak to me, but Sagg people are still a fire sign. And, like Leo or Aries, they will chase you down until they get what they want and then leave you high, dry, and hurt. Don't let the lack of attention from the Scorp make you settle for attention elsewhere.

Unless you're really curious about where things could go, I say pass. Seem like you just want some loving from the right guy n haven't found him.
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harryn
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10 YearsSagittarius

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Posted by busyeyes88
Leopards don't change their spots. Sags are not meant to be in relationships with I don't know why they bother. It's just fun and games to them. He will do the same thing to you as he did in the beginning when you were first dating and as Kalin said he will also chase and call other women as he was doing with you when he was married. He couldn't even respect his own marriage vows. Do you think he will treat you any differently? The answer is NO.

Please give the Scorpio a change. If you want long term commitment then chose scorpio. As for sag, they are only worth fucking and then throwing out with the garbage the next morning.
seriously? what if the scorpio is the player guy
then she gets cheated and all
then becomes version 2.0 of you but for scorpio?
cmon
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harryn
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10 YearsSagittarius

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see, personally idk these guys
AND like no one here mentions and forgets as well
THAT zodiac signs dont determine the character of the person

now, you know them both very well, after all you dated them but just think about it
doesnt it seem to you that this guy who is persistent and was waiting for you
even though if he was just being the ordinary sag as they say or if he is actually into you
this whole fiasco of yours could just be a rebound?

at the end of the day its your call but i would say take your sweet time on this one
isolate or do whatever makes you feel good and see where you land.