I've been attracting sagittarius men lately

For the last year all I have been meeting are sag men but I can't seem to figure them out.I have read a lot about them online but still can't understand them. I have met a sag that I was dealing with on and off for a year.Helped him when he was down and had no money, no place to live.I did notice that he would lie about small things that really do not matter but over looked it because I felt he wanted to impress me for some reason.I always listened to him and gave advise when he asked. Then all of a sudden he get a girlfriend.He kept this hidden for months then I see on FB that he is in a relationship.What is the deal with him?

Now I am seeing another sag, he is younger than I. He tells me that he likes my firey attitude and that I make him laugh but we have not gone out on any dates. He always wants to stay at home and watch movies. I do know that he is just getting settled in his new place and has a lot going on right now so I give him his space.I have noticed that we assume the wrong things about each other a lot.

Please help Sag Men

Hi how are you and welcome to DXP.
I'll try to help as much as I can. Btw, my mom's a Taurus.

The first Sag is immature and doesn't know what he wants. When we are thus way, we tend to over exaggerate things a bit. Not to deceive you, but out if over promising and under delivering. He seems like a player and suffers from Peter Pan syndrome. He cared about you, but couldn't bring himself to et you know that he didn't want something long term; especially after all that you've done for him.

The second Sag, is more mature, but seems to have some hang ups from his previous relationships. It appears that you have pre conceived notions about him since he is a Sag and what you're experiences have been with them so far. Thus, you have the wrong ideas about each other. With honesty and communication, this can be worked out. Truth be told, Sags need space for two reasons. To pursue outside interests/goals or to have some alone time to maintain individuality. But, it could be something about you that bothers him. While we're prone to being blunt, usually we don't say anything and simply interact with you less. If you ask us, most likely we'll tell you the truth but we don't like arguments...but always seem to end up in one lol.

I'm sorry about your experiences but the second Sag likes you. We pay you compliments in our own way when we do. Be patient and let him come around. Don't assume that he's like anyone else as we'll sense it and run a mile. The same with game playing. Don't give him too much, but me friendly and respectful. You'll gain a mile with him. Also, don't be stubborn 😉 Hope this helps! Good luck!

with the first sag, sounds a bit like a venus in cap, maybe. i think he knew from the getgo that he wasnt interested in a relationship with you but formed some kind of ship with you to further his needs because you were willing to do it. the lies werent designed to impress you but to keep you in the dark and keep the money/sex coming. once i hear a man lie, you have to nip it in the bud. if he will lie about little things that dont matter, he will lie about the large things that do matter. next thing you know it, he's found a girl who is a better match.

with the second sag, sounds like a cancer rising or taurus moon which equals homebody. i dont think he is interested in a relationship. more like a friendship with benefits. assuming the wrong things in each other, sounds like Neptune is in the air. he may also be feeling you out to see if your worth it. i think sag men love some good arm candy.

I no longer speak to the first sag. The second sag now texts and wants to spend more time with me lately. We did talk about our communication issues and have gotten understanding about it. Can anyone interpret our birthdays. His is dec 8 1984 and mine is may 2 1978?