newlife7
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Posted by newlife7I don't think he's too interested, but you've only been seeing each other "over a month" I think you are both moving too fast and need to get a better feel for each other.
I met a sag male over a month and things have been going well so far. We didn't really kiss till the 3rd date and he seemed to just take things slowly with me which was refreshing compared to all the douche bags I have dated in the past. We have fun together and def. have a connection and very attracted to each other. Week 3 he introduced me to his family at a pig roast. We saw each other maybe once/ twice a week and contact is few and far between. On the way to the party where his family was, he asked me how he was supposed to introduce me and asked if I was dating anyone else. I told him I wasn't and that I really liked him and he said the same thing. He brought up calling me his girlfriend but I got shy about it, it was an awkward conversation at the time, and just smiled.
Anyways, we haven't seen each other a whole lot because he was sick last week, he started up with fantasy football too. Which is fine, BUT I think times where we don't see each other a lot, I wish he would reach out to me more. I feel like I contact him first a lot more than he does although he always responds pretty quickly. I didn't see him at all last weekend because of fantasy football drafts and I had family stuff yesterday. I didn't hear a word from him all day yesterday and today. I feel like the interest is dropping already although just Friday he told me he had a surprise for me and got me a gift. He seems very interested when we are together but in between I don't hear much from him. We are supposed to go to a baseball game Wed. evening and I am not sure if I should bring any of this up. We only live like 5 min from each other and I would just think he would want to hang out more? I just don't want to seem needy but he is the one who mentioned exclusitivity, and brought me around his family and I hardly hear from him unless I shoot him a quick text. I thought he wanted this to progress and I think seeing each other only once a week and not much contact in between is not substantial to progressing. I don't know. Maybe I am being needy. I am a Sag too but can't really figure him out. Any help from some Sag guys? We are both 35, in fact I am only 14 days older than he is.

Posted by KittenLaRougeThat is not true, my grandparents are/were a Sag couple, and they loved each other til the day my grandfather died. They lasted through tough financial times, and I never saw them together without being happy. Stick that in your pipe and smoke it 🙂
don't waste your time. if your frustrated now, this will go on and on. sag males are great friends but don't give them your heart because they are highly narcisstic and they will not take care of your heart trust me. they really don't care. friends only.


Posted by LittlePieces62Is he the president of a small country that he is so preoccupied that he he cant send a text in 4 days? What a bunch.of bullshit lol
I do not have much with astrology but if I can help. Mine is still like this after 12 years. Moon in sag too and cap venus.
Not hearing is normal also 4 days silent. It does not mean he is not interested. Usually they are preoccupied. Do not move fast or push. It is how they are. From what I know an interested serious sag man wants all or nothing no half half.
Us women tend to want confirmation all the time of interest from potential partner. This is not in line with sag man priorities. He will show instead. Hence not texting but face to face conversation and gestures.
Mine went abroad working 3 months we talked once 2-4 days. When he came back he was non stop 2 weeks by my side.
Just my two cents as a sag female.

Posted by newlife7Thats an interesting balance between fire and earth.
Can anybody give me some insight into his chart? Just curious. I did text him yesterday asking if he could be at my house at a certain time to head out for the game and he replied saying it sounded great and that he was excited! I was going to bring things up tomorrow but I think I will just see how he acts towards me and just have fun. If he acts weird or doesn't want to stay the night for some reason, should I bring it up? Or just let it go?
Sun Sagittarius 26.13
Moon Sagittarius 18.36
Mercury Sagittarius 8.21
Venus Capricorn 25.02
Mars Virgo 10.54
Jupiter Virgo 10.09
Saturn Virgo 26.41
Uranus Scorpio 23.22
Neptune Sagittarius 20.27
Pluto Libra 21.24
Lilith Virgo 18.01
Asc node Virgo 1.28

Posted by LittlePieces62I work 2 jobs 100 hours a week. 40 at 1 and 60 at the other. I can still manage to send a have a nice day text. Sag men are not relationship material period.Posted by KittenLaRougeIt seemed like that. He worked 10hours day I can not expect for him to keep talking to me he did only when he had time and I was fine with that schedule.Posted by LittlePieces62Is he the president of a small country that he is so preoccupied that he he cant send a text in 4 days? What a bunch.of bullshit lol
I do not have much with astrology but if I can help. Mine is still like this after 12 years. Moon in sag too and cap venus.
Not hearing is normal also 4 days silent. It does not mean he is not interested. Usually they are preoccupied. Do not move fast or push. It is how they are. From what I know an interested serious sag man wants all or nothing no half half.
Us women tend to want confirmation all the time of interest from potential partner. This is not in line with sag man priorities. He will show instead. Hence not texting but face to face conversation and gestures.
Mine went abroad working 3 months we talked once 2-4 days. When he came back he was non stop 2 weeks by my side.
Just my two cents as a sag female.click to expand



Posted by busyeyes88Well I derserve more than these crumbs so......Posted by KittenLaRougeSincerely this is normal. My ex sag and I would communicate when he worked abroad every 4-8 days and that suited me fine!! Cause I like my own space.. But this normal behaviour for them! I quite liked it. It's nice not to be glued at the hip.. That's one of the things I liked about sag...Posted by LittlePieces62Is he the president of a small country that he is so preoccupied that he he cant send a text in 4 days? What a bunch.of bullshit lol
I do not have much with astrology but if I can help. Mine is still like this after 12 years. Moon in sag too and cap venus.
Not hearing is normal also 4 days silent. It does not mean he is not interested. Usually they are preoccupied. Do not move fast or push. It is how they are. From what I know an interested serious sag man wants all or nothing no half half.
Us women tend to want confirmation all the time of interest from potential partner. This is not in line with sag man priorities. He will show instead. Hence not texting but face to face conversation and gestures.
Mine went abroad working 3 months we talked once 2-4 days. When he came back he was non stop 2 weeks by my side.
Just my two cents as a sag female.click to expand

Posted by YellowSubmarineIts not dependency its common courtesyPosted by LittlePieces62Exactly. Everyone's idea of "relationship material" is different - there are independent people and then there are dependent people.. neither is a right or wrong way to be.Posted by KittenLaRougeBut not everyone can be like you. It is nice to get a hello or have a great day but it is not a demand and I never expected him to. They are relationship material. I am with one 12 years so I do not know how that makes you think they are not.Posted by LittlePieces62I work 2 jobs 100 hours a week. 40 at 1 and 60 at the other. I can still manage to send a have a nice day text. Sag men are not relationship material period.Posted by KittenLaRougeIt seemed like that. He worked 10hours day I can not expect for him to keep talking to me he did only when he had time and I was fine with that schedule.Posted by LittlePieces62Is he the president of a small country that he is so preoccupied that he he cant send a text in 4 days? What a bunch.of bullshit lol
I do not have much with astrology but if I can help. Mine is still like this after 12 years. Moon in sag too and cap venus.
Not hearing is normal also 4 days silent. It does not mean he is not interested. Usually they are preoccupied. Do not move fast or push. It is how they are. From what I know an interested serious sag man wants all or nothing no half half.
Us women tend to want confirmation all the time of interest from potential partner. This is not in line with sag man priorities. He will show instead. Hence not texting but face to face conversation and gestures.
Mine went abroad working 3 months we talked once 2-4 days. When he came back he was non stop 2 weeks by my side.
Just my two cents as a sag female.click to expand


Posted by YellowSubmarinesaying having a nice day is kissing ass and being dependent and needy? LOL i just can't lol ...............
Common courtesy is replying when someone reaches out, which is what the OPs guy does.
Expecting someone to chase you around and kiss your ass every day in order for you to feel good.. that is dependency. It's insecurity, it's needy and it's desperate.

Posted by busyeyes88my point is sag men exhibit narcissitic tendencies. checking in with someone in the day is not being needy,. its thinking about someone other than yourself. sag men are so wrapped up in themselves they cant for one minute a day think of someone else. i bet the president can talk to to his wife once a day, NO ONE IS THAT BUSY. if you cant fPosted by KittenLaRougeIt's not about "deserving"... People are who they are!! I had an aqua and gem ex and they were the most dependent creatures on the planet. I used to call the gem "Octopussy " for obvious reasons. I could not move without him needing attention. I had to get rid in the end!!! LolPosted by busyeyes88Well I derserve more than these crumbs so......Posted by KittenLaRougeSincerely this is normal. My ex sag and I would communicate when he worked abroad every 4-8 days and that suited me fine!! Cause I like my own space.. But this normal behaviour for them! I quite liked it. It's nice not to be glued at the hip.. That's one of the things I liked about sag...Posted by LittlePieces62Is he the president of a small country that he is so preoccupied that he he cant send a text in 4 days? What a bunch.of bullshit lol
I do not have much with astrology but if I can help. Mine is still like this after 12 years. Moon in sag too and cap venus.
Not hearing is normal also 4 days silent. It does not mean he is not interested. Usually they are preoccupied. Do not move fast or push. It is how they are. From what I know an interested serious sag man wants all or nothing no half half.
Us women tend to want confirmation all the time of interest from potential partner. This is not in line with sag man priorities. He will show instead. Hence not texting but face to face conversation and gestures.
Mine went abroad working 3 months we talked once 2-4 days. When he came back he was non stop 2 weeks by my side.
Just my two cents as a sag female.click to expand


Posted by newlife7This sounds much better, the fixing things and the "sweet things" he does.
Yes! Mine is super sweet. He was sick last week but really wanted me to come over for a bit. I brought him dinner so he didn't have to go out. We were watching a movie and he asked if I wanted a foot massage because he knows how much I like them. I said, you should be the one getting a massage, you are sick. He responded but you brought me dinner so you deserve it. He does sweet things like that all the time. Fixes things around my place, fixes things in my car, he is very thoughtful and caring. Just felt some distance from him the past 4 or 5 days. No initiation from him at all. Just wondered if his feelings changed. I also noticed he got online, where we met, yesterday and he hadn't been on for a month or so before that. So that kicked my panic and anxiety into high gear. I guess I will see tomorrow how things go. He said he was excited to hang.
Posted by LittlePieces62I agree about expectations, i.e. don't have them. I hate feeling like I have these obligations and have to return favors a certain way. I'll be sensible of your effort and your emotions, and I'll make it up to you in my own way.Posted by KittenLaRougeI think you misunderstand sag men or maybe generalize alot. Have you a bad past with sag men exes?
^^^^if you cant get over "yourseft" for just a moment and think about someone else then you have no business being in a relationship
I have an example. The working trip I mentioned in other post. We did not speak much when he was back he stayed with me for couple weeks. We had quality time. I had a birthday surprise he arranged weekend to barcelona. To me that is one big thoughtful Sign of appreciation. In my experience expectations is failure.click to expand


Posted by newlife7It's not about gender. Every male Sag I've encountered liked daily contact. Perhaps it's only been 2 months and the man needs time to feel you like that? Maybe he only like to communicate when he has something actually worthwhile to say beyond "what's up". Who knows. You're spinning at this point though. I'd stop and enjoy your life. The bond will grow in time. Or not. It can't be controlled, so why sweat it with all the "maybe it's this...maybe it's that..."?
Thanks yellow submarine. You would think I would know this since I am also a Sag and I like my alone time but I guess when I am really into someone, I like to hear from them at least once a day. But I am also a woman. I know men don't think like that. He seems happy and excited when I do talk to him, we just don't talk a lot. On our first date, he did mention that he liked the fact we didn't talk a lot thru texting so that we had more to talk about when we were together and he has texted a lot before and then when they met up, he says there is really no connection. So maybe he just doesn't need to keep in contact all the time.


Posted by biosynthesisMine used to be until he got into porn now its women are dirty, b's and ho's. now i wants to "gape them" and smack them around, you know the porn drill im sure
contrary to popular belief, sag males are quite the gentlemen. Actually my sag ex was incredibly respectful towards me, and we still remain good friends till this day. Maybe he's just busy lol, tell him how you feel. Growing up with sag energy and having dated one, I would say that he is probably oblivious to how he comes off to other people, so maybe he doesn't know he is giving off an aura of apathy to you.

Posted by YellowSubmarinei totally disagree. there is nothing wrong with treating each other like you are the center of each others universe. and yes, women deserve to be treated right as do men. So many people think its "cool" to treat people like crap and they "feel" weak if they are nice, They are afraid to show weakness and vulnerability.Posted by newlife7Yeah, I've included my two cents, so I'm done. I've learnt from experience you can't reason with overly needy people - it's all "how could you forget about ME?", "I'M so important", "I DESERVE this, I DESERVE that", "You're LUCKY to have ME", and so on and so forth... it's exhausting, and just plain childish.
Geez, can't you guys just agree to disagree? LOL
I don't think all Sag men are like that.
It's the problem with our generation - everyone's been told "don't settle" so they translate that to aiming to be the center of someone else's universe instead of taking reign of their own.click to expand

Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by busyeyes88my point is sag men exhibit narcissitic tendencies. checking in with someone in the day is not being needy,. its thinking about someone other than yourself. sag men are so wrapped up in themselves they cant for one minute a day thPosted by KittenLaRougeIt's not about "deserving"... People are who they are!! I had an aqua and gem ex and they were the most dependent creatures on the planet. I used to call the gem "Octopussy " for obvious reasons. I could not move without him needing attention. I had to get rid in the end!!! LolPosted by busyeyes88Well I derserve more than these crumbs so......Posted by KittenLaRougeSincerely this is normal. My ex sag and I would communicate when he worked abroad every 4-8 days and that suited me fine!! Cause I like my own space.. But this normal behaviour for them! I quite liked it. It's nice not to be glued at the hip.. That's one of the things I liked about sag...Posted by LittlePieces62Is he the president of a small country that he is so preoccupied that he he cant send a text in 4 days? What a bunch.of bullshit lol
I do not have much with astrology but if I can help. Mine is still like this after 12 years. Moon in sag too and cap venus.
Not hearing is normal also 4 days silent. It does not mean he is not interested. Usually they are preoccupied. Do not move fast or push. It is how they are. From what I know an interested serious sag man wants all or nothing no half half.
Us women tend to want confirmation all the time of interest from potential partner. This is not in line with sag man priorities. He will show instead. Hence not texting but face to face conversation and gestures.
Mine went abroad working 3 months we talked once 2-4 days. When he came back he was non stop 2 weeks by my side.
Just my two cents as a sag female.click to expand

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Anyways, we haven't seen each other a whole lot because he was sick last week, he started up with fantasy football too. Which is fine, BUT I think times where we don't see each other a lot, I wish he would reach out to me more. I feel like I contact him first a lot more than he does although he always responds pretty quickly. I didn't see him at all last weekend because of fantasy football drafts and I had family stuff yesterday. I didn't hear a word from him all day yesterday and today. I feel like the interest is dropping already although just Friday he told me he had a surprise for me and got me a gift. He seems very interested when we are together but in between I don't hear much from him. We are supposed to go to a baseball game Wed. evening and I am not sure if I should bring any of this up. We only live like 5 min from each other and I would just think he would want to hang out more? I just don't want to seem needy but he is the one who mentioned exclusitivity, and brought me around his family and I hardly hear from him unless I shoot him a quick text. I thought he wanted this to progress and I think seeing each other only once a week and not much contact in between is not substantial to progressing. I don't know. Maybe I am being needy. I am a Sag too but can't really figure him out. Any help from some Sag guys? We are both 35, in fact I am only 14 days older than he is.