Ok someone needs to explain me Aquas

Alright. What am I doing wrong? Like seriously?
I'm so in love right now but it seems like I can't do anything right when it comes to love!
The aqua guy is intelligent, sweet, caring and has a great sense of humor.
He is a gread cook, he does snowboarding, even painting, he is so fascinating to me.

But what have I done? He seems scared, relationship - phobia anyone?

He seems paranoid that I want to marry him after just one week.

We only kissed and cuddled so far. I wanted to have sex with him last night.
bought a super expensive dior parfume, nice clothes, my heart was bumping, I was so happy to see him...
I already miss him because he made me so happy. I wasn't looking for anyone and I met him last week.

Yesterday I told him straight... that I'm in love..... his answer?

Woah.... ok.

"I Knew that before".



OMG.
Thats fucking crazy.
He said he feels like I'm taking his space away. Huh?! 😕
I want my freedom as well, I just wanted to see him and have a great time.

Aquas are fucking paranoid when it comes to relationships. I want something real, I wont waste my fucking time.

I should stop it, seriously. -.-

Drama with leo guy, drama with aqua guy, drama with every guy....

They can't take my fucking directness. They don't know how to deal with it.
Im not good at this fucking game you are supposed to play as a woman.
You need to play it cool", till the guy makes the next step.
Damn I have no patience and no time for all these fucking games....

-.-
The Aqua Guy - Aquarius Sun/Aries Moon / Cancer Ascendant/ Cap Mars & Venus / Aquarius Mercury

Well, there is your problem. Impatience. This is one of the most stand-out issues I see in all Sags. You're gonna have to start practicing patience. Yeah, you might be years away from that realization before you really catch your stride but it'll be worth it.

You seem to be strong-willed, stubborn, and aggressive. Seduction is an art form and it will take time and learning the hard way for you. I know how it goes. I'm a feisty Leo. Now I'm 30 and I've got this shit down but it pretty much took most of my 20's to hone the skills.

There is nothing I, or anyone else, can say that will persuade you out of doing what you're going to do. Right now you like the drama. Just accept it. The highs and lows are exhilarating and probably keep you going. Even when times are rough, the intensity of the feelings are something you would rather have than feel nothing at all. Maybe one day you truly won't want the drama in your life and you will act accordingly.

Try to relax and have fun instead. Things will unfold naturally that way. It's going to be a battle of wills within yourself but you can learn to be yielding and calm without compromising your fiery nature. The truth is that there are so many things that I can not share with you because only time will allow you to experience it.

Patience?!! Who's got time for that?!

Posted by Wynter
Patience?!! Who's got time for that?!

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You told him you're in love after one week. Of course he feels like you're taking away his space. That would freak me out

It's not genuine and it's going WAY too fast.

Shut up. I never liked you and I dont give a fuck about your opinion.
"It's not genuine"...

you're a typical unevolved selfish know - it - all sagittarius. You're a loser to me.

How the fuck do you know my feelings are not real? You know nothing you stupid bitch.
You fucked so many guys, you don't even know all their names. You don't even know what love is.

Just leave me alone. I never liked you and I never will. I don't care about your life either.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
The way Aquas hook you is by being your friend--while simultaneously sending out lustful vibes. These guys can be ruthless about this--in a good way depending on what you want. Always drawing you with the friendship facade while always || this close to ripping your clothes off.

If you really want this to work--You should remain a mystery in one way or another. Aquas love puzzles. They are excellent at solving them. If they can't solve YOU, you will become their new hobby. Also, try to keep the vibe dripping with friendly vibes.

My experience anyway..

The way Aquas hook you is by being your friend--while simultaneously sending out lustful vibes

!! THIS!

Thats exactly the way it feels like.... It's freakin me out....

I just don't want to play this stupid game... Now I have to act like I dont care, I mean I don't "Love" him yet, but I got a crush on him. He cooked for me, I was at his home for a couple of days and we had so much fun! He was so sweet, so caring... we discussed about everything and he is so intelligent! I love that!
I don't want to have a relationship this fast, I just want to make the next step. But that turns him off.
And I also feel like our Aries Moons are having problems with each other ( = too much ego...)

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Posted by Wynter
Patience?!! Who's got time for that?!

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My bf is Aqua. He's the third one I've dated. I don't claim to be an expert. But maybe I can help.

Aquas move slow. Very slow. They take a long time to decide if you are what they want. They observe and some say they test. I think it's not really testing but before they commit they want to know you inside and out. They are a friends first kinda people. Build the friendshp and the relationship follows or builds simultaneously.

They can be down right fustrating as hell. Takes a lot of patience and they are not for the weak hearted. They are big, big, big into their freedoms. So you have to show them that they can have their "freedom" and still be in a relationship. But, yes, it's almost like they are committment phobic - but its because they refuse to let go of this so called freedom.

The more you ignore them, the more they respond. Oh, and they don't like confrontation. Present things logically and without emotions and you should be fine.

They are also infamous for doing a disappearing act. Sometimes for a day or two, sometimes for weeks, could be a month. During this time, if you ignore them, they will start to miss you and will contact you as if no time has passed. REalistically, they don't realize how long its been. During their disappearance, do your thing. Go out with your friends, date other people, etc. If they come back, its because they missed you. They will disappear less and less.

If he has a cap venus, thats good because it grounds him and makes him not as flighty.

Like I said, they are not easy to date. They are aloof and rarely say how they feel. They prefer to show they care by actions.

In the long run, its worth it. They can be amazing partners. Good luck! Hang in there and if you really love him, don't give up. And don't lay all your cards out on the table. 🙂

I hope this helps. Well, it might not make you feel better, but be patient.

Thanks for your help...

I think i should forget it. He goes out partying in prague with all those girls and doesnt gives a shit about me.
he lies to me, he took a friend of mine with him and another dude.
What the fuck is going on?
Last week he acted like he would really like me.

He said to one of my friends he likes the girls at the party cuz they are really skinny.
WTF—!?!??!?!?!?!?!
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?
YOU ARE ACTING LIKE YOU WOULD LIKE ME; YOU CUDDLE WITH ME IN YOUR BED; YOU SAY ALL THOSE NICE THINGS AND THEN
YOU STEAL MY FUCKING FRIENDS AND SAY ALL THOSE NASTY THINGS?

I would like to fucking punch him in his freakin face.

I waited 8 days for anything. then I called yesterday, said hi he was like hi, i wanted to go sleep now.
OH ALRIGHT THATS WHY I HEAR ALL MY FRIENDS WHO ARE HANGING OUT AT YOUR PLACE MOTHERFUCKER!?!??!?!?!

SHIT WHY DO I ALWAYS HAVE TO WASTE MY TIME ON THOSE BITCHES—?
THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT...

selfish motherfucker-
and I already knew that. I knew aquas are fucking cold.
I dont want no scorpio in my life, but those bitches dont know what that word love means..........

Sorry about all that. I don't blame you. I wouldn't waste anymore time on him either!!! Some of them are big time players!
I know some air guys that are all about the conquest and once the conquest is made, they could care less and move on to the next. Jerks!


I guess I got lucky, mine has a lot of earth in his chart.

He's probably scared.
You scare me, atleast.

men with a cap venus are tough characters in love. they go hot and cold and they mirror you.

Posted by EISREGEN
Shut up. I never liked you and I dont give a fuck about your opinion.
"It's not genuine"...

you're a typical unevolved selfish know - it - all sagittarius. You're a loser to me.

How the fuck do you know my feelings are not real? You know nothing you stupid bitch.
You fucked so many guys, you don't even know all their names. You don't even know what love is.

Just leave me alone. I never liked you and I never will. I don't care about your life either.

for the record, i met my ex leo and seriously fell in love with him in a week. with the sag, i fell in love in an hour.

Posted by truecap
Sorry about all that. I don't blame you. I wouldn't waste anymore time on him either!!! Some of them are big time players!
I know some air guys that are all about the conquest and once the conquest is made, they could care less and move on to the next. Jerks!


I guess I got lucky, mine has a lot of earth in his chart.

thats the way it feels like....


I tried to call him 2 days ago. he hung up on me.
then he even turned off his phone!
I told him he is a fucking cocky asshole today. I told him I really liked him but he doesn't care anyway,
he only likes drug addicted fucked up chicks...
he seems confused to me, maybe its his cancer ascendant?
oh well I forgot to mention that...
he takes alot of drugs.
I know what y'all gonna say.
He is fucking paranoid. I dont know why hes scared. I dont want to come off too aggressive... but I do.

Posted by Geminems
He's probably scared.
You scare me, atleast.

Do I?

I don't want to scare anyone off...

I'm sorry if I do.


But I guess you're right. I got no patience, I'm too loud, too aggressive, too... everything.

buuuut

we got along soooo fucking great I swear...... what have I done?
I didnt do anything straight for 8 days. left him alone.
does he want me to fight for him?
ugh whateva...

Posted by Wynter
Patience?!! Who's got time for that?!

Artists, Sculptors, Ahem... Photographers, Composers, Songwriters, Musicians, Authors, and Lovers, and such Artisans.

Dine at a fine restaurant or go to McDonalds? (You know what they say about junkfood.)

Patience is a virtue that makes a mere mortal, immortal.

A philosophical thought to ponder, courtesy of Mr. Firebird.

Best wishes, OP, et al.

Posted by EISREGEN
selfish motherfucker-
aquas are fucking cold.
...those bitches dont know what that word love means..........

very true. based on at least 6 aquas in my life.

when it comes to relationships with other:

1.) no one (or sign) is to be trusted; your own mama will sell you up the river if given the chance.

2.) please see #1

Posted by aquansidenout
Here's the cold hard truth you sound psycho and that's saying a lot coming from an aqua. Truth of the matter is this type of behaviour happens a lot with aquas. We'll meet someone not sure if we even like them yet.....sometimes we don't want anything but pure friendship....or sex then bam.....someone is in live wayyyy to soon and we find the nearest exit. LEAVE....that man alone....stop calling him....get a grip and take this as a learning experience. You're way to agressive and need to let a man be a man and no matter how much you believe in this new age crap.....not many men want a woman who screams I love you first or you're my man even though he doesn't know you yet. Develop patience and stop blaming the men because you can't control yourself.

Haha.
Yeah right.
Thats why we spent the weekend together at a party.
I know he feels something for me.
I just know it. And I'm going to give it another try, because honestly... I can't forget him.
Its been 3 months and I still think about him every day.

He'll be back...when he is looking for temporary amusement. You are worth more. There are plenty of men out there whom will really appreciate and cherish you. 🙂

Wow u have to b so fucken stupid!!! Omg seriously wtf were u thinking uhhhh look never tell a man u love them first never!!!!!!! Now kiss that relationship or w.e it was goodbye n then stop being a slut u fucked him after one week c'mon he's not Gunna take u serious at all aquas love their freedom don't like to be tied down so u gotta b smart n make the work for it n u will have them like a fucken dog!!!!!!!!!!!! U already fucked up he won't wanna talk to u n if u act like u don't car n all that he'll just use u for sex then push away wen u get clingy ! Game over