Our long term compatibility

Okay so I am a Sagittarius male I have based on my birthday 12/12/91 Pisces moon. My Partner however is a Gemini born on the 07/06/92 She is super mercurial, Gemini Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Virgo moon conjunct Jupiter.

Please can someone give me info on if we can be long term compatible.

Thanks

Thanks for your comment 👍🏻When you say not the honest ) however are they loyal ?

Thanks ) There’s one thing I have to consider and that is she has an ex partner that she has two children with and she was on and off with him for years they was together for about 9years she was always treated bad by him he’s also a Sag male but in November) he would drink and leave her for 3 days and return sometimes also be very funny with her going out with friends etc. Never good with money or doesn’t really care to much for his children however she still stuck around it tells me that she is very loyal however she broke it off with him 2 years ago but since then September 2019 he was round her place dropping the children off and she slept with him but told me she stopped it half way through and said it was a mistake when telling me this she couldn’t look me in the eye at first and I could tell it was really bothering her anyway she didn’t have to tell me this but she did as I asked why does he keep texting you horrible things like he would call her a slag etc terrible words when I know she isn’t anything like that by the way we got together on December 31st I guess my only worry is if she goes back there.

@perfectlyimperfect I thought you did 😂 oh well no bother.

Getting back to the comments I appreciate your reply tho so thanks.

I will always trust my partner until she proves me wrong I think she is loyal just from what I have described here I will just have that in the back of my mind about her ex.

@perfectlyimperfect I have spoken to her about it. She has told me she is not interested in him at all and that she only wants to be with me and she wants everything with me and wants a future and this is why I think she told me about them two however when I asked why she didn’t tell me straight away she said because she thought I would walk away he was also fretting to tell me about them two.

when I am there and he rings the children she passes the phone straight to them and puts it on loud speaker to see what he says I can tell she is fed up with his bullshit he doesn’t even buy his children birthday presents etc he talks about me a lot calling me all the names under the sun saying he’s going to beat me up and everything however I do not bite back as I am not a little child like that and I have respect for my partner that is through texts. She lies to him a lot about silly things to do with the children because if she does not he will go mental at her about stuff it is only silly things and even she knows she shouldn't have to lie about it. She lives on her own with her two children and I live on my own with my one child however we talk all the time about living together and having a future together I.e marriage etc every time she gets a text or anything like that she says who it is and tell me and I don’t even ask about it. I trust her but I do not want to be backstabbed down the line also we work together me and her.

That’s supposed to say bullshit and but ) not bullbutter 😂🤣

Bullshit ** FML

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@perfectlyimperfect I have spoken to her about it. She has told me she is not interested in him at all and that she only wants to be with me and she wants everything with me and wants a future and this is why I think she told me about them two however when I asked why she didn’t tell me straight away she said because she thought I would walk away he was also fretting to tell me about them two.

when I am there and he rings the children she passes the phone straight to them and puts it on loud speaker to see what he says I can tell she is fed up with his bullshit he doesn’t even buy his children birthday presents etc he talks about me a lot calling me all the names under the sun saying he’s going to beat me up and everything however I do not bite back as I am not a little child like that and I have respect for my partner that is through texts. She lies to him a lot about silly things to do with the children because if she does not he will go mental at her about stuff it is only silly things and even she knows she shouldn't have to lie about it. She lives on her own with her two children and I live on my own with my one child however we talk all the time about living together and having a future together I.e marriage etc every time she gets a text or anything like that she says who it is and tell me and I don’t even ask about it. I trust her but I do not want to be backstabbed down the line also we work together me and her.

If it was me I wont worry or be angry about it. Things sometimes happen because of old mistakes and consquences of these old mistakes. I think the problems should be accepted until they go away by themselves without hating the situation. Being backstabbed is also a risk you can take or not. Up to you. Thats how I would confront the situation

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Of course I am talking about something that hasn’t even happened and may never happen she may never backstab me ever but the thought will be in the back of my mind until I know for good that she is 100% into me.

I have however let it go because it is something that happened when we wasn’t together and didn’t even experience each other or really know each other it’s really got nothing to do with me I will continue to live my life with her and do as much as I can with her being that we are both adventurous and she is a gemini she will always be looking for different things and experiences in life my job is to keep it exciting at the same time.

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@perfectlyimperfect I have spoken to her about it. She has told me she is not interested in him at all and that she only wants to be with me and she wants everything with me and wants a future and this is why I think she told me about them two however when I asked why she didn’t tell me straight away she said because she thought I would walk away he was also fretting to tell me about them two.

when I am there and he rings the children she passes the phone straight to them and puts it on loud speaker to see what he says I can tell she is fed up with his bullshit he doesn’t even buy his children birthday presents etc he talks about me a lot calling me all the names under the sun saying he’s going to beat me up and everything however I do not bite back as I am not a little child like that and I have respect for my partner that is through texts. She lies to him a lot about silly things to do with the children because if she does not he will go mental at her about stuff it is only silly things and even she knows she shouldn't have to lie about it. She lives on her own with her two children and I live on my own with my one child however we talk all the time about living together and having a future together I.e marriage etc every time she gets a text or anything like that she says who it is and tell me and I don’t even ask about it. I trust her but I do not want to be backstabbed down the line also we work together me and her.

If it was me I wont worry or be angry about it. Things sometimes happen because of old mistakes and consquences of these old mistakes. I think the problems should be accepted until they go away by themselves without hating the situation. Being backstabbed is also a risk you can take or not. Up to you. Thats how I would confront the situation

Of course I am talking about something that hasn’t even happened and may never happen she may never backstab me ever but the thought will be in the back of my mind until I know for good that she is 100% into me.

I have however let it go because it is something that happened when we wasn’t together and didn’t even experience each other or really know each other it’s really got nothing to do with me I will continue to live my life with her and do as much as I can with her being that we are both adventurous and she is a gemini she will always be looking for different things and experiences in life my job is to keep it exciting at the same time.

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In what way do you mean backstabbing is something I can decide to take or not. ☺️

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@perfectlyimperfect I have spoken to her about it. She has told me she is not interested in him at all and that she only wants to be with me and she wants everything with me and wants a future and this is why I think she told me about them two however when I asked why she didn’t tell me straight away she said because she thought I would walk away he was also fretting to tell me about them two.

when I am there and he rings the children she passes the phone straight to them and puts it on loud speaker to see what he says I can tell she is fed up with his bullshit he doesn’t even buy his children birthday presents etc he talks about me a lot calling me all the names under the sun saying he’s going to beat me up and everything however I do not bite back as I am not a little child like that and I have respect for my partner that is through texts. She lies to him a lot about silly things to do with the children because if she does not he will go mental at her about stuff it is only silly things and even she knows she shouldn't have to lie about it. She lives on her own with her two children and I live on my own with my one child however we talk all the time about living together and having a future together I.e marriage etc every time she gets a text or anything like that she says who it is and tell me and I don’t even ask about it. I trust her but I do not want to be backstabbed down the line also we work together me and her.

If it was me I wont worry or be angry about it. Things sometimes happen because of old mistakes and consquences of these old mistakes. I think the problems should be accepted until they go away by themselves without hating the situation. Being backstabbed is also a risk you can take or not. Up to you. Thats how I would confront the situation

Of course I am talking about something that hasn’t even happened and may never happen she may never backstab me ever but the thought will be in the back of my mind until I know for good that she is 100% into me.

I have however let it go because it is something that happened when we wasn’t together and didn’t even experience each other or really know each other it’s really got nothing to do with me I will continue to live my life with her and do as much as I can with her being that we are both adventurous and she is a gemini she will always be looking for different things and experiences in life my job is to keep it exciting at the same time.

In what way do you mean backstabbing is something I can decide to take or not. ☺️

Things will unfold the way they unfold. You cant change that and its never personal even tho we tend to like to believe that. So if you feel that way you just gotta accept it without stressing too much. If you want to be in the relationship thats the price you have to take and if you dont wanna be in it then there is also a price for that so its just up to you < 3

I used to compete and fight with everyone so I know what it is like to want to be in control

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I do want to be in the relationship with her I will take it a day at a time is the best way possible. There are things that I have to except about her life and things she also has to except about mine being that we both have children with other past partners.

The way I look at life now is things happen for a reason maybe it’s for good maybe it’s a lesson to learn no one really knows until it happens however I am optimistic about me and her and excited if that makes sense.

It’s been great talking to you by the way.