Question of the Day...Need some GOOD Responses!

QUESTION OF THE DAY:

Name the 5 MOST IMPORTANT traits a person must have in order to even be considered potential (relationship wise). And Name 5 traits that they absolutely CANNOT have.

Great answers! I agree with all of you!
My 5 MUSTS are:
1. Self-loyalty (He's got to be honest with himself before he can be truly honest with anyone else)
2. Optimistic personality (Must think positive & show strength in bad times)
3. Religious (Preferably of my same religion)
4. Wise (Education, intelligence & common sense follows after this)
5. Very attractive (Inside & out)

Must NOT Be:
1. Controlling
2. Cold-hearted (Not having remorse for hurting someone even if he had a good reason to hurt them)
3. Uses his "2nd head" more than the 1st one LOL
4. Shallow/closed minded
5. Unmotivated

Must Have:

Has to have honesty
Has to have loyality
Has to be able to communicate
Has to be positive and creative
Has to want to fun and live life to it's fullest

Must Not:

Must not be a liar
Must not be a cheat
Must not be disrespectful
Must not be munipulating and deceiving
Must not be boring