Sag fem with Scorp male...possibilities?

This is a fresh relationship...a month in the making. His pursuit was really strong up until now and I was always receptive, although never making myself overly available. I'd take his calls but never be the one to call first, for example. Over the Thanksgiving weekend, he offered to come by and visit 2x (he lives an hour away) and both times he bailed last minute. I never made it an issue but made it obvious that I would have liked to see him. I have not heard from him in two days...this is strange considering he's text me "good morning", etc. every day up until now. I'm wondering if I just need to give him space? Did I make myself too available?
FYI, the other day he told me that he was not ready for a commitment. I found this strange because I never said I wanted one. But, to make him feel secure, I told him it was OK and I did not expect anything from him. We could be friends and take it slow and get to now eachother. So whats with the cold shoulder all of the sudden? Am I jumping the gun and being paranoid for no reason?

You should probably just lay back and let him see if he misses you.

it seems all these men are doing the same thing, coming on strong as if they want a relationship/commitment then begin back pedaling after weeks of courting *sigh* I guess it's universal. You did nothing wrong, matter fact you did everything right and now he's CREATING problems/obstacles for you to focus on which is to make YOU create more obstacles and problems and thus it gives him an OUT.

Just a tidbit of advice, don't react to his BS, when he comes back around as if nothing is happening, keep your tone together and tell him you don't take men seriously that pop in and out of your life, you don't take men seriously that run hot and cold and then step back and don't REACT to any of his words/behavior

Scorps love control, seems he's creating obstacles to keep you focused on him, example of obstacles, coming on strong and then back pedal'n, verbally saying they don't want a relationship, inconsistent with behavior patterns and many more, all these things are to keep you focused on his behavior instead of focusing on HIM

"we sags are too polite and forgiving for our own good at-times." 2shay. Poor Miss spears. She is such a sag and has clearly been taken advatage many times. It happens with us😢


I was very into a scorp male and he was the same way. Came on very strong, would sing some of my favorite rolling stones lyrics to me on his geetar, long phone calls, sweet texts. Than outta nowhere gone! Liked to be in control in that way. They are like that. I find them quite dangerous people. The females I have know are very very sketchy and break hearts like no other. Manipulation is there middle name. As a sag I'm really bad at that. I guess all I have to go off in my relationships is honesty and kindness! Poor me😢

Thanks all for the advice and for the warm welcome! Since we're still getting to know eachother I have no idea what the rest of his signs are, but I dont think he is a cusp (11/3?)
So I layed low and did not try to contact him. Yesterday he texted me "Hey how are you?" (of course totally acting as if not talking me for days is normal). I was nonchalant and made some random funny comment, to relay the message that I was totally unaffected by his absence.
I don't want to be too rude because realistically he doesnt owe me anything. I'm not his girlfriend we are just dating, but at the same time I don't want him to think he can get away with games. Argh I guess we'll just see how it goes but for now my mantra is "Breezy!!!"