Sag Female & Sag Male Relationships

I am a Sag female that just ended a relationship with a Sag Male. I come to realize that we are too much alike and I need someone who will not do what I do. He is strong willed and stubborn and so am I. We both get busy with our lives that we forget to include each other. I need someone who will not allow me to get too busy for them. I need somone to pull me back in when I do that and not someone who will do the same thing and then months go by and you realize that you really haven't spent anytime with that person and you can't have a relationship like that. At first it was great to have someone get me when I get that way but then it got to the point where neither one of us try to keep it together because we were too busy with our lives separately.

Now, I feel myself drawn to another Sag Male and I know he feels the same way but I can't go down that road again. The one difference with this one is that he is a serious player. My Sag male wasn't at all. I enjoy the attention he gives me, which what female wouldn't. He is definately a sexy man yet, he is not grown up enough for me. I am over 10 years older than him and even his female friends or girlfriends, or whatever they are that week, get very jealous of me. I have watched it. I already told him I would never sleep with him which I am sure that is what draws him to me even more, but I do have to say that I enjoy his attention from him. I do get worried that if I allow myself alone with him, I would definately go there but, I have kept myself out of that situation.

Why the hell do I find myself wondering about someone that I know would just be a one night stand yet, I know it would completely change our friendship and I like how our friendship is. It's fun, flirty and it just makes me feel good that some young hotty has the hots for me.

Not sure where I was going with all of this but, I think I just needed to get it out.

funszie your screen name makes me want a candy bar lol


Anyway yea sag men seem to be great friends but sort of players just like sag girls. The one I liked was too. But I looked right past it because he was so smart and sexy. Ya but I couldn't sleep with him either. He had way too many escapades. Plus after a while you feel too much alike.

I really had a crush on him though.

Interesting...another sagXsag thing going on.

I was reading the first part and it worried me a little because I've been seeing a sag lately.

Anywho, I have a sag friend (another sag)who is a player as well. He loves sex and we've flirted a little before, but we're also really good friends. He helps me with my guy problems and I help him with his girl problems. I say just keep it at a friend level if hes such a player and good job with not being alone with him. haha it's tough not wanting a sexy sag male huh 😛

People would call me fun size show I figured I would use it...lol

I am going to keep the young Sag on the friend level but I am going to enjoy his attention as long as I can. He is too immature for me for any type of relationship and I want a relationship not a fling. We will stay friends though. I will even stay friends with my ex-sag as long as he doesn't become vindictive which, he may very well do since his Venus is in Scorpio and I have seen that come out alot. My in in Sag so it's tough to have someone so devious around that is a Sag. I do think the other charts make a huge difference in the total person.