lookoutbelow84093
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Sag girl games...
By the way when she asked to wait until after aprl she said she was too exhausted every day to do anything. And I saw her on May 1st, a week after Easter btw.
whats your sign?
saggis are flaky. shit, im flaky. i cancel on anyone even family. it seems to be a problem with certain signs. they see it as unrealiable and it ticks them off. as it ticked you off and you couldnt get over it to enjoy yourself.
sags are a moving target.
that other guy coulda been her cousin or her gay best friend.
what did she do to you that was so bad that you would want to make her squirm?
saggis are flaky. shit, im flaky. i cancel on anyone even family. it seems to be a problem with certain signs. they see it as unrealiable and it ticks them off. as it ticked you off and you couldnt get over it to enjoy yourself.
sags are a moving target.
that other guy coulda been her cousin or her gay best friend.
what did she do to you that was so bad that you would want to make her squirm?
Lied to me. Broke my trust. Kept me on the fence for 2 months. Wasted my time. And your completely right, I dont know who the guy is, but she invited me to come to the park once to walk her dog with her once. And she didnt exactly break stride when she saw me. My best friend who was there and knows the situation said, "Never speak to her again and if she calls tell her in no uncertain terms to never contact you again."
Sorry im a Libra, Aquarius moon, Libra rising...
how did she break your trust? whats your venus sign?
how did she lie to you?
flaking out isnt lying. did she actually tel a fib or is her showing up in the park a lie?
flaking out isnt lying. did she actually tel a fib or is her showing up in the park a lie?
she didnt keep you on the fence. you did. you knew she was flaky from jump street. you accepted that behavior for as long as you could but you cant say that she kept you on the fence.
unless she said, dont date other people. that would be keeping you on the fence.
unless she said, dont date other people. that would be keeping you on the fence.
Its actually more complicated than what I wrote but its a little long as it is. Im cool with dating other people, she can do what she wants, but she said she didnt have time to even talk to me and she obviously did, just didnt want to. And the time thing is just disrespectful. I talked to her about it and said my time is important to me. She agreed, but then kept doing it. On the flip side of the coin she once said she ended a relationship because a guy peed off of her deck. Not exactly a criminal offence imo but if I knew it bothered her I certainly wouldnt do it... its just a respect issue.
BTW my Venus is in Virgo, what does that mean DMV?
BTW my Venus is in Virgo, what does that mean DMV?
And by the way, I dont actually want to make her squirm. To be quite honest I want her to respect me long enough to hang out once or twice to see if its fun or the sex is good 😉
oh ok. she doesnt mean anything by the flakiness. its innate within us. im surprised that i still have friends as much as i flake.
now that i remember, my libra fling used to get pissed off that i would flake out on him. it was usually due to me just not being interested in hanging out at the moment, someone else had my attention, or i was just busy. he used to get upset 2.
so i feel your pain.
you just gotta grab her attention. i think scorpdiva had the same problem with her ex saggi.
now that i remember, my libra fling used to get pissed off that i would flake out on him. it was usually due to me just not being interested in hanging out at the moment, someone else had my attention, or i was just busy. he used to get upset 2.
so i feel your pain.
you just gotta grab her attention. i think scorpdiva had the same problem with her ex saggi.
Hmm ok, good insight. Any suggestions on getting her attention? I was uber pissed.... but I gave it some thought and well... I dont have much to lose... will be extremely cautious.
do u know her work schedule? if so, call her up and ask her out. make sure its a day she doesnt work. then take her out and for something fun. no stuffy candlelit dinners.
my libra fling used to take me to bar with a pole and we would sit there and flirt about this and that.
my libra fling used to take me to bar with a pole and we would sit there and flirt about this and that.
pole dancing... I like it.
Hmm... I honestly don't see anything wrong with her behavior, but that's the Sag inside me that says that. DMV is right we tend to be like that but for us is completely normal, we don't do it in a mean way.
Sorry to say it but in my opinion I think she is simply not interested in you, you are being a bit too pushy, I think I've been in her position before and I find it annoying when the guy pushes me too much to go out with when I am simply busy (with work/school) or not in the mood and I tend to act just like she did (I know it's wrong but in my head I don't feel like it is) and I usually apologize to the guy for my behavior.
I think you should just give her some space and wait for her to contact you, if she is interested you will know it.
Sorry to say it but in my opinion I think she is simply not interested in you, you are being a bit too pushy, I think I've been in her position before and I find it annoying when the guy pushes me too much to go out with when I am simply busy (with work/school) or not in the mood and I tend to act just like she did (I know it's wrong but in my head I don't feel like it is) and I usually apologize to the guy for my behavior.
I think you should just give her some space and wait for her to contact you, if she is interested you will know it.
I know I like it when a guy falls back a little. Show me you're interested, but be very casual about any plans to hang out. I don't know, but when guys push me for a "date" I get a little put off and back away. I'm weird I know. Now once we spend time together, then it's al good. Let's plan stuff and be together. But in the beginning stages, show me you'll let me be my freespirited self, then I'll trust you more. I look for any signs of a guy trying to handcuff me and I take off immediately lol.
Yeah I hear you guys for sure. However I thought about it over night and I think if you say that you have to plan things, and then make concrete plans with someone its not ok to simply blow them off, irregardless of your relationship level. Thats just disrespectful IMHO. Truth be told im not a big fan of dates or concrete plans anyway. I would rather play it by ear.
some saggis are anal and like to plan. others are very spur of the moment.
i see what your saying now. ive never made concrete plans and than skip out.
i see what your saying now. ive never made concrete plans and than skip out.
Yeah it just sucks that after all the ups and downs I wasnt much fun to hang out with, which is probably why she lost interest. Well C'est la vie I guess, if thats what she thinks is best then not much I can do.
Any idiot could see that she wasn't interested from the start. It's your fault you didn't see the signs. Don't make her suffer because you can't figure out when a girl's not interested, that's just rude and immature. Walk away from this and take it as a lesson.
Btw that wasnt meant to be rude, its just the truth.
She probably isn't interested all that much. She might of thought she would be at first then realized she wasn't. A Sag will go out of their way for you if they really want to be with you. We do have our hibernation periods and we do get consumed into our projects, whether it's work or home life. I would just let it go. She will contact you again if she likes you, otherwise let it go and move on.
Alright Kitsune I get that she wasnt showing a ton of interest, and by the way that was rude, didnt just sound rude, thanks. But then again it was all very erratic as well. Like this not showing interest behavior started before we had even seen each other, but she is the one who got a hold of me after all. And I felt like she was disrespecting my time and blowing me off, but then again your all saying thats just normal Sagittarius behavior. Not to mention I would get a flury of texts and calls two hours after we had made plans... Thats kind of the point... if I gave her the benefit of the doubt then im an idiot, if I just cut her off then im an idiot for not showing interest... And like I said earlier, im not actually trying to make her suffer, I was being a smart ass. Im just trying to learn to do better next time.
So I guess what I am really asking is... When a girl, especially a Sagittarius one, starts with this type of behavior, whats an appropriate way to say, "This really isnt ok" and make it stick without going overboard and just start arguing. Because if you let it slide then they think they can do whatever they want and lose respect for you. All of the sudden they arent interested anymore. 🙂
Posted by lookoutbelow84093
So on Sunday I went to the park to play frisbee with my friends and she walks right by me walking her dog, with another guy and says "hi" but keeps walking..
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Posted by DMV
whats your sign?
saggis are flaky. shit, im flaky. i cancel on anyone even family. it seems to be a problem with certain signs. they see it as unrealiable and it ticks them off. as it ticked you off and you couldnt get over it to enjoy yourself.
sags are a moving target.
that other guy coulda been her cousin or her gay best friend.
what did she do to you that was so bad that you would want to make her squirm?
Right. I am too. I don't mean anything by it. Just alot going on and honestly I forget things a lot of the time. Or I get distracted by something.
I heard virgo in this post. Venus huh?
Ya there is this virgo guy that I said I'd hang out with like 2 months ago but I just haven't really got around to it. I'm not playing a game with him I just think it in my mind and forget to do the action part. Just stupid really.
He sent me a txt the other day actually that was like " I want to hang" and I was like " Ya sometime soon I hope" and than he was like "sounds like never" I was like woah sorry. I didn't realize it was a big deal.
I don't know sometimes I won't see ppl for months and it just doesn't really phase me, cause I'm like I'll see the sometime and as long as we still can talk it's okay! But ya others look at it differently so I see your point.
Posted by lookoutbelow84093
Alright Kitsune I get that she wasnt showing a ton of interest, and by the way that was rude, didnt just sound rude, thanks. But then again it was all very erratic as well. Like this not showing interest behavior started before we had even seen each other, but she is the one who got a hold of me after all. And I felt like she was disrespecting my time and blowing me off, but then again your all saying thats just normal Sagittarius behavior. Not to mention I would get a flury of texts and calls two hours after we had made plans... Thats kind of the point... if I gave her the benefit of the doubt then im an idiot, if I just cut her off then im an idiot for not showing interest... And like I said earlier, im not actually trying to make her suffer, I was being a smart ass. Im just trying to learn to do better next time.
What do you mean you'd get a bunch of texts? What did she say in the texts?
No that's not normal sag behavior unless we don't have interest in you. That's the point. This ---> "Like this not showing interest behavior started before we had even seen each other, but she is the one who got a hold of me after all."
That should have been a clear sign from the beginning to stay away. Don't use "this is sagi behavior" as an excuse. That doesn't excuse how she is and what is really going on. You're not a idiot if you cut her off because clearly she's not putting in the effort. Don't give her the benefit of the doubt. Clearly the way she operates doesn't work for you now so why wait to see if it'll work for you later. There are plenty of girls out there and plenty of sags who don't do this. I, for one, am a sag who holds to her commitments of meeting. Then again I have a lot of capricorn in my chart so I am naturally responsible.
Move on. The sooner the better so you can get off these boards and into a healthy relationship.
Posted by Sagittarius89I don't know sometimes I won't see ppl for months and it just doesn't really phase me, cause I'm like I'll see the sometime and as long as we still can talk it's okay! But ya others look at it differently so I see your point.click to expand
Yeah I'm the same way, but I only do that with people I only see as friends or only have minor potential. The ones I really like, well I won't chase after them, but I will have my attention on them and make sure I hang out with them. Cus who doesn't love hanging out with the person they really like?
Meh. She probably thinks you're a nice guy, but you're plan B or maybe even C. :/
You just haven't completely captured her attention. Maybe she just hasn't spent enough time with you, or worst case scenario she does really find you a little boring.
The other girlies are right though...the pushier you are the more she's gonna be like ew get lost dude.
You have to keep it light hearted and go with the flow. You're not on a level with her yet where you can have a heart to heart and ask her to respect your time.
Yknow?
You just haven't completely captured her attention. Maybe she just hasn't spent enough time with you, or worst case scenario she does really find you a little boring.
The other girlies are right though...the pushier you are the more she's gonna be like ew get lost dude.
You have to keep it light hearted and go with the flow. You're not on a level with her yet where you can have a heart to heart and ask her to respect your time.
Yknow?
Posted by happykitsune
Any idiot could see that she wasn't interested from the start. It's your fault you didn't see the signs. Don't make her suffer because you can't figure out when a girl's not interested, that's just rude and immature. Walk away from this and take it as a lesson.
damn happy.
Posted by happykitsunePosted by Sagittarius89I don't know sometimes I won't see ppl for months and it just doesn't really phase me, cause I'm like I'll see the sometime and as long as we still can talk it's okay! But ya others look at it differently so I see your point.
Yeah I'm the same way, but I only do that with people I only see as friends or only have minor potential. The ones I really like, well I won't chase after them, but I will have my attention on them and make sure I hang out with them. Cus who doesn't love hanging out with the person they really like?click to expand
Same!
Posted by DMVPosted by happykitsune
Any idiot could see that she wasn't interested from the start. It's your fault you didn't see the signs. Don't make her suffer because you can't figure out when a girl's not interested, that's just rude and immature. Walk away from this and take it as a lesson.
damn happy.click to expand
Lol what...
Posted by WynterBourne
Maybe she meant that lookoutbelow84093 should be damn happy that the Sag's not really interested enough to drive him crazy for the rest of his life.
Lol
Posted by brianafay
Meh. She probably thinks you're a nice guy, but you're plan B or maybe even C. :/
You just haven't completely captured her attention. Maybe she just hasn't spent enough time with you, or worst case scenario she does really find you a little boring.
The other girlies are right though...the pushier you are the more she's gonna be like ew get lost dude.
You have to keep it light hearted and go with the flow. You're not on a level with her yet where you can have a heart to heart and ask her to respect your time.
Yknow?
Absoutely, I definitely agree that she isnt that interested, and, to be honest, I dont blame her. My whole goal was to hang out with her again so we could see where it goes because I can attest to the awesomeness of the Sag-Libra stuff, and we did have quite a bit of fire between us at one point. Ever feel like you havent gotten a fair shake or been unheard..? Yeah. Everyone keeps saying I havent gotten her attention... I completely agree. So my strategic options are...
1) Show up unannounced in a loin cloth with a spear loaded with the dinner I have just killed for us.... My raw manliness would win the day.
2) Make extensive use of fireworks and a posse of 10 of my closest friends, running in circles around her front yard, chanting in caveman... with torches.
3) "Accidentally" run into her and proceed to kick every other males' ass I find. Again the raw testesorone shall overcome...
Lolz seriously though ive never worked harder for a "get to know you" opportunity, and sorry but im not a B/C kind of guy. Im out. She can start leaving crap on my porch if she wants a chance 😉
psh you wish 😛
Posted by happykitsune
psh you wish 😛
Aww happy isnt happy... keep trolling someone will care.
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Posted by lookoutbelow84093Posted by brianafay
Meh. She probably thinks you're a nice guy, but you're plan B or maybe even C. :/
You just haven't completely captured her attention. Maybe she just hasn't spent enough time with you, or worst case scenario she does really find you a little boring.
The other girlies are right though...the pushier you are the more she's gonna be like ew get lost dude.
You have to keep it light hearted and go with the flow. You're not on a level with her yet where you can have a heart to heart and ask her to respect your time.
Yknow?
Absoutely, I definitely agree that she isnt that interested, and, to be honest, I dont blame her. My whole goal was to hang out with her again so we could see where it goes because I can attest to the awesomeness of the Sag-Libra stuff, and we did have quite a bit of fire between us at one point. Ever feel like you havent gotten a fair shake or been unheard..? Yeah. Everyone keeps saying I havent gotten her attention... I completely agree. So my strategic options are...
1) Show up unannounced in a loin cloth with a spear loaded with the dinner I have just killed for us.... My raw manliness would win the day.
2) Make extensive use of fireworks and a posse of 10 of my closest friends, running in circles around her front yard, chanting in caveman... with torches.
3) "Accidentally" run into her and proceed to kick every other males' ass I find. Again the raw testesorone shall overcome...
Lolz seriously though ive never worked harder for a "get to know you" opportunity, and sorry but im not a B/C kind of guy. Im out. She can start leaving crap on my porch if she wants a chance 😉click to expand
I personally liked plans 1, 2, and 3.
😄
Thnx Briana. If I thought it would have any positive effect I would probably try it, lol. But meh, I havent heard from her at all so im moving on. And prison doesnt sound fun....
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