Sag Guy Comes Back But Why

I’m a Pisces with Sag rising and he’s a Sag with Pisces rising. It’s been so long since I was closer with him that I forgot his placements.

We met years ago at a gathering, I wasn’t single and didn’t realize his being polite was flirting. Last year we briefly dated, briefly because he wasn’t honest about being over someone that he dated between that time. His ex was also really contolling including staying very involved in his social media, even moreso when she found out about me. I was very turned off by it. He is a really sweet guy but I had to distance myself.

We would see each other out socially on occasion and he would always make sure to spend time with me. There were times I also did the same but when our interactions would end in a hug and this look in his eye like he is sad, I couldn’t understand why he didn’t be more open with me. Our friends would get involved sometimes, two of them would tell me to give him a chance and when I gave him attention in a subtle but flirtatious way, he kind of acted like a jerk. Months after that, he called me in the middle of the night and I was dating someone then, the person was in bed next to me. I sent him a message during the day saying that he shouldn’t be calling me that late. I saw him out once months ago and there was no interest from me and then he was telling me about a girl he liked. It was fine

Last night he happened to be where I was. Now I am not sure how coincidence it was because the friend who told me to give him a chance also knew I would be there and he lives an hour away so did not expect to see him. We talked a little, it was nice. He stayed near where I was and was watching me for a while. It was sweet and I have been thinking about him all day. Our interactions were always innocent, we didn’t have sex in the time we dated. When he left he gave me a hug. I don’t know if he is shy with me or insecure or doesn’t know what he wants. I am tempted to ask him to hang out catch up but the time I tried and he acted like a jerk it makes me scared to. He did apologize for that time and said he was drunk. Any ideas

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