Sag: interested or not?

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InquisitiveAqua
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11 Years

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I've been on a couple dates with this sag girl. She's extremely busy with work/personal life.. I get it.
I'm an Aquarius and I'm not exactly the most forward person and I do love my independence.
I'm happy to see how it all goes but only if I know she's interested. She says she would like to get to know me.
I feel the same.. I've got several other girls chasing me but this is the one I'm most interested in. I'm not bragging, it's just part of where I am going.
All the other girls message me throughout the day and it's easier to connect with them because of this. However with this girl I am lucky to get a message or two at the end of the night despite seeing she's read them during the day. Again, people are busy yet this is an every day occurrence.
If a sag says they are interested should I take their word and not rely on texting?
The connection is there when we hang out but I suppose I would like a bit more contact between.
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Shellyd238
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If she says she is, she is. But you have to try to get more face time with her, primary communication via text is a death sentence for a new relationship, especially with an easily bored, and busy Sag.

You also have to consider if you are both on the same page, this sag may very likely not be looking of a serious relationship right now, but then again are you? If you want her to be serious about you, you have to get serious about her, and cut these other girls out.
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InquisitiveAqua
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Posted by Shellyd238
If she says she is, she is. But you have to try to get more face time with her, primary communication via text is a death sentence for a new relationship, especially with an easily bored, and busy Sag.

You also have to consider if you are both on the same page, this sag may very likely not be looking of a serious relationship right now, but then again are you? If you want her to be serious about you, you have to get serious about her, and cut these other girls out.
I'm not sure what she wants.. We haven't really discussed that. It's only been a couple dates and they were both fairly casual.
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Posted by sagiluv
As a sag. Yes if we tell you anything were usually honest. Brutally honest sometimes. We appreciate space and not being smuthured & we appreciate an honest genuine soul.
So basically I just chill out.. Lol
I do know the space is a big thing and prepared for that. Plus I get bored when they are full on right away. I was just wondering whether I should be doing the chasing or if they enjoy the challenge.
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Posted by Jamjam
Posted by sagiluv
As a sag. Yes if we tell you anything were usually honest. Brutally honest sometimes. We appreciate space and not being smuthured & we appreciate an honest genuine soul.
So basically I just chill out.. Lol
I do know the space is a big thing and prepared for that. Plus I get bored when they are full on right away. I was just wondering whether I should be doing the chasing or if they enjoy the challenge.
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The guys that have always got under my skin the most were the ones that chased. And they pushed back whenever I pushed them away. Not saying you should smother or be too pushy, but they would always just let me know they were still there and still interested, but gave me time and space to breath.